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Is it gross to fancy someone twenty years younger

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Hatethetermcougar · 11/02/2024 20:24

It feels ick to like someone that age, but I don’t feel my age (46)
Its only an actor, not anyone in real life, but still seems so young at 27 and not a crush I’d usually have
Eurgh it’s depressing, seems not long ago that all crushes were older or at least the same age

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Jungkook419 · 10/08/2026 02:47

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maxslice · 10/08/2026 02:56

A crush on an actor you don’t even know is fine, even if they are younger than you. Your fantasy is victimless and free.

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Delilah26 · 10/08/2026 03:09

It's always gross - male or female - to act on it. But you can have whatever thoughts you like, just keep them in your head.

getthroughonemoreday · 10/08/2026 03:31

LOL. Love how everyone is just ignoring the fact that this old thread has been revived by a real life 'celebritie' who just happened to notice some fans chatting about him on Mumsnet. 😅

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