Bear in mind that not everyone is reaching straight for the sick bucket and sleeping the clock round moments after the egg is fertilised. Just think how many women get to the second trimester with no idea they were pregnant at all!
It’s understandable to worry if you’ve got a positive pregnancy test but, weeks later, feel no different. Talk to your midwife or GP if you’re really concerned, but otherwise just try to think that you’re one of the lucky ones.
What twin pregnancy symptoms should I look out for?
If you have twins in your family you may be keen to know not just whether or not you are pregnant but also exactly how many bundles of joy you have in there (pray for no more than two… three at a push).
Antenatal care for twins also differs slightly from singleton pregnancies so it's good to have an early heads up of any extra appointments.
Mums of twins usually report the same sorts of symptoms but they may happen earlier and with more 'force' than they do otherwise, as hormone levels rise more quickly. So rather than feeling a little nauseous you might be sick as a dog quite early on, and instead of feeling like a nap wouldn't hurt you fall asleep face first in your dinner. You might also find you get a positive pregnancy test a little earlier than expected. If your symptoms seem a bit more 'dramatic than the average, especially if twins are in your family, it's worth mentioning when you visit your GP or book in with the midwife.
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Can symptoms tell you whether you are having a boy or a girl?
No, but it is fun to try guessing! Lots of women anecdotally report having more sickness with a girl than they did with a boy, which is thought to be because of the slightly increased levels of oestrogen when carrying a girl. But if you’re much more sick in this pregnancy than during a previous one, chances are the only thing it might ‘mean’ is that you’re carrying twins.
Here are a few more old wives’ tales (just for fun) about symptoms that are said to indicate the sex of your baby in early pregnancy:
Sugary cravings mean a girl, savoury a boy
Cold feet indicates a boy
Glowing skin and glossy hair is a boy
And finally, our favourite…
Like we said, fun to think about but don’t go putting any money on it.
How can I know for sure I’m pregnant?
A pregnancy test (either a home pregnancy test or one carried out by your GP) is the only way to get a surefire answer, especially if your periods are usually irregular, in which case a missed period could be hard to spot. It’s easy to convince yourself you’re pregnant when in fact all your ‘symptoms’ could simply herald the arrival of your period. If you get a negative pregnancy test and your period doesn’t arrive, repeat the test a week later.
If you have a positive pregnancy test, congratulations! Time to start reading up on the dos and don'ts of pregnancy, continue taking your folic acid and perhaps, rather excitingly, start sharing tips and stories with other women at your stage of pregnancy in Mumsnet Talk’s birth clubs.
Try to see your doctor or a midwife as soon as possible – the first of your antenatal appointments is known as a booking appointment and usually takes place between eight and 12 weeks. At this appointment, you’ll be asked a lot of questions about your health and cycle, and given information about screening and scans.
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