Hey so my exh and I split up a couple of years ago and there have been a lot of disputes since, mostly regarding money. Would be interesting to hear your thoughts.
Firstly our shared house was under his name and he paid all the bills related to that and our shared sons childcare. Aside from that I paid everything else and spent a few years either at home with our son when he was born or at uni. So he got to keep the house and paid me a token amount to buy me out.
Another point to note is that we bought that house in a more expensive area so our son could go to a good school.
Once all that had been sorted he started asking if I would contribute towards our sons childcare (approx 350 per month). I said no because I wasnt claiming child maintenance at the time and had every right to do so, so I certainly wouldnt be giving him money.
He said if I wouldnt pay that he would cancel the childcare. And if I claimed child maintenance he would be forced to move house, meaning our son would have to move school.
Am I being unreasonable or is he definitely a twat?
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Ex husband is a twat
Ail12385 · 28/06/2020 10:36
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