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Frustrationqueen's frustrations

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Frustrationqueen · 06/12/2017 16:26

I think i sorted the other thread.

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Frustrationqueen · 06/12/2017 16:32

Clean slate from here. My dad has my stuff.

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GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 06/12/2017 16:51

HI OP,

Not placemarkeing at all! Seriously, you are better off without the little weasel.

Glad you have your stuff back.

Frustrationqueen · 06/12/2017 16:52

He has had his mum message me asking for us to meet up to sort things out. My response was "no thank you"

Goes awol on me overnight. Texts me at half 3 to say he is done. Drops me shit off and then wants to sort it out. He must think im a complete idiot

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Frustrationqueen · 06/12/2017 16:52

My shit not me shit.
Hi greenfingers

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Xoticdreamz · 06/12/2017 16:57

I think you are doing the right thing. Far too much childlike behaviour from him. Really glad you have a supportive Dad.

Bummybum · 06/12/2017 16:58

He had his Mum message you to ask to sort things out? Good lord, you're well shot of him op!

HouseworkIsASin10 · 06/12/2017 16:59

No need to respond to any messages. That ship sailed when he sent you that text with no explanation or consideration.
You owe him nothing.

Move on now OP and focus on yourself.

BouncingIntoGraceland · 06/12/2017 17:01

Sort what out?!

Frustrationqueen · 06/12/2017 17:03

It will be because i blocked his number again after he sent the ending text. Hes had to ask his mum.

Definitely childlike behaviour. Youre right housework the ship.has sailed

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Frustrationqueen · 06/12/2017 17:05

He has made out he has ended things, even though we both know that i did that yesterday. Now hes made the finale exit handing my stuff over he wants to start the process off all over again.
Beg to get back so he can do the same old shit before with those broken promises

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TalkinBoutWhat · 06/12/2017 17:10

Frustration . I've read your other thread all the way through. You're doing the right thing, making a clean break from them.

SaturdayNightAtTheMovies · 06/12/2017 17:13

I read your thread before work this morning.

I take it you've ended it? Good for you!

What next? Onwards and upwards!

Annelind · 06/12/2017 17:16

Maybe he was trying to 'teach you a lesson' - about how shit it would be without him in your life, and thinking you'd desperately meet up with him and accept the no staying over, little physical contact etc; just to cling on to him. Ha! nope.

Whinesalot · 06/12/2017 17:20

I think you are acting in a very dignified way.

Frustrationqueen · 06/12/2017 17:24

Oh my god. He has now messaged me from his nanas messenger asking if i am going to ring or text him

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SaturdayNightAtTheMovies · 06/12/2017 17:25

Keep ignoring.

Annelind · 06/12/2017 17:29

Keep ignoring.

And ignoring......he is of no relevance now.

BouncingIntoGraceland · 06/12/2017 17:33

Block that too.

Frustrationqueen · 06/12/2017 17:36

Blocked it. Part of me feels quite bad about it all but its all his own stupid fault

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DearMrDilkington · 06/12/2017 17:42

Do not feel bad!! You've done nothing wrong. Block them all and don't answer the door unless your expecting someone. I hoped they'd leave you in peace but it seems like they're going to make things difficult.

Your doing brilliantly, don't give in!

Frustrationqueen · 06/12/2017 17:46

I wish i didnt feel bad. Its those stupid what if questions in my head again.
Not over getting back with him. Just what if the meet up to sort things out was for the thing im not discussing in this thread.

Im still not going to respond regardless of what it might be about, but i do feel a tang of guilt

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Frustrationqueen · 06/12/2017 17:47

I knew it would be when hes bored and got nothing to do! I said earlier on today

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DearMrDilkington · 06/12/2017 17:51

He will never change. Like you said his got bored and panicked because you didn't beg do him to get back with you.

This time next year you could be with a wonderful man that treats you brilliantly and you'll be so glad you made this choice. Look forwards not backwards.

happyfrown · 06/12/2017 17:55

i suspect when hes run out of numbers to message you from he will turn up at your house? ferried by nan and granddad!

Frustrationqueen · 06/12/2017 17:59

Im the type of person who will take so much and then switch off completely. I am at the point of where i could quite happily look through him at the door and close it on his face. Pretty much just what he did to me when he went awol. If he does decide to turn up at my door. So i have no worries there.

Yup hopefully this time next year i will have found someone better

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