I just do not understand dp.
We've been together 5 years. 1 house, 1 baby.
If i mention marriage to him he says he will propose when he's "ready"
What is to be ready for? We live together we have a child ffs. His life is not going to change in any major way.
I dont get it. Does that mean, hes not ready to commit to me for potentially the rest of his life? Does it mean he just doesn't want to marry me but hasn't the balls to say it?
I have no idea because when I ask him all he can tell me is he's not ready. He can't tell me what exactly he's not ready for, though.
Im starting to get to the end of my tether with it. I dont know what to think.
Neither of us have been married before. His parents are together but their marriage is frankly the worst example he could have so maybe that's part of it.
God knows. Its just making me feel like hes not ready because I am not "the one" and he is waiting for her to come along.
Im not even sure what im trying to achieve with this thread im just wallowing in my own self pity
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Cannot get my head around this!
Loveactuallyoctopus · 02/12/2017 22:17
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