"D"P just got back from work and first thing he did was walk past me and said I'm going to stay upstairs. I understand he does 11 hour days (not all working this also includes traveling) but to come back and not hug me or kiss me hello just I'm going to stay upstairs. then because I didn't tidy upstairs he went great 11 hours of housework you've done here. does he actually think I can do that much housework also look after a teething baby go out and do my things and prepare and start tea. I'm. other being nasty but if my son is crying cause he's in pain with his gums he comes first over housework. also we're going out on Sat (I organised it all) and I do understand its his only day off and he doesn't have to take us but he went who's going to pay for my petrol I said me even though your company is paying for your petrol this week and you'll have some left over, then he went who's paying for me food and I went me then he went good cause I ain't. I'm like you pig. I also mentioned how I like he's spending time with me so his response was nothing stopped you coming to my work for these 11 hours to see me if you're that bothered about spending time with me. thing is I don't drive and it takes 3 hours to get there an public transport.
I don't want to hear LTB cause he's had a bad day at work and brought it home. he's moved jobs for me and our son so that's why I'm paying for our day out as a thank you but he's just pushed some of my buttons with how I feel neglectful today.
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just want to rant.
Ahappynewmummy · 27/04/2016 17:22
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