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My DH has died in a car crash today.

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Iwant2move Fri 01-Dec-17 00:23:04

Is anyone up?

I can’t sleep.

My husband was killed in a car crash today.

We’d just moved house and he was so happy.

screamativemom Fri 01-Dec-17 00:24:35

I'm so sorry, sending hugs xxxx

Quittingthyme Fri 01-Dec-17 00:24:43

So sorry for your loss. flowers


LazyDoll Fri 01-Dec-17 00:25:37


thetigerthatcamefortea Fri 01-Dec-17 00:26:18

Oh my goodness.
I am so so sorry. You must be totally shell shocked. Have you got people with you?
I have nothing at all to say that would be of any comfort.

Finola1step Fri 01-Dec-17 00:26:37

flowersI'm so, so sorry.

WorkingItOutAsIGo Fri 01-Dec-17 00:26:38

I am so sorry. Sending you love and hugs.

Katrose Fri 01-Dec-17 00:26:40

Oh Move 😔😔😔

I'm so sorry to hear this. Would it help you to tell us about him?

CuppaTeaAndAJammieDodger Fri 01-Dec-17 00:26:43

Oh love, I’m so incredibly sorry. Do you have someone with you?

HottySnanky Fri 01-Dec-17 00:26:52

So, so sorry for your loss. Holding your hand. Sending you hugs.

HunterCatsSlave Fri 01-Dec-17 00:26:55

I want to move, I am so sorry to read that. How awful.

I'm not surprised you can't sleep.

Have you anyone with you? Anyone you can call? No one should have an issue with you needing company on such a night.

People often seem to get comfort on here by sharing stuff about their loved one...noting specific, anything at all that comes form you brain to your fingertips.


Dancinggoat Fri 01-Dec-17 00:27:10

I'm so sorrythanks

Iwant2move Fri 01-Dec-17 00:27:18

Thank you.

The police have his phone. I’ve managed to contact a few of his friends but I don’t have access to all his contacts until I get his phone.

GallicosCats Fri 01-Dec-17 00:28:28

I am so sorry for your This is a truly horrible and shocking way to lose a loved one. Hoping others will be along shortly to express their condolences less clumsily than me.

PaperdollCartoon Fri 01-Dec-17 00:28:29

I’m so sorry. You need a cuppa brew

You must be feeling utterly bereft, but it sounds like you know he was happy and feeling good about life. Better than to go with sadness around him.

What do you need?

furlinedsheepskinjacket Fri 01-Dec-17 00:28:50

oh no that's such sad news - sending a hug xx

Iwant2move Fri 01-Dec-17 00:28:52

My 22 year old son is with me. My other children are away at university.

karmacoma1 Fri 01-Dec-17 00:29:35

Oh my goodness.

I am so sorry. flowers

Is there someone you can call to be with you?

PaperdollCartoon Fri 01-Dec-17 00:29:45

Is he their father?

HitManHitMan Fri 01-Dec-17 00:29:46

What a shock for you. Deep condolences. flowers

MsHarveySpecter Fri 01-Dec-17 00:30:04

I'm so sorry for your loss.

PaperdollCartoon Fri 01-Dec-17 00:30:11

Are there any friends or family who can be with you?

LockedOutOfMN Fri 01-Dec-17 00:30:20

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I am praying for you and send you love.

WellThisIsShit Fri 01-Dec-17 00:30:43

Oh my dear, I am so so sorry. How awful and shocking. I’m so sorry.

Iwant2move Fri 01-Dec-17 00:31:27

I don’t know what I need.
I don’t want to upset my son any more than he is already. I just need to break down and I don’t want to put him under stress than he already is. I know he will try to be strong for me but it’s too much for him.

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