Name changed as this will probably out me!
Ok Xmas day is meant to be at my mums house. She's technically clinically vulnerable but she's not got anything life ending like cancer etc but does affect the quality of her life.
My friend was going to visit Xmas Eve as it's their first year after a nasty divorce and we're dreading xmas waking up without their kids, missing the fun of santa etc and so I invited to spend Xmas with my dh and kids.
My mum discovered my friend is unvaxxed and absolutely fair enough she said they couldn't go to her house so we changed plans so friend could come to us overnight on Xmas eve and we could go to my mums house Xmas lunchtime after friend went home to pick up their kids.
Now with omnicron accelerating, mum has lost it, she's completely paranoid and convinced she's going to die if she gets it. In spite of her having 3 vaccines already...
And she's said if my friend comes to visit that we can't go to visit them on Xmas day cos she doesn't want to risk it. 🤦🏼♀️
My kids are young and they will be gutted to miss Xmas with their grandparents. This is the main issue for me here.
I'm fuming cos hubby and I are around unvaxxed people all the time as we both work in public sector key worker jobs but that's not bothered her before.
My friend said they'd have a covid test before they came to visit and we said we'd have one before we went to mums so I really can't see the huge issue. (Besides a narcissist trying to control the narrative)
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BloodyC19Xmas · 15/12/2021 21:59
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