I have a big birthday this week and I’m feeling a bit low about it. My last big birthday, my DH made zero effort. No card, no balloons, no cake, no present. No surprises at all. It’s normal to be honest. He’s never made any effort on birthdays apart from when we first got together. So I know I’m being unreasonable to expect more really. How unreasonable am I? Just feels like a crap life if your partner never makes any effort. What’s the point of life if you never celebrate any occasions? So I thought I’d ask...does your partner decorate/make effort on your birthday or big birthdays?
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Fortunategirl · 05/10/2020 16:26
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