So, I'm getting married this year. DSis is Maid of Honour and took on the responsibility of planning my hen do. Fine by me, I'm pretty laid back.
Got a text from her saying 'Hen do booked and guess what??? We are going for a week!'
We hadn't agreed dates at this point, so I asked her when so I could book the time off work.
She told me the dates and I put in for the time off...-and my boss came back and said someone had already booked that week off and I couldn't have it off.
I fed this back to DSis. Response was 'but it's already booked...they can't not give you the time off...you'll have to call in sick(!!!)'
I have attempted to negotiate the time off at work to no avail as there's no cover. For more context, DSis is a teacher and hen do is booked during school hols, so wouldn't have been an issue for her.
So now, the hen do is booked, everyone has the time off BUT me and I'm not able to go on my own hen do.
I've explained it multiple times and I don't think DSIs has made any attempt to see if she can cancel/change dates. In fact, I'm told she's still organising activities.
AIBU to think this is totally ridiculous and DSis really just fancied a week holiday?? It's patently obvious it's not about me, at all.
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TheDeuteragonist · 14/01/2018 19:26
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