To ask you who you secretly fancy in RL?

[Midge1978]

Obviously we wouldn’t act on it but just for fun!

[Neverender]

Tom Hardy - obviously.

And, less obviously, David Couthard, Jay-Z and deffo Justin Beiber. Sorry and I’ve definirely outed myself to any real friends!!

[Midge1978]

What about in RL? Eg not celebrities?!

[catiinbo0ts]

My very elderly GP

[BishopstonFaffing]

My friend. It's excruciating.

[catiinbo0ts]

Doctor not grandparent FFS

[catiinbo0ts]

Also the old man that was responsible for The Titanic sinking (in the film)

[Floellabumbags]

Bloke who works in the local hardware shop (independent, proper old school shop that sells everything)

[catiinbo0ts]

I clearly have Old-Man-Fancy-Syndrome as my mate tells me

[thefirstmrsrochester]

My friend.

[MummaTwinkleToes]

My new dr but blaming it on post pregnancy hormones.

[Doyouremember]

My old manager

[BulletFox]

No-one really?! Bit sad.

[JeffreyArchersUnderpants]

My line manager.

[Firenight]

My friend. Been the case for years. Nothing will ever happen though and nor should it.

[mamaduckbone]

One of the dads at the school where I teach

[drinkswineoutofamug]

A friend

[Horses4]

One of my daughter's medical consultants. He has the most lovely accent.... 😳

[BottleBeach]

I fancy a man who’s part of a group I sing with every week. When we first met I felt like we had a connection... lots of eye contact, and he seemed to single me out to come and talk to. I can feel my pulse quicken when I find myself standing next to him while we’re singing. But I really love going to the group so I was anxious not to show how much I fancy him in case I was wrong and ended up embarrassing myself and feeling like I couldn’t go back. He hasn’t seemed as interested lately, and now I tell whether I was wrong all along; whether he did like me but now he’s got to know me more he’s gone off me; or whether I’ve been so successful at acting cool that he’s now also pretending not to like me because he thinks I’m not into him. Ridiculous. I’m 38!

[Midge1978]

Wow can’t believe how many fancy a friend! Must make things a little awkward!

[BottleBeach]

• I can’t tell

[Moanyoldcow]

My obstetrician! Hugely inappropriate but harmless enough.

[FuckerDoodleDo]

Mine is really embarrassing. Not a RL person but not a ‘celebrity’ as such. A YouTuber who is a female to male trans person - I have the hugest crush him. And before anyone jumps I’m not embarrassed because he is trans but because I’m old enough to be his mother

[Midge1978]

Mine was one of my old managers. I had the biggest crush on him, just seeing him or hearing his voice gave me butterflies. He was married with kids though and so am I!

[ilovechocolates]

My best friend, who’s male and gay. Excruciatingly is not the word!

[thenightsky]

The bloke who is in one of my local facebook groups for a certain car make (subaru). He's fixed my car for me. He must be early 30s max and I'm over 50 .