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How to fit in more me time around a 9-5 job?

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Workingmum85 · 12/03/2026 08:57

Hey, I am after any tips you may have to help inject some me time in around my 9-5. For context, i am a mum of 2 primary school aged kids and I work 37.5 hours and am solely office based.

Last year I was in a 35 hour week flexi, remote position and worked a condensed 9 day fortnight until my redundancy which is why I think I find my current set up exhausting. Below is my typical day mon-fri, any suggestions on how to carve some time for me would be appreciated

5:45 get up and do 15 minute YouTube strength training
6:15 30 minute dog walk
6:45 feed dog, make coffee, pack up kids bags and get kids breakfast
7:15 drink coffee and get myself ready
8:10 leave house (husband does school run)
9 start work
lunch time: 30 minute walk around business park
6 get home, make dinner, eat dinner
7 tidy kitchen, make packed lunches and sort stuff for following day (husband does bedtime)
8-9 this is “my” time where I try and read but usually fall asleep

I do try and get one run in at least one night and one night I ferry the kids swimming and one night I do housework

weekends are better, I do park run and spend time with my family etc but Monday to Friday is a bit work, eat, sleep, repeat. After I’ve been in my role 18 months I plan to look for something more remote/flexible but in the meantime, any words of wisdom?

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Brightsky210 · 14/03/2026 17:33

Howeasy · 12/03/2026 09:38

I’m actually failing to see where you’re not getting “me” time?! you have time in the morning, you have a walk at your lunch break, you have time in the evening. Your DH does drop off and bedtime. who does collection? Where are you spending time with your dc?

I came to say this, her husband helps out a lot and she could use her time better to do things for her however I think the walks a park run and things are already for her. Expectations are high when you’ve got a family at home I don’t find something for me in each day but I certainly love the bath I have at the end of each day “ for me” as hot as I can take with no toy dolls or a pre schooler wading in 😂

ToysRus56 · 14/03/2026 17:45

Workingmum85 · 12/03/2026 10:01

Yeah I think I will, good advice. I think my ocd over standards of cleanliness make me a bit of a control freak on this but I’ll try and let that slide a couple of evenings lol

Hello! Do you have diagnosed OCD?

Workingmum85 · 14/03/2026 17:47

ToysRus56 · 14/03/2026 17:45

Hello! Do you have diagnosed OCD?

Yes alongside autism, was diagnosed in my 30s and it definitely explained a LOT 😅

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Didimum · 14/03/2026 17:55

I think you’re getting quite a lot of ‘me time’ for your situation. You just choose to exercise with it every day. Sorry, can’t see the real complaint here.

Girlscout1910 · 14/03/2026 21:11

I listened to an interesting podcast that says our quality of life is improved when we have control over how we spend our time. Yes you are getting time alone but the dog

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