I’ve worked for this company for 8 years. Due to internal and external industry changes, the company is moving to a new location. It is further away from where I live, three times the travel time, and would mean leaving the house before my DD (13) leaves for her school bus. I also have an older teen DS who has struggled a huge amount over the last few years. He has ASD and ADHD, and now home educated online, which works better for him and we are now seeing he is in a much better place. He can be home alone but not constantly and likes the reassurance that I work nearby and can come home if he needs me. DH works further away and has to leave the house before 7.
I asked my employer if remote or hybrid working would be possible due to the new location being further than what was involved when I first took the job. It isn’t an enormous distance but if I was jobseeking now I would discount it immediately based on travel time.
I feel stuck between moving for the stability/continuity and resigning before the move and finding another job closer to home (or remote) for my children’s needs.
What do you think - move or resign?