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Sexism or am I just s***?

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ageingcrone · 04/01/2005 15:20

I'd really appreciate your thoughts and advice here - I've worked with this company for almost 5 years and took 6 months on mat leave last year - have now been back 9 months. Am reasonably senior and - I thought - respected. While I was on mat leave the company recruited a man to fill in for me and he was kept on.

When I came back Replacement Dude made it clear that he thinks I'm shit (feeling is 100% mutual) and has been very obstructive. So we have never had a good reln. My boss just tells me that I need to rise above it which I try to do. However, I have just found out that he is paid £35k more than me, to do part of the job I used to do. I found out because he sent the salaries spreadsheet to the whole team so not only do I know, but the everyone who works for me knows. I do all the new business, marketing, team managament and handle 80% of the business. He has one account and contributes nothing else.

I'm so hurt and angry I don't know what to do. What would you do?

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Freckle · 07/01/2005 15:58

And how long are you going to have to wait until he "addresses the issue"?? What's to address? Either he ups your salary to that of your colleague or you look into a sex discrimination claim. Simple choice really.

Blackduck · 07/01/2005 16:00

Agree with Freckle - I'd want a timeframe on this 'addressing the issue' sounds like another delaying tactic to me...

alicatsg · 10/01/2005 11:50

yep - I've told him I want resolution by end of this week.

weightwatchingwaterwitch · 10/01/2005 12:59

Alicatsg, put confirmation of any discussions in writing (sis will be proud of me!) asap. Even if it's just 'as I explained to you, I am blah blah)

(AM NOT A LAWYER btw!)

alicatsg · 10/01/2005 13:00

Yep have done. He's a slippery fish but I'm a mean fisherwoman. (eh? who put that in my head???!)

weightwatchingwaterwitch · 10/01/2005 13:05

Marvellous, well done. Didn't mean to patronise you btw. Here's hoping you get the big pay rise you deserve.

Freckle · 10/01/2005 14:32

And if he offers a payrise which still puts you on less than your colleage, demand an explanation - and also say you assume he will be cutting back your responsiblities, so that you will be doing less work and have less responsibility than someone who is paid more than you.

alicatsg · 10/01/2005 14:34

circkey patronise away - I'm the muppet doing all the work for almost half the pay!!

Thanks Freckle - great advice.

sis · 12/01/2005 21:38

Oh WWW, I am proud of you! I've been offline for a week and have been wondering about this thread - I'm so glad there has been some progress, well done alicatsg!

weightwatchingwaterwitch · 12/01/2005 21:51

sis!

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