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Would you turn down a job if flexible working/WFH wasn't an option?

111 replies

Waferbiscuit · 23/01/2024 12:41

I've just been offered a role in the sector I work in (arts/culture) and despite advertising that the organisation supports flexible working, was told that as a senior manager they'd expect me in full time with occasional WFH e.g. 1 day/every few weeks but depending on needs, so likely less frequently. Role also involves a lot of weekend and evenings for events.

I currently WFH 2 days, onsite 3 days. Was surprised at how much having to work onsite FT was a deal-breaker for me and despite it being an interesting job am inclined to turn it down.

Is being able to WFH a deal-breaker for you?

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Devilshands · 23/01/2024 13:22

I have broached whether WFH 1 day/week could be in my contract but they don't want to agree to that.

Tbh that is a clear indicator they have no plans to let you WFH at all.

I wouldn't take the job, but I value WFH a lot and genuinely hate people (colleagues) as they often ask stupid questions when you're next to them. At least when I'm WFH I can ignore them until they go away (having used some initiative and googled the answer to their question).

TeaMistress · 23/01/2024 13:23

So they advertise as being flexible but aren't really offering any flexibility...that would be a no thank you. The world has moved on, and agile / flexible working is now the norm.

HateMyRubbishBoss · 23/01/2024 13:25

I’d turn down too, used to hybrid so it’d be a killer (especially if your colleagues end up being right fuckers)

good luck x

Riverlee · 23/01/2024 13:25

Depends on the job, pay, family situation at home and commute times

eurochick · 23/01/2024 13:25

Yes. I have no plans to work from an office 5 days a week ever again if I can help it. I hate commuting. I get more done at home.

starsinthenightskies · 23/01/2024 13:25

I wouldn’t accept it unless the money is amazing. I’m not as keen on WFH as some people (e.g. I prefer hybrid roles where staff into the office at least 2-3 times per week), but only being able to WFH every few weeks, as well as evening work, would be a no for me.

HateMyRubbishBoss · 23/01/2024 13:26

TeaMistress · 23/01/2024 13:23

So they advertise as being flexible but aren't really offering any flexibility...that would be a no thank you. The world has moved on, and agile / flexible working is now the norm.

That’s a good point

@Waferbiscuit they basically lied … you have more problems ahead of you than just the WFH situation

tenbob · 23/01/2024 13:28

It would be a dealbreaker for me, but I would be more concerned about the ringing alarm bells about an organisation that says one thing and then does something very different

If this is what they are like about WFH, then expect the same lack of transparency and honesty around career progression, pay rises, development opportunities etc

It also smacks of an antiquated culture more generally

BigFatCat2024 · 23/01/2024 13:28

I'll never work full time in an office again, I'd consider max 2 days per week (which would be significantly more office time than current) as my red line

Slimoe · 23/01/2024 13:29

I would turn it down, I also hate adverts that say wfh or flexible but upon offer they don’t mean that at all, so you’ve wasted both of our time.

dimllaishebiaith · 23/01/2024 13:31

Waferbiscuit · 23/01/2024 13:16

Great to see so many responses and interesting to see that most people feel WFH is as important as I do.

I have broached whether WFH 1 day/week could be in my contract but they don't want to agree to that. Totally appreciate that as a senior manager I need to be present especially when I first start BUT as a senior manager, I don't have any onsite perks (own office, assistant) and the offices are fairly tatty. I don't know how I'll get any work done in a busy open office 5 days/week. (Tiny violin!)

I wouldn't work for anyone who advertises flexible working but then won't agree to actually honour that on a regular basis

That's a massive red flag for an organisation that promises things it won't deliver

Clicheinaqashqai · 23/01/2024 13:32

I recently turned a job down as their idea of flexible working was occasionally doing 8-4 if needed instead of 9-5.

I am in a bit of a rut where I feel like I need to move on from my current role, but the flexibility it offers is incredible and saves us a lot of money. I would need quite a bump in pay for the same role if I had to cover extra commuting and childcare costs, plus to make up for losing time with DC.

Due to young DC I don't feel like now is the time to try and move in to a more senior role, so am basically stuck where I am until DS starts school.

Fluffywhitecloudsinthesky · 23/01/2024 13:34

Yes I'd turn it down, I work 2/3 days in office/on campus a week which is perfect, so I'd want hybrid or mostly wfh unless I lived next door.

Waferbiscuit · 23/01/2024 13:34

@Waferbiscuitthey basically lied … you have more problems ahead of you than just the WFH situation

Yes, agree. And yes, that's my frustration in arts/culture orgs where there is little £ and staff are very stretched. They want to be 'right on' and flexible but they just can't do without staff being on site.

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butterfield9 · 23/01/2024 13:35

If its a dealbreaker for you, its a dealbreaker. I work in recruitment for an arts based company and we have a role where the flex working doesnt apply, and we are really struggling to fill the role despite the very attractive salary. I think people are placing work-life balance much higher now.

butterfield9 · 23/01/2024 13:36

Clicheinaqashqai · 23/01/2024 13:32

I recently turned a job down as their idea of flexible working was occasionally doing 8-4 if needed instead of 9-5.

I am in a bit of a rut where I feel like I need to move on from my current role, but the flexibility it offers is incredible and saves us a lot of money. I would need quite a bump in pay for the same role if I had to cover extra commuting and childcare costs, plus to make up for losing time with DC.

Due to young DC I don't feel like now is the time to try and move in to a more senior role, so am basically stuck where I am until DS starts school.

Could have written it myself. Saw a dream job recently which I had a great shot at but I just couldnt take the risk to leave my current company that is REALLY flexible and supportive with childcare issues etc. Its too big a risk for me, so I have just resided to being bored for the next few years and counting my lucky stars that its one less time stressor for me.

RandomUsernameHere · 23/01/2024 13:38

It's a really good question! I WFH permanently at the moment. DC are late primary age and starting to become a bit more independent. In around 2 years time I would consider a non-flexible role, but only for a much higher salary.

DocOck · 23/01/2024 13:39

Yes if there is no flexibility, I'm not interested.

Greensleevevssnotnose · 23/01/2024 13:41

I would not go to an office again, I was last in in August and there is no need with all the technical gizmis these days.

Maddy70 · 23/01/2024 13:45

Yes. I want to be at home with my dogs and my coffee, not being disturbed by anyone

Carrotsandgrapes · 23/01/2024 13:51

Unless it was an absolute dream job, or mega money, I would turn it down, and I'd tell them why. It might focus their minds, esp in arts/culture, where they can't necessarily be competitive on salary. They should be looking to be competitive on WFH/flexibility - that's a "free" benefit for them to offer, but has a real value to staff/potential staff.

Also, the fact they advertised it as flexible and are now backtracking on that, is a red flag.

TedLasto · 23/01/2024 13:59

VanGoghsDog · 23/01/2024 12:49

Well, if it was a five minute walk from home, all the people were lovely, it was warm with a great tea selection and free lunch, then no.

But as it is, my work is nearly two hours from home, costs me c£70 a day to get to, the people are horrid, there are never any desks or meeting rooms, so yeah. We do get free breakfast though and lunch once a month.

I'm never commuting full time again, I've made a vow to myself.

Exactly this. I would turn it down also, with no hesitation.

Notmetoo · 23/01/2024 14:00

Yes definitely

Spicybeanburger · 23/01/2024 14:00

Absolutely. I'd have to be paid loads to work on site all of the time.

lookofthelioness · 23/01/2024 14:02

Yes. I'd never again accept a job with more than 2 days in the office.