I used to work for a company owned by 'friends' but left last year for many reasons.
The main reasons being I received a lot of harassment from a fellow colleague and my employer refused to take it seriously.
I was being expected to make myself available 24/7 making it impossible to be present for my children.
I handed in my notice and worked off the one month. Because I was on an annualised contract and my employer didn't always have work available for me,I had a lot of hours left over that I 'owed' them as my employer would send me home and tell me to owe him the hours another time. He would message work related questions and id be expected to do little bits without it being put down as hours worked. If I worked out how much work we all needed to do in order to not owe hours at the end of the season he would refuse to accept that and say we needed to be owing hours at the end of season.
I agreed to come back and work off some of these for free, but eventually said I couldn't do it anymore as he refused to let me work off the hours from home or promise me safety in the office without working with the colleague who had harassed me previously. I found a new job and have lost around £6000 a year in wage difference.
I've gone to acas for support but have run out of time to take it to tribunal and my ex employer is insisting I pay them back.
I've made an offer stretched out over a few years as I really cannot afford much but my ex employer is insisting it be paid back sooner.
I'm currently sat in a house with no heating as I've run out of oil and cannot afford to get more until my next pay day in three weeks time, I can barely afford a food shop so we are only managing one food shop a month. I am really struggling to keep on top of priority bills as it is so I know I cannot pay them back.
I feel as they refused to take my complaints seriously and I left for my own safety, I shouldn't have to pay them back. If I refuse my ex employers offer I could be taken to court.
As far as evidence is concerned I have very little other than a few screenshots from my ex employer admitting to being aware of what this colleague is like, he has since deleted the original message as it contained harsh words about his own partner who received the same harrassment from this colleague.
Has anyone been in a similar situation with an employer and have advice?