Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Work

Chat with other users about all things related to working life on our Work forum.

Massive gap in employment - how to work around this?

51 replies

Toastandmarmite999 · 05/01/2024 17:13

Hi,

this is following on from a post I wrote previously about finding it hard to get an interview at 53 (thanks for all your support and suggestions!)

My question is this - how on earth do I get back on track?
Let me elaborate:

I became a lone parent when my DD was 13 months old.
Once she started primary, I set myself up as a freelance PA but found it difficult to get clients, so when we moved to a new town (she was now 5) I decided to look for work in admin (before she was born I'd been an Office Manager in London).
However, I found it impossible to find anything (maybe because of a lack of recent experience in an office?) so with the Job Centre breathing very heavily down my neck, I was offered a job in garden maintenance and grabbed it - It paid well and I could fit it perfectly around school hours - I actually really enjoyed this.

But 3 years later, I began to suffer with backpain (gardening's quite physical) and decided to retrain in an industry which I was told was undersubscribed.
It is, and I found a job straight away, but it soon became clear that it wasn't the right choice for me, and having just been made 'redundant' before Christmas I'm now looking at 4 wasted years pursuing a wrong path with a now even wider gulf in my relevant employment history with regards to admin/secretarial work - Stay at home mum(3 years); Freelance PA (2 years); Gardener Maintenance (3 years); The other job that simply wasn't suitable (4 years).

I'm aware that it's not advisable to include Employment History that goes back years, so in my case what do I do? 2010 was the last time I was in an office.

I'm also aware that now having a Masters, I'm overqualified for most of the jobs I'm applying for - do I not mention this? I've deleted my Linkedin account which mentions this, but it's still online.

It's all such a mess.

I could lie, but I'm an honest person and this really doesn't sit well with me.

I could temp, but I've been told that there's no guarantee of regular work and as a lone parent with a mortgage - this is a worry.

There are so many jobs I see advertised that I could do standing on my head, but I can see why my CV doesn't portray me as someone who's followed a steady career and as well as my age, isn't getting that foot in the door.

I'd be really interested in hearing your thoughts.

Thanks.

OP posts:
Brefugee · 07/02/2025 19:41

Say you signed an NDA?

New posts on this thread. Refresh page