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Massive regret new job 2 weeks in

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shiftshock · 19/09/2023 10:13

Name changed. I recently moved jobs to take up an ostensibly more senior middle management role within my industry. The job I left I liked, and I was well thought of by the leadership team but there were limited opportunities for growth. I was persuaded to move to this new job for the same salary on the basis that I would be able to hire into the small team and they recognised the need for investment. After 2 weeks, I feel huge regret and am also massively stressed. The investment I was told would be feasible to increase the resourcing in the team now doesn't appear to be there ( I specifically asked this before accepting the role), onboarding has been non existent, and I was firefighting within 1 day of starting the role. I have had no time to get up to speed on anything and have one critical deadline after another. There was no handover with the previous incumbent yet the expectation seems to be that I know everything that is going on, and can just swing immediately into action without familiarising myself at all. I understand the need to 'hit the ground running, and I'm usually pretty good at assimilating information but I feel totally overwhelmed and unsupported. I tend to trust my gut, and my alarm bells are ringing about the unreasonable expectations. I'm pretty sure my old company would have me back. Has anyone had any experience of this? I feel so stupid. I'm relatively seasoned and experienced but have not been sleeping and crying every day since I started.

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SM4713 · 07/10/2023 09:24

Thanks for the update OP. Best of luck with it all x

Roselilly36 · 07/10/2023 10:17

You must feel like a weight has been lifted OP, good luck going forward Flowers

Startingagainandagain · 07/10/2023 11:06

No proper handover is always a red flag.

I had that in my current role.

It turned out the person who was doing my job went off sick for months, did very little when she was in post and left only 3 lines as handover notes...

She had only in the job for a year or so and before her there had been a revolving door of people in that role before her. Basically nothing had been done correctly for 2 to 3 years. So there was a massive backlog of work and a lot of things had to be restarted from scratch.

I have not settled in the role after a year so I am going to look for something else.

I do hope you can go back to your old company or find something else entirely.

shiftshock · 07/10/2023 13:01

Thanks @SM4713 @Roselilly36 - yes the relief is immense.

Sorry to hear what you are facing @Startingagainandagain - now I think about it there were so many red flags and in future I will be extremely cautious about them.

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Nowthereistwo · 10/10/2023 12:34

Great news @shiftshock

Really pleased for you. And relax...

kirinm · 10/10/2023 14:40

Well done OP! Onwards and upwards!

Gingeri · 10/10/2023 15:23

Well done op I am happy for you. I was in a similar situation myself recently. I was offered two jobs and I stupidly made the wrong choice. Thankfully the job I turned down agreed to reinstate my job offer and I am starting with them very soon. I have been feeling really down about it.

I hope you settle in quickly to your new/old job.

AMuser · 10/10/2023 15:26

Don’t move for no pay rise again though

shiftshock · 10/10/2023 19:48

Thank you all for the support- it really helped. @Gingeri so glad you've been able to get sorted and @AMuser - I definitely won't, big lesson learned there. At least I can take some learning out of this experience.

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