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Son's awful experience in first week of job

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ArmyofMunn · 17/11/2022 15:11

Sorry this is long but I wanted to get it all down!

My 18DS started his first full time job last week. He has A Levels but is not degree educated and was taken on as one of four, the other three being in their mid-to late twenties and two of them with degrees. It was with a financial services company and paid £4K more per year plus commission than another job he’d also been offered, so he was very pleased.

He spent last week and the first two days of this week completing training for the job and he's been coming home each day saying how much he loves it - the training, the people, the office, the role etc. The training has been intense, involving two powerpoint presentations per day to prove he understood the training, but in which he said he kept coming second from top.

This week, following the training, he’s had to do three mock calls to a fake customer (his line manager) and he apparently made three ‘breaches’ in total, all involving not noticing that the customer had used some wrong letters during the security checks of emails and addresses etc. He thought he’d done well though as he was confident and affable and just thought next time he’d get the breaches right. He was shocked therefore to be taken into a room after his final call by two managers and told that because of the breaches he hasn’t passed his probation week and would have to leave and couldn’t appeal!

He’s completely shocked. The company didn’t tell him that his first week was probationary and he also remembers reading clearly that breaches by employees in their first month should not be regarded as breaches. He unfortunately read this on their own system so he can’t access it now, and his employer has his contract, so he can’t check that over either.

I just think this is an absolutely terrible way to treat an employee and my son is struggling to understand how the breaches he made were so serious as to warrant being asked to leave. He did ask to opt out of their employee life insurance and pension scheme, so I’m wondering if that just didn’t go down well with them!

Does anyone on here have experience of this type of thing? Are companies allowed to treat people like this these days?

OP posts:
Stripedbag101 · 20/11/2022 17:24

ArmyofMunn · 20/11/2022 17:21

My DH was chatting to him and told him to be careful - that there is a difference between being confident and being arrogant.

Did you explore his comment about intimidating the trainer?

MajorCarolDanvers · 20/11/2022 17:25

It's not a nice way to treat someone but there's nothing he can do other than dust himself down and look for another job.

He's likely had a lucky escape though. They sound awful.

ArmyofMunn · 20/11/2022 17:38

@Stripedbag101 I've asked my DH to sit sit down with him and go over what happened.

I've been screenshotting him the most useful replies on here - you've all (mostly ) been very helpful.

He listens to DH more than me!

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Runningintolife · 20/11/2022 17:40

Sounds like he should go into sales.

lieselotte · 20/11/2022 17:51

ArmyofMunn · 19/11/2022 14:27

@Miajk I'm not sure you've read my posts properly - this doesn't really make sense.

I agree, Miajk hasn't read the comments properly.

Yes there are lots of overconfident men in workplaces and they seem to get away with it. But the OP's ds didn't get away with it, did he, so please can you all read the thread properly and make constructive comments, not nasty ones.

lieselotte · 20/11/2022 17:52

I was wondering if working for an estate agents might suit him. I was reading an article today saying they are struggling to recruit.

They'll have office staff to do the money laundering checks etc.

mondaytosunday · 20/11/2022 19:48

My stepson had a job at a call centre at 20. He was doing great, breaking his goals and coming top of sales targets many weeks. Then he made one error and 'sold' a package to someone who could not use it (some Internet thing - don't know the details) and was fired on the spot. Rules are very tight for this kind of selling. Perhaps your son fell foul of that and three strikes was out, even when in training.

Hoppinggreen · 20/11/2022 20:01

Runningintolife · 20/11/2022 17:40

Sounds like he should go into sales.

Can we just stop with this please.
I have spent a large part of my career training sales people. Just being confident etc does NOT mean a person will be good at Sales, there is a lot more to it.
Maybe OPs son could go into Sales but there is nothing in her posts that suggests he would be

Rottweilermummy · 24/11/2022 08:02

Aww sorry to hear your son has had this experience, I so hope it doesn't knock his confidence and that he gets another better and better trained job soon.
He definitely needs to get his contract the fact the company have it sounds fishy and you maybe right about him not opting into their pension and insurance scheme, but I do think he should have had more training. I get the breaches in security simple things can cause major implications so I get their concern too.
All the best to your Son

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