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Handed Notice In and All Hell Broke Loose...

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MyNameDefinatelyIsntJanet · 05/07/2018 09:05

I handed my notice in at work yesterday, it did not go the way I was expecting and I need to know where I stand legally.

For context, it's a fairly senior position, a big jump up the ladder for me and it took them 6 months to find someone to hire into my role before they got me. I've only been in the role 6 months. Over those 6 months, it's become abundantly clear that I'm not the right person for this particular role. They need someone with strategic skills and I'm a technician. I'm bloody good at my job and an industry expert, but they don't need that skill, they need someone who can do the big picture stuff with clients and that's not me. I've stopped enjoying the job and I do feel that it was mis-sold to me at the interview stage, but I'm not bitter about that. I tried it, it didn't work out.

I gave these reasons when I handed in my notice but my line manager was apoplectic with rage. She called me a liar and accused me of using her/ the company as a leg up and that this had been my intention all along (I'm going to an equally senior role in a much bigger specialist agency). This is completely untrue. The job I'm going to is a technical role and much more in line with my skill set but at the same level as now iyswim.

She walked out of the room and slammed the door behind her and told me to leave the office immediately. So I did and have had no contact since.

WTF do I do now? I haven't gone in to the office today but I've been responding to client emails as usual this morning as there's stuff I need to get done.

I've since realised I was never asked to return my signed contract when I was hired and found it in my collection of papers this morning. I have signed it, but they don't have a copy.

I REALLY don't want to go back to the office after yesterday, but I have a 6 month notice period so not having to serve this would be great. I'm not sure where I stand legally. I'm prepared to hitch up my big girl pants and go back in but I'm not sure if they're going to want that so my questions are:

Legally, do they have to pay me for my 6 month notice period even though they've asked me to leave the office (they haven't asked me to leave my position yet).

As they don't have evidence of my signed contract, do I have to serve out my 6 months?

I want to hand over things properly and make sure they've got a plan for my leaving, but should I even care about this after yesterday? I don't want to leave my team in the lurch Sad

Also, the new company is not a competitor of any kind with my current one.

Help?

OP posts:
MyNameDefinatelyIsntJanet · 06/07/2018 13:17

Oh and also, we chatted about the business direction and how it didn’t quite fit, and he’s taken it on board and he’s going to have a think what they do about my role generally.

OP posts:
BlueAnemone · 06/07/2018 13:19

Great news, now get it in writing. 😀 Maybe send a follow up email setting out your agreement, and ask for any remaining details to be clarified.

whereswaldo · 06/07/2018 13:24

De lurked to say I just got a 30% pay increase for an organisation I've worked for, for 4 years (inc one year mat leave)

So it is possible- I just kept reiterating my worth to them given the high turnover we've been facing.

Three questions for a happy job- do you enjoy it, do you feel challenged and do you feel valued. Presenting how're you re feeling in those terms can be quite illuminating for employers I think..

IJustNeedAUserName · 06/07/2018 13:28

That sounds like a result! Well Done! Only query I’d have is what does “free to leave by mutual agreement” mean?

Free to leave - as in you can tell new job now that you can start in 3 months... or you’re only free to leave at that point if old co and you both agree?

mateysmum · 06/07/2018 13:34

Yay! Common sense has prevailed. Goo luck in your new job.

Emmasmum2013 · 06/07/2018 13:38

That's fantastic!! Well done and good luck in your new job. I hope you're very happy there :)

ahouseofleaves · 06/07/2018 13:40

I would also get in writing, but CEO sounds reasonable so that shouldn't be an issue.

This is a great result. Best of luck - also in the new job.

AlwaysTheEnd · 06/07/2018 13:40

That's great news.

KirstenRaymonde · 06/07/2018 13:41

I’ve been following and not commenting but - well done, what a perfect outcome. Good luck to you. Wine

TheGoldenWolfFleece · 06/07/2018 13:44

Well done op!

RiverTam · 06/07/2018 13:47

Result! Well done, though I had absolute confidence that you'd get this fixed Grin

GarethSouthgatesRevenge · 06/07/2018 13:48

Well done. Sounds great.

SleepWarrior · 06/07/2018 13:59

Sounds like the MD was the driving force behind all the problems.

Poppyinagreenfield · 06/07/2018 14:28

your boss is a controlling piece of shit.

You however are not. To yourself be true. Go into work. Don’t let your clients down. Do not do anything that is unworthy if you. Thank them for the opportunity. Apologise for your shortcomings. Move on.

I would say good luck but I don’t need to. You will be fine.

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 06/07/2018 14:36

I agree that you should definitely put down everything you discussed in an email and send it to him as a "this is what I understood from our discussion this morning, can you please confirm that I have understood it correctly?" sort of way. Keep a paper trail.
Sounds like a result though, well done!

OhHolyJesus · 06/07/2018 14:41

Really pleased for you OP. Have loved your confidence and professional approach throughout. So glad there are women like you out there. Wishing you the best of luck for the future - hope the next three months go smoothly.

FedOut · 06/07/2018 14:47

Well done OP! Do you think your CEO has seen this thread and seen sense?

ThinkOfAWittyNameLater · 06/07/2018 15:10

I have a girl-crush on you @ColdCottage

You are bloody awesome!

If you are that way inclined, it would be great if you could get young girls to see the world as you see it, so in future more young women can feel as empowered as you do right now.

TalkinPeace · 06/07/2018 15:30

Good result NotJanet
Well done.

elfofftheshelf · 06/07/2018 15:43

Excellent result. I suspect the CEO is seeing the MD in a new light too!
Job well done.

NameChange30 · 06/07/2018 16:30

“I’ve got a 3 month notice period at which point I’m free to leave by mutual agreement and I can continue to work from the office as planned, and if the MD makes it difficult for me I’m to tell him straight away”

Great outcome, that’s exactly what I was going to suggest you ask for. 3 months seems a fair compromise and I understand your need to be in the office.

I was unemployed for a long time after being made redundant, the reason was that I took the redundancy hard and then absolutely hated being at home so I become depressed and unmotivated. During that time I learned something important about myself which is that i need to go into the office (or at least somewhere with other people) to be happy and productive.

Also, your account of your career so far is basically what I should have done in mine Grin Well done.

BewareOfDragons · 06/07/2018 16:32

Well done, OP.

Etymology23 · 06/07/2018 16:41

Well done OP! It’s so great to read when people push themselves forwards and score great opportunities for themselves!

I’m currently applying for new jobs: I told the recruitment consultant I wanted 40k. The recruitment consultant told me I could only realistically get £36k. I’m now onto the last round interview of a job I found myself where the total package is £48k. I’m 24 and feeling pretty good about myself! Just got to hope the last interview goes well.

Dr273 · 06/07/2018 16:47

Well done OP. You're an inspiration for women, AND you found it hard but did it anyway - result! Many congrats on your new job!

Graphista · 06/07/2018 17:01

Excellent news op well done

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