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Working w clients in poverty - what to wear?

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lizzieoak · 12/02/2018 18:50

One of the jobs I’ve applied for is with government, working with clients in poverty. Seeing what benefits they can get etc (& I’d be trying to see what they could have rather than what I could deny them).

A friend of mine works in the same department, though at another site. She’s not as into clothes as I am, is more conservative/casual. Dresses a bit old for her age to my taste (not that there’s anything wrong with that, just explaining the setting. And I don’t dress in anything revealing, ever, or youf, but have always liked clothes).

Anyway, my friend says that the Work culture is that you dress frumpy so as to not upset the clients. Her thinking being that they’re stressed about being poor so don’t want to see your cashmere jumper (that you got from the charity shop).

This sounds a bit patronizing, or something, to me. I have a shitload of clothes as I’m the same size I was at 20 so still have things from the 80’s (though I do not plan on wearing my orange paisley cords to work - I’m not mad and my taste has moved on). And I don’t want to dress like my mum at work!

What say you, mumsnet? Hide my light under a bushel? I can see not wearing my vintage hot pink and red paisley dress, but can’t I wear Gap office cigarette trousers and an angora jumper?

Fwiw, I live in Canada and the overall style is sporty and casual. The person who interviewed me was wearing a baggy tshirt and elastic waist bottoms.

Oh, and my friend also said that if your outfit looks too nice or interesting people will think you’re not focussed on your job, but on how you look. This sounds bonkers to me, but she swears it’s a thing.

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lizzieoak · 14/02/2018 23:15

Thanks Willow! I think either Francis has never worked in an office or is in a wildly different culture.

Luckycat, it’s not that I want to be noticed particularly for what I wear, I just really, really like clothes, I like colour and cut, and it makes me happy to wear things I like. I might think “oh, that colour looks nice on someone w hair the colour of __” (my colour), but I have a difficult time saying it looks nice on me per se.

As to camisoles, I mean all sorts really. What we call tank tops I guess are vests, plus ones with straps or silky ones with lace etc. The lace ones can look lovely or a bit naff, so I wear plain ones, generally cotton, under a sheer blouse. I don’t mind if bra straps are showing, but then I also hate padded bras and don’t get the fear of nipples being outlined on a cold day. These things exist and I am stressed enough without trying to hide them! Equally I’m not bothered if people go to lengths to hide theirs, to each their own. Also my hair obscures a certain amount of what is loitering near my shoulders.

Flats sound like a plan! My feet are too long for ballet flats but I’ve got others that’ll do.

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gillybeanz · 14/02/2018 23:22

From your first OP, I thought casual tbh. I've only read a few comments.
Like my old Geography teacher Grin, sorry, not much help.

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