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Has your partner taken paternity leave recently?

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Tom · 02/03/2004 19:04

Dear mumsnetters

I wonder if I could ask your help...
I need to find a few couples where dad has recently taken paternity leave, to get some quotes and stories for a major speech by the govt minister who introduced paternity leave - Patricia Hewitt (the minister for women).

I'd be particularly interested in dads who would not have been able to get time off after the birth had it not been for the introduction of the new law (perhaps because their employer would have said no), and also couples where the two weeks off were a particularly positive experience - for example, if mum had a traumatic birth and because of the two weeks off, the dads presence after the birth was really helpful, or perhaps dads who really took the opportunity to get stuck into the baby care during the initial two weeks, providing them with a solid start in terms of confidence and competence as far as looking after the baby.

If anyone has a good story to tell, please could you respond on the thread or email me at [email protected]

Mucho appreciated.

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highlander · 19/03/2004 14:36

Bobthebaby,I find that attitude rather wierd as well (men with babies are perverts).

It's like all the baby product adverts on TV - why are there never any dads kissing their baby's gorgeous bum?

bobthebaby · 19/03/2004 23:11

dh's boss was fine, in fact he was totally brilliant and baby and I are always welcome, he is great about sick leave when ds has a specialist visit or goes into hospital, it was my boss who suggested this.

I worked at a company where I couldn't show a "dad" with a child without "mum" also being in the photo, or a woman without a wedding ring with a child, or a child in a swimsuit. Male teachers were also branded as closet perverts. It makes me wonder why the management was so concerned about child abuse IYSWIM. None of the senior manager's wives worked outside the home for pay and there is no widows entitlement in the pension. I think they would just say they have a very defined idea of women's work and men's work. I think they are dinosaurs.

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