Shortish version of my situation.
Got hasseled at work by line manager, Director and Director of HR, for trying to attend relaxation maternity classes that fell during the work day. Despite other staff members getting this time off paid, I was not allowed to take the time unpaid, or as annual leave or to work the hours back. Oh and I do have a doctors note saying that she recommends that I do these classes, which HR said was irrelevant and didn?t affect my case at all. (PS. I met a pregnant lady who works for my branch of the NHS and she is getting three classes off and paid every week (including the relaxation class I wanted) so she can have 6 hours a week off and yet I?m being unreasonable trying to work around 2 hours. It so upsetting that getting access to these classes etc totally depends on who and how nice your line manager is)
Ended up off work with stress, due to the meetings when I was out numbered 3 to 1 and being shouted at and told how unreasonable I was being etc.
Whilst I was signed of sick I was bothered at home with phone calls and email to my personal accounts and my private mobile number, by the Director who wanted me back at work...I lost of a lot of weight due to lack of sleep and eating because I felt so bullied. My midwife wanted me to stay off work as she was concerned about the affect on my health.
Went back to work a few weeks later (against doctors advice) to be shouted at by line manager again, as I requested via health and safety to be exempt from a piece of work which involved carrying heavy equipment up stairs and climbing up and under desks to wire in stuff.
Please note this work was NOT part of my regular job just done as a favor, plus they exempted a 3 month pregnant girl from this piece of work last year but wanted me to still do it at 6.5 months pregnant and they have two other members of staff who are equally trained up in how to do this work !!!
Went back off work sick again and I'm now signed off until I am 37 weeks pregnant, though the doctors don't want me to go back until after the baby is born (neither do I)
So I am trying to sort out my maternity leave date and outstanding annual leave.
Having trouble arranging maternity date thoughout this saga, as I was told that the decision was up to my line manager not me, as to when I went on maternity. My line manager told me any date she agreed would not be set in stone, as if any work came in, I would have to work a week or two to complete it before I went on maternity leave. Which I feel is unreasonable as I wanted to go off at 37 weeks, hardly early.
I have been speaking to HR regarding my annual leave, as I have 6 weeks to take. Partly as my line manager has been refusing my annual leave requests when I was in work, HR knew this but said they couldn?t help and that annual leave was at the discretion of my line manager.
I have requested to take 3 weeks before I go on maternity leave i.e. weeks 37 to 40 (even though the doctors will sign a note for this time if I asked but I felt it was fair to do what I would have done, if I had not had any problems at work), HR have agreed I can take.
But they have told me I can not take the other three weeks at all. This is a precious three weeks which I wanted to spend after the birth with my newborn baby and I am very upset that I can?t have it.
HR have said that I can not take it between my paid and unpaid maternity leave, they will not carry it over to the next financial year nor pay me the holiday instead but that they?ll compromise. I asked what comprise is available and they said they would have to think about it, but if I can?t take, transfer or get paid what other option is there ?
I am so sick of this situation. I am half way though writing a grievance about my situation regarding the line manager and director (not that work know that yet) with the help of the union rep and I suppose I?ll just add this to the end of it.
Is there anything I should be doing to retrieve my annual leave or is HR right that I have to lose it ?
Plate of cyber chocolate biscuits to anyone that managed to read this massive post without dropping asleep ;)