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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Sarah Phillimore and Robin Moira White interviewed by Andrew Doyle

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DerekFaker · 22/01/2023 22:40

About the Scottish gender recognition bill

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ditalini · 29/01/2023 12:54

ScrollingLeaves · 29/01/2023 12:47

About RMW:
I felt very uneasy about the comparison between social workers assessing whether or not to remove children from their possibly dangerous but loved families,
and prisons assessing whether or not a male prisoner who identifies as a woman should be put with the women prisoners he identifies with.

In the case of children there is likely to be an already crucial bond with their family which may be a necessary part of the child’s well being and worth an element of risk. But there is no such bond to protect in the prison context meaning the that the women prisoners ( the child as it were) need that man.

In any case, maybe social workers are more careful than prisoner assessors.
Social workers are thinking of the child ( the women as it were). Prisoner assessors may well, according to some information ( but nothing is transparent so we can’t be sure), be thinking more of the needs of the male prisoner ( the possibly harmful family as it were) than the women ( the child).

Though I can see RMW was trying to make clear that a likelihood, or not, of harm is weighed in the balance all the time in order to assess various outcomes, I think using children in this context was not truly comparable. And, because it was emotive, and related to children, it was a psychological way to close down any argument.

Similarly the apartheid argument is troubling.

Logic and philosophy elude me and I realise there are very clever people here who may see the argument better, but I cannot understand the ‘racist’ or ‘apartheid’ argument.

Firstly the balance of power in apartheid was black people powerless/white people ruling. So here it would be women prisoners are powerless and are being told by a more powerful and stronger class to move over and let one of the powerful relatively oppressive class into their midst.

To make out a transwoman would be a powerless equivalent, RMW gave the hypothetical instance of a transwoman who has had surgery, and hormones for years. But in real life there is no law to say such a woman must have had surgery, or even that they can be checked to see probably. I am also pretty sure the ECHR advised that requiring surgery would be against a person’s human rights. (This came up originally at the time GRCs were introduced, I think.)

Another related point is that the Swedish study carried over 30 yrs of males, which was of males who had had transgender surgery, found they still had the same offending rates for violent crime as ordinary men, (though there was no survey specifically about rape). So even RMW’s hypothetical example would not necessarily translate, in real life, as a gentle, unthreatening person.

Secondly, just to be literal about segregated spaces involving the idea of race, in African countries where the majority of people are black, they do not, I feel sure, think it is apartheid or racist to separate men from women in certain contexts. They must have lavatories and schools for example where only girls and women are allowed regardless of whether they are black or white girls.

RMW tried to make out that an additional prison space for the safety and dignity of transgender males would be separating them off from society and ‘we know where that leads’. That ominous short sentence seemed to suggest a ghetto with possible death to follow, even though he did not actually say that. I personally cannot see that a third space would be anything so dire but, rather, much nicer and safer than men’s prisons while at the same time not interfering with women’s dignity and safety.

Moira's entire argument collapses with the simple fact that prisons were set up to segregate by sex.

This was done for reasons of safety and dignity that have not changed.

The apartheid argument fails because women and transwomen are not two types of women being kept apart for purely ideological and political reasons - they are being kept apart because these are single sex facilities and women and transwomen are different sexes.

The surgery and hormones argument is a shallow one that seems to suggest that you can be a male who is "pretty" enough to go to a female prison: masculine women, hairy women, ugly women are all women with the single qualifying property of being female.

TheClogLady · 29/01/2023 12:56

Book ordered!

under £6 including 3 day postage.

Amused to see it has a one star rating on eBay (sadly no written review to go with that star).

I just can’t get into kindles - when reading non fiction I like to make copious margin notes with a 4H pencil.
Could be amusing to send this to a chazza once I’ve done my ‘marking’

Sarah Phillimore and Robin Moira White interviewed by Andrew Doyle
EndlessTea · 29/01/2023 13:00

ditalini · 29/01/2023 12:54

Moira's entire argument collapses with the simple fact that prisons were set up to segregate by sex.

This was done for reasons of safety and dignity that have not changed.

The apartheid argument fails because women and transwomen are not two types of women being kept apart for purely ideological and political reasons - they are being kept apart because these are single sex facilities and women and transwomen are different sexes.

The surgery and hormones argument is a shallow one that seems to suggest that you can be a male who is "pretty" enough to go to a female prison: masculine women, hairy women, ugly women are all women with the single qualifying property of being female.

Even worse than this, RMW was arguing against males who purport to be women having their own wing in the male estate.

RMW used the ‘slippery slope’ argument, that if you start by segregating vulnerable male prisoners in their own wing, away from the general male estate, for their own safety, then it leads to something like apartheid.

It’s a crap argument. Made up by someone who sees arguing as a sport, rather than a means to verify the truth.

EndlessTea · 29/01/2023 13:05

TheClogLady · 29/01/2023 12:56

Book ordered!

under £6 including 3 day postage.

Amused to see it has a one star rating on eBay (sadly no written review to go with that star).

I just can’t get into kindles - when reading non fiction I like to make copious margin notes with a 4H pencil.
Could be amusing to send this to a chazza once I’ve done my ‘marking’

Brilliant!

😂 the one star rating. It is dull. But that is what is so dangerous. It’s like a bloody Jedi mind trick, people wave things through because it is too boring and tedious to interrogate in detail.

Could be amusing to send this to a chazza once I’ve done my ‘marking’

Yes a helpful bump back to Earth after any excitement from a sudden spike in sales 😂

ditalini · 29/01/2023 13:06

EndlessTea · 29/01/2023 13:00

Even worse than this, RMW was arguing against males who purport to be women having their own wing in the male estate.

RMW used the ‘slippery slope’ argument, that if you start by segregating vulnerable male prisoners in their own wing, away from the general male estate, for their own safety, then it leads to something like apartheid.

It’s a crap argument. Made up by someone who sees arguing as a sport, rather than a means to verify the truth.

Yes that's much worse since RMW is presumably happy chucking other vulnerable male prisoners, who are currently separated for their safety, into the general population - no recourse to the female estate for them (unless they say the magic words).

TheClogLady · 29/01/2023 13:09

Surely separate tailored accommodation within the male estate, specifically for male prisoners who say they are women, would only be ‘like apartheid’ if apartheid had been implemented for the safety and dignity of black South Africans?

Does Robin realise that that analogy makes Robin seem a wee bit colonialist? 😬

EndlessTea · 29/01/2023 13:09

ditalini · 29/01/2023 13:06

Yes that's much worse since RMW is presumably happy chucking other vulnerable male prisoners, who are currently separated for their safety, into the general population - no recourse to the female estate for them (unless they say the magic words).

Yes it is an argument against any segregation whatsoever, for any safeguarding purposes, because it leads to apartheid.

Segregating women from men, children from adults, the vulnerable from the strong.

It all leads to apartheid.

Awayyego · 29/01/2023 13:12

Surely the whole point of prison is to segregate a small number of people from society., so we’re already on the “slippery slope”, wherever that leads.

TheClogLady · 29/01/2023 13:17

Awayyego · 29/01/2023 13:12

Surely the whole point of prison is to segregate a small number of people from society., so we’re already on the “slippery slope”, wherever that leads.

Quite!

Your comment reminded me of an amusing Reddit comment I came across yesterday- had to read it twice to confirm it was a parody (the first two lines are quotes taken from higher up the thread):

Sarah Phillimore and Robin Moira White interviewed by Andrew Doyle
WarriorN · 29/01/2023 13:20

Great points from Julie Bindel on gb News earlier

twitter.com/gbnews/status/1619661336505360384?s=46&t=G9zKCJgX5W-EiuTs0eUrWA

puffyisgood · 29/01/2023 13:31

I just don't understand why on earth all of the high profile trans rights campaigners didn't, to a man, just throw all of these rapists under a bus... "all, or nearly all, of these people aren't genuinely trans, and in even in those 'unicorn' cases where it seems that the transition may be genuine, the balance of risks is such that it favours keeping the rapist out of female prisons". just bellowing out 'TWAW' in these situations is mind-bogglingly tone deaf.

nilsmousehammer · 29/01/2023 13:34

an additional prison space for the safety and dignity of transgender males would be separating them off from society and ‘we know where that leads’.

It is because, like the use of all women's spaces, the arguments have not come first leading to a drawn conclusion, but the arguments are being constructed on the hoof and retrospectively fitted to the predecided goal: which is men in women's spaces.

No.

Male prisoners with TQ+ identities can choose between the male estate or a specialist estate. It's more choice than other males get. Choosing to be in the women's space should not be an option for any male.

Likewise the whole 'oh but a specialist unit would be too far from families'

The male estate offers locality and contact
A TQ+ unit offers more freedoms and support with less locality and contact. But things like phonecalls and zoom contact could be increased, travel allowance for families increased.

Choice. Choice means accepting that when you say yes to one thing you say no to something else.

And the salami tactics are always so very, very obvious.

  • Male TQ+ prisoners should be in the women's estate even if they have to be segregated 23 hours a day because Reasons.
  • Now they're in the estate, they shouldn't be locked down 23 hours a day, more freedoms are needed cos Reasons.
  • Now they have more freedoms in the estate they should have absolute equality and parity of freedoms as the women prisoners cos Reasons.

Oh look, there are five out of six male prisoners with a history of murder and extreme sexual violence against women and children in the women's estate, and two are walking naked around a communal shower room, fully erect and with 38 women successfully terrorised in the room around them with nothing more than the hope that today isn't the day they're attacked. This is the evidence of a woman prisoner who has spoken out today.

NO.

The endless wiggle wiggle wiggle of men's rights to do what they want regardless of the appalling impact they have on freedoms must end.

EndlessTea · 29/01/2023 13:35

WarriorN · 29/01/2023 13:20

Great points from Julie Bindel on gb News earlier

twitter.com/gbnews/status/1619661336505360384?s=46&t=G9zKCJgX5W-EiuTs0eUrWA

I love that.

Somanyquestionstoaskaboutthis · 29/01/2023 13:40

Thank you those who have replied to my post. This evening will be spent reading up, with a large glass of red as I think I’ll need it. If anyone has that share token I’d really appreciate it.
@WarriorN how can anybody disagree with any of Julie’s points there? Brilliant.

DameMaud · 29/01/2023 13:50

WarriorN · 29/01/2023 10:03

Posting from another thread:

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/e1e9955e-9f52-11ed-b4bb-1b45ac508ab9?shareToken=cee741126350990cbbb2afb0edc81e56

Calum Steele is general secretary of the Scottish Police Federation

This guy is having none of it

Share token care of bingbong on another thread

We are to believe that the Scottish Prison Service can keep women prisoners safe when housed with trans women (with penises), yet can’t do the same for penis-owning trans women in the male estate.

This is such an excellent point

SinnerBoy · 29/01/2023 13:52

EndlessTea

RMW used the ‘slippery slope’ argument, that if you start by segregating vulnerable male prisoners in their own wing, away from the general male estate, for their own safety, then it leads to something like apartheid.

And it's completely specious; decades ago, sex offenders and informers went on Rule 43 and we're segregated.

Now, there are entire prisons for them and it's not any sort of slope, slippery or otherwise.

RichardBarrister · 29/01/2023 14:00

puffyisgood · 29/01/2023 13:31

I just don't understand why on earth all of the high profile trans rights campaigners didn't, to a man, just throw all of these rapists under a bus... "all, or nearly all, of these people aren't genuinely trans, and in even in those 'unicorn' cases where it seems that the transition may be genuine, the balance of risks is such that it favours keeping the rapist out of female prisons". just bellowing out 'TWAW' in these situations is mind-bogglingly tone deaf.

We might want to give that question some more thought.

It is a conundrum isn’t it. The trans activists have been given every opportunity to agree to build in some safeguards especially around the sex offenders to limit their access to spaces etc .

We are constantly told that trans people are definitely not ever going to be sex offenders and pose no danger to women so some rules around that wouldn’t affect them would it?

It is also interesting that rape is arguably the most ‘male’ act possible. So if these people who identify and ‘live as’ as woman commit rape surely that is a clear indication that they are not living as a woman?

Boiledbeetle · 29/01/2023 14:03

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EndlessTea · 29/01/2023 14:05

nilsmousehammer · 29/01/2023 13:34

an additional prison space for the safety and dignity of transgender males would be separating them off from society and ‘we know where that leads’.

It is because, like the use of all women's spaces, the arguments have not come first leading to a drawn conclusion, but the arguments are being constructed on the hoof and retrospectively fitted to the predecided goal: which is men in women's spaces.

No.

Male prisoners with TQ+ identities can choose between the male estate or a specialist estate. It's more choice than other males get. Choosing to be in the women's space should not be an option for any male.

Likewise the whole 'oh but a specialist unit would be too far from families'

The male estate offers locality and contact
A TQ+ unit offers more freedoms and support with less locality and contact. But things like phonecalls and zoom contact could be increased, travel allowance for families increased.

Choice. Choice means accepting that when you say yes to one thing you say no to something else.

And the salami tactics are always so very, very obvious.

  • Male TQ+ prisoners should be in the women's estate even if they have to be segregated 23 hours a day because Reasons.
  • Now they're in the estate, they shouldn't be locked down 23 hours a day, more freedoms are needed cos Reasons.
  • Now they have more freedoms in the estate they should have absolute equality and parity of freedoms as the women prisoners cos Reasons.

Oh look, there are five out of six male prisoners with a history of murder and extreme sexual violence against women and children in the women's estate, and two are walking naked around a communal shower room, fully erect and with 38 women successfully terrorised in the room around them with nothing more than the hope that today isn't the day they're attacked. This is the evidence of a woman prisoner who has spoken out today.

NO.

The endless wiggle wiggle wiggle of men's rights to do what they want regardless of the appalling impact they have on freedoms must end.

Powerful post

Boiledbeetle · 29/01/2023 14:05

NecessaryScene · 29/01/2023 12:48

I’m fairly new to this debate. I’ve commented a couple of times on other threads but as my new name suggests, I don’t get a lot of it.

If you haven't seen it, try the evergreen Break it down for me thread.

I know someone would come to the rescue!

Notaflippinclue · 29/01/2023 14:06

Watch Howard from the Halifax singing, 'what happened'

Boiledbeetle · 29/01/2023 14:20

WarriorN · 29/01/2023 13:20

Great points from Julie Bindel on gb News earlier

twitter.com/gbnews/status/1619661336505360384?s=46&t=G9zKCJgX5W-EiuTs0eUrWA

You can hear it in these women's voices they have all had enough!

It was a good clear conversation. To paraphrase it

NO MEN AT ALL IN THE FEMALE PRISON ESTATE

GailBlancheViola · 29/01/2023 14:21

WarriorN · 29/01/2023 13:20

Great points from Julie Bindel on gb News earlier

twitter.com/gbnews/status/1619661336505360384?s=46&t=G9zKCJgX5W-EiuTs0eUrWA

Blistering and forthright -excellent.

I don't care either.

GailBlancheViola · 29/01/2023 14:22

And:

NO MEN AT ALL IN ANY SINGLE SEX FEMALE ONLY SPACE.

puffyisgood · 29/01/2023 14:24

RichardBarrister · 29/01/2023 14:00

We might want to give that question some more thought.

It is a conundrum isn’t it. The trans activists have been given every opportunity to agree to build in some safeguards especially around the sex offenders to limit their access to spaces etc .

We are constantly told that trans people are definitely not ever going to be sex offenders and pose no danger to women so some rules around that wouldn’t affect them would it?

It is also interesting that rape is arguably the most ‘male’ act possible. So if these people who identify and ‘live as’ as woman commit rape surely that is a clear indication that they are not living as a woman?

I suppose it must be the idea that a test, any test, even one as seemingly offensive as 'is the individual a multiple rapist whose womanhood was only declared after being caught for said rapes?', of an individual's trans credentials is unacceptable, that it's too much like erecting spurious/demeaning barriers in front of transitioning. it can't be anything else, right, extraordinary as it might seem?