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Will fewer men discover they have female gendered souls?

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ItsCoolForCats · 16/07/2026 12:56

The landscape has changed a lot in the last year or two in the UK. 10 years ago, if a man declared himself a women, many work policies allowed him to use women's changing rooms and toilets on the first day "presenting in his new gender". And he would be lauded as stunning and brave. Thankfully, these policies are getting binned now.

And the landscape is changing elsewhere as well. The IOC coming down on the side of protecting the female category has been really pivotal. If the Democrats in the US continue to push for men to be able to compete in women's sports, they will lose votes.

If tw have to use third spaces, won't be able to compete in women's sports or take women's honours and titles, will discovering their inner lady gendered soul become less appealing? Will.we see fewer sob stories in the metro about someone who was "femme-presenting" that day suffering the indignity of being denied entry to a female changing room?

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KnottyAuty · Yesterday 07:40

OneHardyBiscuit · 16/07/2026 15:47

No, because being transgender is an innate aspect of human identity, not a lifestyle trend driven by social perks or convenience. Decades of clinical research show that transitioning is a medically necessary treatment for gender dysphoria, and UK detransition rates remain incredibly low at just 1% to 7%—with the vast majority of those individuals stopping due to family rejection, financial barriers, or social hostility, rather than a change in identity. Denying trans women access to basic public spaces and sports won't stop people from being trans; it will only make life significantly more hostile, dangerous, and isolated for a tiny, marginalized group of people. Just a question, do you support gay rights?

Hope this helps...

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No it doesn’t help.
Your post drips with a certain arrogance/entitlement. Youve come on here to “debate” but it’s from a position of total ignorance. If you’d bothered to read some threads here or know about the founders of LGB Alliance etc you’d know that many/most people here support gay rights (although these days i find I have to add a small caveat in that i don’t support all claims made by gay activists eg the right to have sex in public/full view as a cultural heritage as was recently the case in Hampstead Heath - thats clearly not a “right”!). youre clearly just spouting talking points based on total ignorance. Medical evidence - please provide. I think you will struggle - the Finnish study doesnt match your claims. De-transition rates - how do you know when no one is counting and theres massive stigma/aggression directed at those who detransition and/or theres no NHS pathway or protocol do statistic gathering is impossible? Your post makes you sound immature and uninformed. Do better next time

KnottyAuty · Yesterday 08:12

OneHardyBiscuit · 16/07/2026 16:43

Nobody is trying to "rewrite history," but we do need to be accurate about the actual data. While referrals to GIDS (now closed) rose over the last decade and the demographic shifted toward adolescents registered female at birth, the numbers you are quoting are highly inaccurate; historically, GIDS was never "99% young boys" (the split was closer to 50:50 in its early years, such as 2011/12), and birth-assigned females made up roughly 70% to 76% of referrals at its peak, not 95%. Furthermore, while gender-critical spaces heavily promote "social contagion" theories, major clinical and pediatric bodies do not accept this as a proven scientific phenomenon, pointing instead to a reduction in intense social stigma, better awareness, and a severe lack of local youth mental health support that funneled complex cases into a single national clinic. No one is claiming that being same-sex attracted is the same thing as being transgender, but the LGB and T communities share a massive historical and political foundation because both have spent decades fighting the exact same rigid patriarchal expectations of how biological males and females "must" behave and love. Dismissing modern trans identities as a "post-modernist philosophy" ignores a century of medical development in gender-affirming care and thousands of years of culturally documented gender diversity—stating that a group of people is a "fad" doesn't make it so when official, peer-reviewed clinical data consistently shows these experiences are very real.

Just stop!
im cringing for you.
you might get away with false info elsewhere in life but you’re talking to an audience who will have read Paul Bell’s reports and heard him speak. We are obviously going to take his evidence as more reliable than yours.

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ILikeDungs · Yesterday 08:56

It is tiresome having to deal with the scolders over and over but I admit it was quite entertaining having both Masha "James Kirkup Review Writer's Fund backs GC women" and One "AI" Biscuit on the same thread.

We have always known they have no ability to argue their case. Now they rope in AI to do it for them, and AI can't do it either.

Seethlaw · Yesterday 09:01

ILikeDungs · Yesterday 08:56

It is tiresome having to deal with the scolders over and over but I admit it was quite entertaining having both Masha "James Kirkup Review Writer's Fund backs GC women" and One "AI" Biscuit on the same thread.

We have always known they have no ability to argue their case. Now they rope in AI to do it for them, and AI can't do it either.

AI can only (at best) mimic what humans do. Since no human is able to argue their case because there's no logical or reasonable argument for it, then logically AI can't do it either.

And then at worst AI outright hallucinates stuff - something they would have known if they'd looked into it, and that they both discovered in the process of using it, oops.

KnottyAuty · Yesterday 09:10

Seethlaw · Yesterday 09:01

AI can only (at best) mimic what humans do. Since no human is able to argue their case because there's no logical or reasonable argument for it, then logically AI can't do it either.

And then at worst AI outright hallucinates stuff - something they would have known if they'd looked into it, and that they both discovered in the process of using it, oops.

Hallucinates? Or regurgitates the Reddit threads it is using for the language prediction? Theres a lot of untruths circulated repeatedly. Garbage in = garbage out. Either way the language, formatting and phraseology is easy to spot - we could say even that it doesn’t “pass” as human

notnorman · Yesterday 09:13

OneHardyBiscuit · 16/07/2026 16:20

Calling this a "modern fad" completely ignores both history and science.
First, the historical reality: trans people didn't suddenly appear in the last ten years. Medical transition and gender-affirming care actually go back over a century. The Institut für Sexualwissenschaft (Institute for Sexual Science) was established in Berlin back in 1919, providing gender-affirming surgeries and support until the Nazis destroyed it and burned its research in 1933. Culturally, gender diversity has existed for thousands of years—from the Hijra in India to Two-Spirit people in Native American cultures. It is not a modern TikTok trend; it is a permanent part of human history.
Second, the connection to gay rights is deeply historical. The modern gay liberation movement was literally kicked off at the Stonewall riots in 1969, led in large part by gender-nonconforming and trans women like Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera. The idea that LGB and T are entirely separate, newly forced allies is revisionist history. Both groups have always fought against the exact same rigid expectations of how men and women "should" behave.
Third, saying people don't have "identities" contradicts decades of neurological and psychological science. Major global medical bodies—including the British Psychological Society and the American Medical Association—firmly recognize that gender identity is a deeply rooted, innate psychological structure. It’s not an "imagined reality" or a fashion statement; it's a fundamental aspect of how the human brain processes self-concept.
People have been claiming equality movements are "just a passing phase that people will get tired of" for generations. They said it about desegregation, they said it about women's liberation, and they said it about gay rights in the 80s. History has a habit of proving those predictions wrong.

Marsha was late and Sylvia wasn’t even there.
the claim the pride was started by trans people isn’t true.

Seethlaw · Yesterday 09:18

KnottyAuty · Yesterday 09:10

Hallucinates? Or regurgitates the Reddit threads it is using for the language prediction? Theres a lot of untruths circulated repeatedly. Garbage in = garbage out. Either way the language, formatting and phraseology is easy to spot - we could say even that it doesn’t “pass” as human

That's how it's called, even though it's obviously not the same kind of hallucination as a living organism would experience.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hallucination_(artificial_intelligence)

Either way the language, formatting and phraseology is easy to spot - we could say even that it doesn’t “pass” as human

I mean, even the way @OneHardyBiscuit keeps apologising for getting things wrong screams of AI to anyone who's ever chatted with an AI bot.

Hallucination (artificial intelligence) - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hallucination_(artificial_intelligence)

Lins77 · Yesterday 09:27

Seethlaw · Yesterday 09:18

That's how it's called, even though it's obviously not the same kind of hallucination as a living organism would experience.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hallucination_(artificial_intelligence)

Either way the language, formatting and phraseology is easy to spot - we could say even that it doesn’t “pass” as human

I mean, even the way @OneHardyBiscuit keeps apologising for getting things wrong screams of AI to anyone who's ever chatted with an AI bot.

I thought that too. The "I apologise, thank you for correcting me on that" type of phraseology is very typical of ChatGPT (and maybe others, but that's the one I'm more familiar with).

Bertiebiscuit · Yesterday 09:30

Totally a backlash against women gaining equality, "trans" is the manosphere showing women that all our hard fought for gains can be taken away from us simply by a bloke popping on a dress. Male supremacy by stealth

Abhannmor · Yesterday 09:33

notnorman · Yesterday 09:13

Marsha was late and Sylvia wasn’t even there.
the claim the pride was started by trans people isn’t true.

Indeed , as per Fred Sergeant who actually was there. But the Stonewall Inn would have to have been bigger than the Vatican to accommodate all the old frauds who claim to have been there for the riot.

spannasaurus · Yesterday 09:37

Abhannmor · Yesterday 09:33

Indeed , as per Fred Sergeant who actually was there. But the Stonewall Inn would have to have been bigger than the Vatican to accommodate all the old frauds who claim to have been there for the riot.

Also per Marsha P Johnson. There's footage of him stating he wasn't at Stonewall Inn when it started

BezMills · Yesterday 09:40

I heard it put this way, which made sense to me.

When you ask 'what is the answer to this question' what the LLM does instead is answer the question 'what would the answer to that question look like'.

The output can be quite close to true, or can be absolute bobbins.

The LLM can't tell the difference between 'meh, seems legit' and 'is factually/provably correct', in other words.

MassiveWordSalad · Yesterday 09:49

Another day, another poor attempt. Masha is your typical TRA, but the Biscuit person is the type who baffles me. They claim to be new to these parts, but they barge in with their hubris, AI, and links they either haven’t read or don’t understand. When I’m new to a place, I take a look around and get a feel for it before wading in two-footed. Even I, with my dodgy memory, can recall that the Williams Institute ‘study’ has been discussed many times on here before. This forum is a microcosm of modern UK feminism and there are some great minds here that have analysed everything over the years, but there is no respect or consideration from Biscuit that we may have heard it all before. Thanks as always to @Ereshkigalangcleg and @Helleofabore for always having the data to hand. One day I’ll be grown up like you too, I hope 😁

TheThirteenthFairy · Yesterday 09:54

Anyone remember that game we played with our children - 'Fact or Opinion?'
The point being that facts and opinions are two different things. I look forward to a return to those days, when someone like Heather Herbert could announce he is a woman and the rest of us with one voice will inform him 'That's your opinion'.

TheThirteenthFairy · Yesterday 10:55

OneHardyBiscuit · 16/07/2026 16:49

Apologies, I am still quite new to Mumsnet and struggling to quote and tag everyone individually as the replies are coming in fast!
To answer your question: the insistence comes from the previous comment's claim that describing trans women as "men in dresses" is simply "pointing to a truth."
If the "truth" being pointed to is that a trans woman is biologically male, and therefore can never be a woman, it inherently bases the entire definition of "woman" on biological sex (chromosomes and anatomy).
I agree entirely with the statement that women are fully formed humans. The point I am making is that reducing a person's entire identity, social reality, and humanity strictly to their biological parts is exactly what the patriarchy has historically done to keep women in a box. Rejecting that biological reductionism is a core principle of feminism

Yes, dear Biscuit, the entire definition of woman is of her biological sex. No amount of bunging in the sneaky use of 'reducing' will alter that.

Mapletree1985 · Yesterday 11:23

OneHardyBiscuit · 16/07/2026 16:49

Apologies, I am still quite new to Mumsnet and struggling to quote and tag everyone individually as the replies are coming in fast!
To answer your question: the insistence comes from the previous comment's claim that describing trans women as "men in dresses" is simply "pointing to a truth."
If the "truth" being pointed to is that a trans woman is biologically male, and therefore can never be a woman, it inherently bases the entire definition of "woman" on biological sex (chromosomes and anatomy).
I agree entirely with the statement that women are fully formed humans. The point I am making is that reducing a person's entire identity, social reality, and humanity strictly to their biological parts is exactly what the patriarchy has historically done to keep women in a box. Rejecting that biological reductionism is a core principle of feminism

See, the error in your thinking is the assumption that a person who is a woman must be entirely defined by the fact that she is a woman.

You are right that "reducing a person's entire identity, social reality, and humanity strictly to their biological parts is exactly what the patriarchy has historically done to keep women in a box."

But insisting that this can be changed by allowed human beings who are not women to join her in the box is faulty thinking.

How I live, who I love, the work I do, the kind of home I keep, my hobbies, my interests, my clothes, my hair, my human rights, the name I go by, the pronouns I choose to use - none of these make me a woman, though they make me a person. The only thing that makes me a woman is the body I inhabit, which comes with a sex that cannot be altered. That sex is what makes me a human being who is a woman. And while the body I inhabit comes with certain needs and vulnerabilities, and requires a certain kind of care, it should not be dictating any aspect of my life beyond that.

GreyskySexRealistsky · Yesterday 11:31

Great post @Mapletree1985

Most people I've personally encountered who talk about terfs supposedly "reducing women to their biology" are intersectional female academics. It thus came as no surprise to me that the poster revealed she is a student.

Helleofabore · Yesterday 12:05

The issue is, when even academics misuse data, those who are not likely to question the very logic of ‘how the fuck can any male person claim to be female when there is absolutely no experiential reference point for that claim to be valid’ are also not likely to question the soundbites that those they perceive as being in authority say.

I have been watching Dr Emma Hilton go through that misused brain scan study and she has pointed out the glaring holes in the study that we have been pointing out for years since it started being posted here. The lack of control for sexual orientation in the male people and the seemingly flawed conclusion drawn where a couple of outlier males seem to have not been removed which seem to have influenced the data range for male people. Meaning that the range for male people questionably overlap the general range for female people leading to the conclusion being able to be drawn when the reality is the male people with trans gender identities fit neatly in the ‘male range’ with no overlap of them into the ‘female range’. These are points we have been discussing for years now. Yet that study keeps being mentioned. Maybe one of the research team will reply to Emma Hilton and we will finally get clarity on it.

PrettyDamnCosmic · Yesterday 12:49

BezMills · Yesterday 09:40

I heard it put this way, which made sense to me.

When you ask 'what is the answer to this question' what the LLM does instead is answer the question 'what would the answer to that question look like'.

The output can be quite close to true, or can be absolute bobbins.

The LLM can't tell the difference between 'meh, seems legit' and 'is factually/provably correct', in other words.

LLMs are just a conjuring trick. There is nothing intelligent about AI it's just a fancy version of predictive text on your phone.

BezMills · Yesterday 13:23

Helleofabore · Yesterday 12:05

The issue is, when even academics misuse data, those who are not likely to question the very logic of ‘how the fuck can any male person claim to be female when there is absolutely no experiential reference point for that claim to be valid’ are also not likely to question the soundbites that those they perceive as being in authority say.

I have been watching Dr Emma Hilton go through that misused brain scan study and she has pointed out the glaring holes in the study that we have been pointing out for years since it started being posted here. The lack of control for sexual orientation in the male people and the seemingly flawed conclusion drawn where a couple of outlier males seem to have not been removed which seem to have influenced the data range for male people. Meaning that the range for male people questionably overlap the general range for female people leading to the conclusion being able to be drawn when the reality is the male people with trans gender identities fit neatly in the ‘male range’ with no overlap of them into the ‘female range’. These are points we have been discussing for years now. Yet that study keeps being mentioned. Maybe one of the research team will reply to Emma Hilton and we will finally get clarity on it.

plus let's say we discover there is some biological marker correlated with the worst cases of cross sex body dysmorphia.

Great news for the trans community, right?

Well imagine in that scenario, being the run of the mill middle-aged spicy straight male with a clothing/humiliation fetish (and sadly lacking that marker)? They'd be shit out of luck... hashtag sad times

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · Yesterday 15:16

Mapletree1985 · 16/07/2026 21:27

As I'm sure others will have pointed out, trans-identified people aren't denied access to public facilities or sports. They are merely expected to use the facilities and play on the sports teams that align with their biological sex. This seems fairly straightforward. To say that they aren't permitted access to facilities or sports is very misleading. They are denied access to their preferred facilities and sports, but not to the ones appropriate for their sex.

If that makes them uncomfortable - well, why is their discomfort any more or less important than my discomfort? If discomfort is going to be accepted as a valid argument for or against giving individuals access to spaces, we could almost certainly find more women uncomfortable with admitting trans-identified men into their spaces that we could find trans-indentified men uncomfortable with using men's spaces.

Similar reasoning applies to "preferred pronouns". The closer I am to someone emotionally, the more uncomfortable I am with using the pronouns that don't make sense to me. Calling a man I have known since he was a baby "she" makes me extremely uncomfortable. Who can say which is more offensive, me being coerced to use "she", or the man having to hear me say "he"? We have been told what to think, and told what is "right", without any acknowledgement that there could be other ways to think, other ethical frameworks, including the one most of us have lived with and in for the whole of our lives.

A new secular religion was cooked up in a small subsection of academia and imposed on society. No debate. But many more of us have woken up to this imposition since the pioneers started to raise awareness,

WearyAuldWumman · Yesterday 15:20

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 16/07/2026 14:48

so are you saying that we’re imagining all the male criminals coming out as trans because they’re going to prison? There’s very clear evidence that transition is being used as a power play or to give access to females in some situations.

The situation in Scotland has made this very clear, a very good example being Andrew Burns/Mr Mighty Almighty/Obi Wan Kenobi/Mitzababy/Tiffany Scott who very nearly succeeded in being transferred to the women's prison estate...in spite of the fact that it was deemed too dangerous to allow him into court for an offence committed whilst he was in prison.

WearyAuldWumman · Yesterday 15:22

OneHardyBiscuit · 16/07/2026 15:52

To suggest this is about "protecting" women's toilets ignores the actual crime data, which shows that inclusive policies do not threaten public safety. Multiple independent studies, including a landmark law-enforcement review by the Police Foundation, analysed sexual assault and safety violations in women's public facilities before and after inclusive policies were introduced; they found that such crimes remain exceedingly rare and that inclusive policies had zero impact on crime rates. In contrast, the data shows that transgender people are the ones who face overwhelming rates of violence; indeed, official UK figures from the Office for National Statistics show that trans individuals are actually twice as likely to be victims of violent crime as cisgender people. The threat in these spaces is not posed by trans women—it is faced by them. Sorry this doesn't fit your rhetoric...

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Nonsense. You'll be telling us next that poor old Katie Dolatowski was the victim because the 10 yr old girl who fought her off in Morrison's toilets in Kirkcaldy punched Katie in the balls.

Mapletree1985 · Yesterday 15:26

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · Yesterday 15:16

Similar reasoning applies to "preferred pronouns". The closer I am to someone emotionally, the more uncomfortable I am with using the pronouns that don't make sense to me. Calling a man I have known since he was a baby "she" makes me extremely uncomfortable. Who can say which is more offensive, me being coerced to use "she", or the man having to hear me say "he"? We have been told what to think, and told what is "right", without any acknowledgement that there could be other ways to think, other ethical frameworks, including the one most of us have lived with and in for the whole of our lives.

A new secular religion was cooked up in a small subsection of academia and imposed on society. No debate. But many more of us have woken up to this imposition since the pioneers started to raise awareness,

I think this may be why the oppression hierarchy has become such a critical part of the argument. Since I am "privileged" by my "cis-ness", my moral obligation is to prioritize the comfort of someone less "privileged" than me. Since trans people are "the most oppressed", they come first in the queue for having their comfort considered.

All animals are equal, but some are more equal than others. The pigs are identifying as chickens, which makes them doubly oppressed: first, because they are chickens, a historically oppressed group, and secondly because of the terrible struggle they must undergo to persuade the farm to accept them as chickens. Poor Boxer has decided the solution is to "be kinder". He's working really hard at being kind. Some chickens are helping the pigs build nests and are slipping eggs in to validate the pigs' identities. Meanwhile Benjamin is down in the bottom acre staring away into the distance and wondering when all the animals became so stupid.

Helleofabore · Yesterday 17:16

BezMills · Yesterday 13:23

plus let's say we discover there is some biological marker correlated with the worst cases of cross sex body dysmorphia.

Great news for the trans community, right?

Well imagine in that scenario, being the run of the mill middle-aged spicy straight male with a clothing/humiliation fetish (and sadly lacking that marker)? They'd be shit out of luck... hashtag sad times

Indeed, Bez. It would be a moment of great drama.

Remember when someone from the south coast of UK was going to release to the public the evidence that there was a biological marker.... that got shut down very quickly.