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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Full Council Chaos. Bristol City Council refusing to implement single sex services

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LoudDeer · Yesterday 08:47

Last night at the full council meeting women asking questions about BCC's refusal to implement the law was met with heckling from the gallery and a nonsensical word salad from council officials.

Somehow the number of questions, and goodness knows what other personal details, was leaked from within the Council offices and fed to far left activists who put out a call for attendance online. At least 100 turned up and abused and harrassed members of the public while they were speaking. At one point they were shouting at a questioners to sit down. No action was taken by council officials to maintain order.

As they left, women were met with heckling, chanting and shouting outside the building from more far left activists. The atmosphere was intimidating and abusive.

Please note, the Council agenda that evening held an item on a city wide commitment to ending VAWG. Harrassment and abuse was happening right in front of them and they not only initiated this spectacle but supported it.

Women are not safe in Bristol.

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nicepotoftea · Yesterday 13:21

pontefractals · Yesterday 13:09

It's also all very consumerist- all those flags and lanyards and badges and blahajs, not to mention the drugs and surgery - and, for all its talk of "the community" very individualistic. It's not left wing. I'm getting really TIRED of explaining that.
ETA - not tired of explaining it here so much as in other places.

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Insistence on respect for a subjective, intangible identity is also reminiscent of Prince Andrew insisting on being addressed as "Your Royal Highness".

BunfightBetty · Yesterday 13:25

pontefractals · Yesterday 13:09

It's also all very consumerist- all those flags and lanyards and badges and blahajs, not to mention the drugs and surgery - and, for all its talk of "the community" very individualistic. It's not left wing. I'm getting really TIRED of explaining that.
ETA - not tired of explaining it here so much as in other places.

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I do agree with this - that at its heart, its relentless focus on the whims and wants of the Individual (male) at the expense of the collective (females) is very firmly right wing territory.

However notwithstanding that, the left have picked it up and run with it. There, it seems to me, the focus is on suicidal empathy for who they perceive to be the oppressed. Their huge mistake is to characterise men as the oppressed and women as the oppressor, which is clearly abject nonsense to anybody who’s paying any attention to reality.

Ereshkigalangcleg · Yesterday 13:37

BunfightBetty · Yesterday 13:20

And yet the ‘progressive left’ have rolled it into the Omnicause.

It’s firmly part of the ‘progressive grab bag’ of acceptable causes and opinions all left-wingers are encouraged to espouse as a job lot, without troubling themselves to apply any critical thinking on.

It’s misogyny given a left-wing veneer of championing the supposed under-dog.

Of course, there’s also a huge amount of misogyny on the right, too. But the push to erode women’s rights in Bristol comes firmly from the left.

No matter which side it comes from, it’s a pretty extremist position to attempt to roll back women’s rights, I would have thought. And it needs to be identified as such.

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Exactly. It may be appropriation and gaslighting but it’s definitely considered a left wing position and it’s necessary to identify it as that.

ginasevern · Yesterday 13:49

AllaFieraDellEst · Yesterday 09:28

Yep, sounds like Bristol.

I'm from Brighton (I don't live there now, thankfully) and it is a very similar dynamic. You have my sympathy.

And plenty of ambient Antisemitism and open hostility to Jewish self determination in both this those places too. It's depressing.

Yep, can confirm. I'm a resident Bristolian.

LoudDeer · Yesterday 13:49

BunfightBetty · Yesterday 13:25

I do agree with this - that at its heart, its relentless focus on the whims and wants of the Individual (male) at the expense of the collective (females) is very firmly right wing territory.

However notwithstanding that, the left have picked it up and run with it. There, it seems to me, the focus is on suicidal empathy for who they perceive to be the oppressed. Their huge mistake is to characterise men as the oppressed and women as the oppressor, which is clearly abject nonsense to anybody who’s paying any attention to reality.

Whichever way it's chopped up, the standout message from last night in Bristol City Council's chamber is that women can no longer engage in democratic processes without the threat of being abused and intimidated.

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TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · Yesterday 14:15

pontefractals · Yesterday 13:09

It's also all very consumerist- all those flags and lanyards and badges and blahajs, not to mention the drugs and surgery - and, for all its talk of "the community" very individualistic. It's not left wing. I'm getting really TIRED of explaining that.
ETA - not tired of explaining it here so much as in other places.

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Denial is not just a river in Egypt then. 🙄

StSpiridian · Yesterday 15:33

One of the mumsnetters (I think) has posted about this meeting on x. Picture of a seamonster are you here? (Your username reminds me of one of my old user names!) .

As Jo Bartosch has responded and is asking for women at the meeting to message her on x.

StSpiridian · Yesterday 15:35

Children of Transitioners, also on x, have reposted their experience and report of trying to get access to female only abuse support services (unsuccessfully) in Bristol too...the link is here:

childrenoftransitioners.org/the-trans-lobby-has-destroyed-provision-for-female-abuse-victims-in-bristol-and-elsewhere-and-will-do-the-same-for-the-victims-bill/

hahabahbag · Yesterday 15:36

Women are safe in Bristol, in fact it’s one of the safest places I’ve lived. Be angry about many things but don’t make untrue statements.

StSpiridian · Yesterday 15:46

sorry don't know who haha is responding to. But thought mumsnetters might find this interesting: from 2024 though www.bristol.ac.uk/news/2024/december/policing-of-violence-against-women-and-girls.html
'Less than a quarter (24%) of the 55 studied police case files on domestic violence, rape, and serious sexual assault offences overall resulted in charges being brought against an offender, according to the findings which covered two police forces.'

and crime rates 2026 so far:
https://crimerate.co.uk/avon-somerset-police

MrsOvertonsWindow · Yesterday 15:48

hahabahbag · Yesterday 15:36

Women are safe in Bristol, in fact it’s one of the safest places I’ve lived. Be angry about many things but don’t make untrue statements.

A quick google of statistics suggest that this is not true:

"Violence against women and girls (VAWG) in Bristol is significantly higher than national averages, particularly concerning sexual violence and domestic abuse. Females in the city are 2.4 times more likely than males to be victims of domestic abuse. 1, 2, 3, 4]

Sexual Violence and Harassment

  • Bristol Rate: 4.8 per 1,000 population.
  • National Rate: 3.1 per 1,000 population across England.
  • Context: Bristol has the joint-highest rate of sexual violence among English core cities. Additionally, 38% of women in Bristol report that sexual harassment is a major local issue. 1, 2] "

Police Response and Charging Times

  • Avon and Somerset Police: The local force handling Bristol deals with roughly seven reported rapes a day on average.
  • Wait Times: Rape cases take an average of 626 days to reach a charge, which is more than double the national average of 306 days. 1]

You can review the full breakdown of local data via the Bristol JSNA Domestic Abuse Report and the Bristol Sexual Violence and Harassment JSNA.

Edited to add cross posted with @StSpiridian

Bristol to come together to raise awareness of Violence against Women and Girls

https://news.bristol.gov.uk/press-releases/534c388c-3d20-4c5e-85dd-4516951a26c1/bristol-to-come-together-to-raise-awareness-of-violence-against-women-and-girls

StSpiridian · Yesterday 15:49

can always trust @MrsOvertonsWindow to get the right stats!

pontefractals · Yesterday 15:53

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · Yesterday 14:15

Denial is not just a river in Egypt then. 🙄

I'm not denying that parties and groups who call themselves left-wing have, for their own bizarre non-reasons, adopted transactivism. I am arguing that transactivism itself is not left-wing. Being left-wing is not just "being nice", however much some people would like it to be.

LoudDeer · Yesterday 16:01

hahabahbag · Yesterday 15:36

Women are safe in Bristol, in fact it’s one of the safest places I’ve lived. Be angry about many things but don’t make untrue statements.

This is just the sort of attempt to shut a woman down that is an exemplar of last night's carry on. You add nothing to the safety of women other than a singular perspective and a chilling instruction.

I'll say what I felt and what I saw. And I dont need or seek your permission to do so.

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nicepotoftea · Yesterday 16:08

pontefractals · Yesterday 15:53

I'm not denying that parties and groups who call themselves left-wing have, for their own bizarre non-reasons, adopted transactivism. I am arguing that transactivism itself is not left-wing. Being left-wing is not just "being nice", however much some people would like it to be.

Self ID was initially proposed by Theresa May's government.

Right wing politicians only really got interested when they realised that the left were scoring an own goal.

They certainly didn't want to help a bunch of feminists defend their rights.

ForgedForDrizzleAndDisappointment · Yesterday 16:08

What other laws does Bristol Council not follow because it doesn't agree with them?

nicepotoftea · Yesterday 16:10

hahabahbag · Yesterday 15:36

Women are safe in Bristol, in fact it’s one of the safest places I’ve lived. Be angry about many things but don’t make untrue statements.

Sorry who are safe? If you want to make assertions one way or another you need to pin down who you are talking about.

Ereshkigalangcleg · Yesterday 16:26

hahabahbag · Yesterday 15:36

Women are safe in Bristol, in fact it’s one of the safest places I’ve lived. Be angry about many things but don’t make untrue statements.

Women aren’t “safe” anywhere, I highly doubt Bristol is the shining exception.

PrettyDamnCosmic · Yesterday 16:26

pontefractals · Yesterday 15:53

I'm not denying that parties and groups who call themselves left-wing have, for their own bizarre non-reasons, adopted transactivism. I am arguing that transactivism itself is not left-wing. Being left-wing is not just "being nice", however much some people would like it to be.

100% this. Transgenderism is the ultimate individualistic consumerist capitalist movement. There is nothing progressive or left wing about it.

Ereshkigalangcleg · Yesterday 16:27

nicepotoftea · Yesterday 16:08

Self ID was initially proposed by Theresa May's government.

Right wing politicians only really got interested when they realised that the left were scoring an own goal.

They certainly didn't want to help a bunch of feminists defend their rights.

Exactly. I’d argue Reform still haven’t properly cottoned onto to the absolute goldmine it is for beclowning your political opponents. Kemi knows.

Talkinpeace · Yesterday 16:29

This cartoon never gets old

Full Council Chaos. Bristol City Council refusing to implement single sex services
TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · Yesterday 16:53

Oh my mistake, the 'far right' that everyone is banging on about is, the Gender Idiots, can't believe I didn't see it before.

Tommy Robinson and India Wanaby are on the same side of the political aisle, a bit like Queers for Pally.

Sausagenbacon · Yesterday 17:04

First of all, Bristol Council needs to be sued. A lot. And now. That's the only thing that will stop this, because they seem determined to flout the law.
This

hihelenhi · Yesterday 17:10

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · Yesterday 09:53

First of all, Bristol Council needs to be sued. A lot. And now. That's the only thing that will stop this, because they seem determined to flout the law.

Secondly, can I just mention something that I have noticed gathering pace on many FWR threads recently: the use of "far left" to describe everything we don't like. To me, this is not helpful and is not accurate. The Communist Party in the UK accepts the biological fact of women, and yet is "far left."

Labelling everything you don't like, such as activists shouting women down at a council meeting, "far left" is, to my mind, as unhelpful, inaccurate, and lazy as TRAs calling all women who believe in biological reality "right wing." If we're not careful, it's going to become something that everyone says because it's an easy go-to. And before you know it, THAT is what we will spend our time arguing about with the derailers on these threads, rather than the important issues. And you know those derailers gotta derail!

What happened at the council meeting doesn't seem to me to have anything at all to do with politics, left or right. It was, and is, nothing more or less than authoritarianism. Shutting people up and intimidating people because you don't like what they are saying, or the fact that they have the right in law to say it, is authoritarianism and thuggery. And that can be right or left. Let's not be lazy in how we call it out.

Thank you. I quite agree. The "far left" "far right" framing has become extremely tiresome and is inaccurate.

As you say, the Communist party & Morning Star are both "far left". Both of them fundamentally oppose men in women's spaces and services and promote material reality and class analysis over fashionably batshit postmodernist identitarian theories of "gender". And many women in the UK who oppose "gender" ideology come from a left wing feminist background, even if many now feel politically homeless. It doesn't mean they're "conservative" or "right wing" or even "hate the left". I'm sick of this framing. We are not all a hive mind.

Left wing material feminists are not "far right" nor influenced by the right, or indeed conservative about sex roles, which anyone who understands the social history of women's rights and feminism in this country should know. And claiming ALL "lefties" agree with this ridiculous authoritarian stance as espoused by Bristol council is inaccurate. A great many don't. Because it's pathetic.

Meanwhile, I do not support political violence and authoritarianism whichever 'side' it comes from. Bristol council are failing in their duty to those they are supposed to represent. Bunch of idiots.

hihelenhi · Yesterday 17:19

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · Yesterday 16:53

Oh my mistake, the 'far right' that everyone is banging on about is, the Gender Idiots, can't believe I didn't see it before.

Tommy Robinson and India Wanaby are on the same side of the political aisle, a bit like Queers for Pally.

And yet many of us lefties do in fact OPPOSE genderwang. And on the basis of our political views, in fact.

So you're missing the point with this, really. Nobody is saying that Tommy Robinson et al support it. But there re plenty of "far left" people who oppose it, and thus it's inaccurate and lazy to claim it is the "far left" who are supporting it as if we all do. We don't. I don't consider those who do to know much about socialism or are particular "left wing" either, however they identify. They are largely middle class identitarians.