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The Bluestocking: home of the ice-cold Mojito foot-bath

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MarieDeGournay · 29/06/2026 18:06

Welcome all to the Bluestocking Women's Pub, where food and drink are free as in gluten free, calorie free, alcohol free - but still delicious. And free free too, of course.
Served by highly professional staff who are gerbils.

The Bluestocking Ice-Cold Mojito Foot-bath kept us deliciously cool through the heatwave. Come and join us, in case there's another one🌞

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PastaAllaNorma · 07/07/2026 11:49

Is blackwork the embroidery that looks like Delft tiles, Woley?

I'm too cackhanded for hand sewing (or drawing, or planing, or anything remotely dexterous) but I am in awe of those who do it.

I'm glad you've got a dentist appointment, Kitty. Dental stuff is horrible.

EmpressaurusKitty · 07/07/2026 11:57

PastaAllaNorma · 07/07/2026 11:49

Is blackwork the embroidery that looks like Delft tiles, Woley?

I'm too cackhanded for hand sewing (or drawing, or planing, or anything remotely dexterous) but I am in awe of those who do it.

I'm glad you've got a dentist appointment, Kitty. Dental stuff is horrible.

Thanks Pasta. The remaining crown has a sharp edge & I just managed to scratch my lip 😢.

As soon as I get home tonight I’m putting my teeth grinding guard on.

EdithStourton · 07/07/2026 12:06

I've tried embroidery. Well, yes. Best stick to what you CAN do, Edith... And poor Boily, staring all day at a digger she can't drive.

I had a bit of an adventure with B&B the other day, venturing for the first time into the wood on my newest 'permission'. The farmer (I know, because he told me) doesn't go in there, it's entirely unmanaged, and no footpaths run through it, so it's a small but trackless wilderness - unless you count muntjac runs as a tracks, which I don't, as I can't fit down them. Somebody goes in there - I assume without permission, as I wasn't warned - after pigeons and perhaps squirrels, and I know this because he is a lazy arse who leaves his shotgun casings lying about. This is very bad form.

We didn't get terribly far in (the dogs only because I refused to let them run wild), and that involved treading down brambles (the dogs, leapt over them), ducking under very low branches, clambering over fallen timber, wriggling through tiny gaps and generally pretzeling myself to make any progress at all. B&B found it wildly exciting (it must be Muntjac City) and I thoroughly enjoyed the unpeopled nature of the place (apart from the shotgun shells).

It took me a couple of goes to find my way out - I'd gone in through a gap in the brambles next to an oak tree, but the first oak I aimed at had no gaps near it, and the second was unreachable. I was borderline lost for about two minutes until I fought my way past (and through...) a familiar-looking hazel, into a very familiar-looking depression (that will be a sucking mire in the winter) and up the other side. B&B bounced out with 'That was FUN!' written all over them. We then waded through the chest-high grass along the field margin back to the track.

We had a short, shady and breezy walk yesterday afternoon with lots of wildlife (God, I love hares!) and Brains flushed a cock pheasant in a very economical and tidy manner. Watch and learn, Batshit, watch and learn...

PastaAllaNorma · 07/07/2026 12:15

Batshit and Brains are like Andrew Cotter's dogs in my head.

I have never seen a hare or a badger in real life and I wish very much I had.

Boiledbeetle · 07/07/2026 12:16

I'm trying to follow the tribunal but I keep getting distracted by the heavy machinery literally on my doorstep.

I've just been to look out the upstairs window and have to say I'm very impressed with their work. It's so straight, neat and tidy AND they are clearing up as they go, hence the mahoosive wagon (it's about three houses long) outside picking up all the tarmac they've just dug up.

I'll admit I am expecting the grabber to come through the window at any moment.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 07/07/2026 12:38

@PastaAllaNorma - this is the Blackwork embroidery I did for my mum, who was a mad keen iris grower - all the stitching in blue is blackwork, the rest was cross stitch.

https://peppermintpurple.com/products/dutch-tiles-iris?_pos=1&_sid=9e2ba0938&_ss=r

When I did the embroidery for ds1 and is wife, I replaced the centre section with their names, date and place of their wedding.

Blackwork dates back to Tudor times - Catherine of Aragon used to use it to decorate Henry VIII's shirts.

The piece for my mum took me ages - it was the first one I'd done - and when I sent it to mum, she said it was lovely, but the little yellow bits, on the petals, were not quite the right yellow, so would I mind if she snipped them out and redid them! The thought of my mum, with her cataracts, cutting away at something that had taken me weeks, was horrifying - but luckily my sister whipped it away from her and got it framed before she could get her scissors out. When she died, it was one of the things I brought back from her house, and it's now on the wall in my front room.

Blackwork Pattern - Dutch Tiles - Iris

Blackwork Pattern - Dutch Tiles - Iris

https://peppermintpurple.com/products/dutch-tiles-iris?_pos=1&_sid=9e2ba0938&_ss=r

DeanElderberry · 07/07/2026 12:49

That is lovely.

After 6 or possibly 7 trying days I now have a new fridge freezer (that I can't plug in for 6 hours) and a kitchen full of boxes of cold blocks and ice cubes and food I hope will survive, a sink full of containers of dodgy substances, and a bin partly full of the same.

New ff is very fancy and has a wine rack.

Resolutions, resolutions.

Earliest bb date spotted on a dodgy substance container (so far) was 2016.

Magpiecomplex · 07/07/2026 12:58

Happy World Chocolate Day, everyone. If it wasn't so hot, I could imagine the gerbils having a lot of fun with this.

PastaAllaNorma · 07/07/2026 13:04

That's absolutely gorgeous, @SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius !

AsWithGlad · 07/07/2026 13:23

Such beautiful embroidery, Wolsey, congratulations.

The thought of someone perhaps with limited vision wielding scissors anywhere near it makes me shiver.

ErrolTheDragon · 07/07/2026 13:28

Magpiecomplex · 07/07/2026 12:58

Happy World Chocolate Day, everyone. If it wasn't so hot, I could imagine the gerbils having a lot of fun with this.

It’s not terribly hot here - cloudy 20°C. And there’s always chocolate icecream, cold chocolate mousse, icy milkshakes instead of your usual hot chocolate.

MyrtleLion · 07/07/2026 13:35

Magpiecomplex · 07/07/2026 12:58

Happy World Chocolate Day, everyone. If it wasn't so hot, I could imagine the gerbils having a lot of fun with this.

World Chocolate Day arrived, as expected, in the middle of a heatwave, and the Bluestocking treated both as equally worth celebrating.

The chocolate fountain had been running since dawn, and by mid-morning Ginger had already been in it twice. The first time was framed, unconvincingly, as an inspection. The second time she made no attempt to frame it as anything, simply climbing the basin’s edge and dropping in with both arms raised, emerging seconds later dripping, delighted, and immediately announcing her intention to do it a third time. Several other gerbils have since joined her, on the grounds that no calories, no hangovers, and no digestive consequences of any kind means there is genuinely no reason not to.

Grog, who takes the fountain more seriously than anyone alive has any right to, has been overseeing the diving with the solemnity of a gerbil marshalling a procession, occasionally calling out form corrections as though this were a sport with judges. Genial has appointed herself official greeter of everyone who emerges, congratulating each gerbil on their dive regardless of its quality.

The heat, however, had begun turning the fountain’s lower reaches thin and unsatisfying, at which point Gauge intervened. Gauge does not enjoy an unsolved engineering problem sitting nearby unaddressed, and has spent the past hour rerouting the fountain’s basin through a run of copper coils that disappear into the tunnels and return considerably colder, the chocolate arriving back at the top re-tempered, glossy, and holding a snap that has made the diving considerably more dramatic — several gerbils have taken to smacking the surface first, purely for the sound. Grog has declared the coils canonically superior to the fountain’s original state and is treating the earlier arrangement as a historical curiosity, marked with a small hand-lettered placard reading Before.

What began as diving has, inevitably, become a water fight, conducted entirely in chocolate. Ginger started it, flinging a handful at Genial mid-greeting; Genial, delighted rather than offended, retaliated immediately; and the fountain’s perimeter is now a general skirmish, with Grog attempting, without success, to maintain a designated “ceremonial zone” at its centre. Gratuity has begun charging admission to spectators standing close enough to be hit, which several patrons have paid gladly.
The resulting mess has been handled by a fine, constant mist of cold fog drifting off dry ice packed beneath the serving table, which keeps hands and fur from turning sticky and has become an attraction in its own right — Ginger, between rounds, keeps walking back through it with her arms out.

Clara built a shaded structure over the seating near the bar without being asked and has said nothing about how it appeared. Glacier has installed herself beneath it and has not moved since, which several onlookers note is not meaningfully different from her usual pace. Rosie sits beside her, silent, watching the chocolate fight with what might be approval.

Gossip, meanwhile, has been circulating an account of the coils’ origins involving a Belgian monastery, a diplomatic incident, and a woman named Marjorie who does not appear to exist, which is already being repeated as established fact by at least three separate patrons.

Colin remains present, unbothered, and constitutionally unexplained.

https://myrtlelion.substack.com/p/world-chocolate-day

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SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 07/07/2026 14:00

It’s actually cool enough for hot chocolate here today, so if the gerbils can spare a minute to bring me one, with whipped cream and marshmallows, please - I would be very grateful.

The picture I posted is actually from the designers website, where I bought the pattern for my iris embroidery. I was too lazy to go and get a picture of the one I made! 🥺😂

Magpiecomplex · 07/07/2026 14:00

I want a go in the chocolate fountain!

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 07/07/2026 14:03

I have always thought that the chocolate river in the Charlie and the chocolate factory film looked far too thin to be good chocolate - I’m sure the Bluestocking’s chocolate fountain is the good stuff.

I am not a huge fan of melted chocolate, but the gerbils seem to be having a great time.

MyrtleLion · 07/07/2026 14:03

Magpiecomplex · 07/07/2026 14:00

I want a go in the chocolate fountain!

It’s open to all!

Magpiecomplex · 07/07/2026 14:14

MyrtleLion · 07/07/2026 14:03

It’s open to all!

Oh, this is fun!

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Boiledbeetle · 07/07/2026 14:18

I pity the gerbils on cleaning duty tonight!

<Heads off to queue for a go>

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 07/07/2026 14:27

These are my two embroideries.

The Bluestocking: home of the ice-cold Mojito foot-bath
The Bluestocking: home of the ice-cold Mojito foot-bath
EdithStourton · 07/07/2026 14:28

I'll have to wait for my turn until Gillian has finished swimming laps and making everyone else swim them with her.

Woley, that embroidery is stunning. I wouldn't have the patience.

ErrolTheDragon · 07/07/2026 15:21

MyrtleLion · 07/07/2026 14:03

It’s open to all!

Except Colin. He is being a Very Good Boy and not snaffling any chocolate (even if in the Bluestocking he could eat chocolate raisins with impunity) but if the gerbils can rustle up some carob drops he wouldn’t say no.

Boiledbeetle · 07/07/2026 15:46

I've just been called to the dining room.

I followed the pitiful "help me I'm stuck" cries to discover the cat, utterly convinced he was trapped, sat on the dining room table feeling very sorry for himself.

That will teach him to mess with my piles of stuff.

He's now enjoying head scritches to make him feel better.

The Bluestocking: home of the ice-cold Mojito foot-bath
The Bluestocking: home of the ice-cold Mojito foot-bath
Igneococcus · 07/07/2026 16:29

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 07/07/2026 11:30

I used to be a plasma donor, when I lived in Manchester - it was great - I could give every month, and you lay there on a lovely, contoured couch, whilst your blood was taken out and spun, to extract the red blood cells, and then they were transfused back in, whilst the plasma was taken away. Interestingly, I was told that, because I was on the pill, my plasma would be greenish, not straw coloured - and it was!

I have started doing an embroidery, for ds2 and his fiancee, to celebrate their wedding. I did one for ds1 and his wife - it's dutch tiles in blackwork embroidery, with their names, wedding date and place in the centre. And it is giving my rotator cuff a bit of a rest - all the knitting I've done recently has flared it up and made it very painful.

I am sorry to hear about your tooth, @EmpressaurusKitty - that is a real embuggerance.

My Dad used to be a plasma donor and also a regular blood donor. He worked in an iron foundry and his company allowed the plasma donation to happen during working hours without losing pay, made a nice change from the back breaking work he usually did. He was invited to a reception by the Bavarian minister president when he reached his 100th blood donation.

MyrtleLion · 07/07/2026 17:05

Igneococcus · 07/07/2026 16:29

My Dad used to be a plasma donor and also a regular blood donor. He worked in an iron foundry and his company allowed the plasma donation to happen during working hours without losing pay, made a nice change from the back breaking work he usually did. He was invited to a reception by the Bavarian minister president when he reached his 100th blood donation.

I’m assuming this wasn’t just a random congratulations by a foreign leader, but because he was in Bavaria…

Magpiecomplex · 07/07/2026 17:10

I am actually melting, who's got the mojito pool at the moment? Oh, looks like it's me! More ice please Gelid, as much as you've got.

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