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The Bluestocking: home of the ice-cold Mojito foot-bath

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MarieDeGournay · 29/06/2026 18:06

Welcome all to the Bluestocking Women's Pub, where food and drink are free as in gluten free, calorie free, alcohol free - but still delicious. And free free too, of course.
Served by highly professional staff who are gerbils.

The Bluestocking Ice-Cold Mojito Foot-bath kept us deliciously cool through the heatwave. Come and join us, in case there's another one🌞

The Bluestocking: home of the ice-cold Mojito foot-bath
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MarieDeGournay · 06/07/2026 08:44

EdithStourton · 06/07/2026 01:46

<twiddles thumbs>
Woken by itchy insect bites.
Little six-legged bastards.

Edited

Poor you, EdithFlowers
But in case Boily is reading, perhaps we should state clearly that NA6LIAB😂

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EmpressaurusKitty · 06/07/2026 08:54

If the heatwaves carry on, a north facing garden could be a good thing!

EmpressaurusKitty · 06/07/2026 09:03

MarieDeGournay · 06/07/2026 08:44

Poor you, EdithFlowers
But in case Boily is reading, perhaps we should state clearly that NA6LIAB😂

Maybe Boily could tell all the others to leave @EdithStourton alone?

MarieDeGournay · 06/07/2026 09:11

Bore da, maidin maith, Angle, and good luck with the viewing.

The ice-cold mojito footbath is going to be in demand again this week, I see the temperature is due to go up into the 30s again.

Sympathies to anybody who has to go out and work in the worst of it, as opposed to lucky ol' retired me who can shelter in the coolest part of the house, 'put my scotch and rye down/and lie down'😄

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MarieDeGournay · 06/07/2026 09:15

EmpressaurusKitty · 06/07/2026 09:03

Maybe Boily could tell all the others to leave @EdithStourton alone?

Well Kitty I think you have found a whole new income stream for Boily - a protection racket!

As long as you pay her the Nelsons* regularly, she'll tell her insect contacts to leave you alone😁

*Nelson Eddys=readies. That's genuine East End rhyming slang, I've heard it used by proper East Enders amongst themselves, so not a madey-uppy one.

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Boiledbeetle · 06/07/2026 09:24

EmpressaurusKitty · 06/07/2026 09:03

Maybe Boily could tell all the others to leave @EdithStourton alone?

Last time I tried to tell the bitey ones amongst my number to please not bite the swines unionised and bit me en masse.

Someone else will need to have a word.

MarieDeGournay · 06/07/2026 09:33

Boiledbeetle · 06/07/2026 09:24

Last time I tried to tell the bitey ones amongst my number to please not bite the swines unionised and bit me en masse.

Someone else will need to have a word.

“Assuredly, I say to you, no prophet is accepted in his own country"
😒

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Igneococcus · 06/07/2026 09:41

Magpiecomplex · 06/07/2026 08:25

Are the dimers what the immune system responds to in UV allergy? I get solar urticaria and it's miserable. I also have dyshidrotic eczema, just for fun, which always gets worse in hot weather.

Not sure, if the dimers aren't repaired quickly or correctly it can lead to mutations and even cell death. There might be some immune system involvement too but the main worry is longterm fixed mutations that can lead to cancer. There are luckily a lot DNA repair mechanisms that can take care of them but these mechanisms can get overwhelmed if there is too much damage all at once or if they happen to cells that are in the process of DNA replication (before cell division). Stupidly, mammals have lost one of the most effective thymine dimer repair systems (photo lyase) during evolution, marsupials still have it. In mammals the photolyase gene evolved to do circadian rythm stuff.

Magpiecomplex · 06/07/2026 09:42

Boiledbeetle · 06/07/2026 09:24

Last time I tried to tell the bitey ones amongst my number to please not bite the swines unionised and bit me en masse.

Someone else will need to have a word.

I think this might be a job for Giant Wombat. As a non-corporeal being she'd be safe from reprisals.

FuzzyPuffling · 06/07/2026 09:46

AngleofRepose · 06/07/2026 08:39

Bore da everyone! Lots of people up early today!

I'm on my second cup of coffee, sitting out in the garden, among the lavender, which is finally blooming. Not many bees yet, but the lavender isn't in the sun yet. As per usual, the honeybees show up first, during the first week or so, then later the bumblebees will follow. My fav is the Bombus lapidarius, with the red bum!

Also saw a Six-spot Burnet on the lavender yesterday evening. I have planted carpets of lavender to help the pollinators.

Sending soothing, non-itchy, thoughts to all those suffering from bugs and burns! 💜

Off today to view a house. It has a north-facing garden, which would be a new challenge for me. Wish me luck!

My front garden is north facing ( with a very slight touch of easy and west!) and its lovely in this weather. Very green.
I have tall roses that bloom really well, acers, ferns, pulmonaria, primroses and a large cotinus. And even an ornamental cherry tree in a large pot.
Do not be fooled that north facing is glum.

MyrtleLion · 06/07/2026 10:01

EmpressaurusKitty · 06/07/2026 07:06

About the only thing I seem to have inherited from my Italian relations is not burning.

Did the gerbils all stay up for the football, @MyrtleLion?

The gerbils didn’t stay up to watch England play Mexico.

It was so obviously going to be a thrashing that would kick England out of the real World Cup, that they all went to need instead of seeing the kickoff at 2am.

Gloop was working the night shift in case any patrons woke and wished for a drink, but she didn’t even turn on the television, until at 3am she saw the score flash up on a phone: 2-1 to England. She assumed she was dreaming. And then she turned on the TV in the snug just as Harry Kane scored a third from the penalty spot.

Mexico had there own penalty to bring the score to 3-2, but then one of the England players was sent off for a nasty foul. Playing with only 10 men and with Mexico having two-thirds of the possession, Gloop was sure England would screw up, Mexico would equalise and there would be extra time and the usual defeat in the penalty shootout.

Eleven minutes of stoppage time were added to the full 90. It was agony. Until the final whistle blew and England had done it. 3-2 to face Norway.

The Serious Scandinavians had helped Norway row to a magnificent victory over Brazil. What should have been a Brazil vs Mexico quarter final would now be Norway vs England.

Gloop did not wake the gerbils.

This was, she would later maintain under close and repeated questioning, a professional decision and not a moral failing. The Gerbil World Cup Handbook on Night Operations (Section 4, Subsection C: “Patron Disturbance, Justifiable and Otherwise”) was unambiguous: a bartender on night shift does not leave her post, and she certainly does not go bursting into burrows at 3:47am shouting about penalties. Gwendoline had drafted that subsection herself after an earlier and largely unrelated incident involving a false alarm about the sticker album.

So Gloop did what any gerbil of principle would do. She poured herself a small, commemorative thimble of dandelion cordial, sat very still in the empty snug, and watched Harry Kane’s penalty go in with the composed, glassy-eyed dignity of someone who has just seen a miracle and has nobody to tell.

She did, however, write it all down. Every detail. The eleven minutes of stoppage time. The sending off. The Mexican penalty that made it 3-2 and nearly stopped her heart. She wrote it in the Night Log, in handwriting that started off neat and had entirely fallen apart by the final whistle, ending in a single line, underlined three times like it might not be true if she only underlined it twice: ENGLAND HAVE DONE IT.

But the second Griselda arrived for the 6am changeover and read the Log, all pretence of calm procedure evaporated in about four seconds flat.

“ENGLAND ARE THROUGH,” Griselda bellowed, in a voice that had never once been raised in four tournaments, and she was out from behind the bar and hammering on burrow doors before Gloop had even capped the cordial.

It was pandemonium within minutes. Gwendoline burst out mid-hair-curler, already composing a bulletin aloud before she’d found paper, hitting eleven exclamation marks by the second sentence. Gertrude appeared clutching an entire sunflower-seed reserve she’d clearly been saving for something, took one look at the Log, and simply upended the lot onto the table in a gesture that needed no translation. Greta was already there. Greta was, infuriatingly, always already there.

Someone produced bunting. Nobody asked where the bunting had come from — there was always bunting, the same way there was always a spare marching band’s worth of enthusiasm on standby for exactly this kind of occasion. Within the hour there was a full processional forming outside HQ, Glory bobbing at the front looking, as ever, faintly astonished to have been inflated at all, and Gwendoline had upgraded the morning bulletin into what she was now calling, with no sense of proportion whatsoever, THE MIRACLE OF THE ELEVEN MINUTES.

By breakfast there was a musical.

Nobody had planned the musical. It simply arrived, fully staged, the way the Taylor Swift wedding parade had arrived, the way the Tunnel Appreciation Spectacular had arrived — as though joy in this gerbil world could only be metabolised through immediate large-scale theatrical production, with everyone in a role and Gertrude on seeds and Griselda, despite herself, conducting.

Norway, they agreed, between verses, would be a magnificent final act.

https://myrtlelion.substack.com/p/england-v-mexico

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PastaAllaNorma · 06/07/2026 10:04

@Igneococcus , that's absolutely fascinating, thank you! That is my favourite new fact of the day.

Yesterday's favourite was that pigeons have a sort of magnet compass in their liver cells and cryptocryome molecules in their eyes to help them 'see' magnetic fields to navigate by.

And there I was thinking they were just clumsy, lazy greedyguts who scoff all the bird feed and crap on the washing line.

MyrtleLion · 06/07/2026 10:05

Igneococcus · 06/07/2026 09:41

Not sure, if the dimers aren't repaired quickly or correctly it can lead to mutations and even cell death. There might be some immune system involvement too but the main worry is longterm fixed mutations that can lead to cancer. There are luckily a lot DNA repair mechanisms that can take care of them but these mechanisms can get overwhelmed if there is too much damage all at once or if they happen to cells that are in the process of DNA replication (before cell division). Stupidly, mammals have lost one of the most effective thymine dimer repair systems (photo lyase) during evolution, marsupials still have it. In mammals the photolyase gene evolved to do circadian rythm stuff.

We are generally very good at keeping in the shade and not getting burned. We wear sunscreen, but I think we were deluded by the cloud cover, even when the sun came out later.

Fortunately it is not sore. Just very red.

EmpressaurusKitty · 06/07/2026 10:27

Boiledbeetle · 06/07/2026 09:24

Last time I tried to tell the bitey ones amongst my number to please not bite the swines unionised and bit me en masse.

Someone else will need to have a word.

That’s a shame. Think how many Tunnocks you could have bought.

MyrtleLion · 06/07/2026 11:57

I realise there is a “there” that should be a “their”. I wrote the first bit up to Gloop did not wake up the gerbils on my phone in the dark at about 4am, just after full time, so my apologies.

I will take myself off to Pedants’ Corner and reread my Big Book of Proper Spellings.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 06/07/2026 12:48

Three knitted dresses all done - to my great relief. There was a point, when I was knitting the first one, that I didn’t think I’d finish one, never mind all three - I was a hairs breadth away from throwing it on the floor and jumping up and down on it in tears of anger and frustration.

I did do too much knitting this weekend, and made my torn rotator cuff flare up badly, so I’m planning to do some embroidery for the next couple of weeks, to give it a rest and a chance to recover.

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EdithStourton · 06/07/2026 13:20

PastaAllaNorma · 06/07/2026 10:04

@Igneococcus , that's absolutely fascinating, thank you! That is my favourite new fact of the day.

Yesterday's favourite was that pigeons have a sort of magnet compass in their liver cells and cryptocryome molecules in their eyes to help them 'see' magnetic fields to navigate by.

And there I was thinking they were just clumsy, lazy greedyguts who scoff all the bird feed and crap on the washing line.

Don't forget that they also shag noisily, with much flapping, on next-door's shed roof.

EdithStourton · 06/07/2026 13:26

She poured herself a small, commemorative thimble of dandelion cordial,
I'd advise her to try elderflower cordial next time. Dandelion cordial sounds grim.
But then, IANAG.

Woley, those dresses are stunning. I remember all the angst and frogging that went on, but so worth it. They will look even more amazing once you've blocked them - but I'd save that, with all the squeezing and squashing, until your rotator cuff is better.

I'm knackered today, and still have an itchy foot, so my efforts to keep up with the completely bonkers ET are even worse than usual. Is anything major happening?

MyrtleLion · 06/07/2026 14:27

EdithStourton · 06/07/2026 13:26

She poured herself a small, commemorative thimble of dandelion cordial,
I'd advise her to try elderflower cordial next time. Dandelion cordial sounds grim.
But then, IANAG.

Woley, those dresses are stunning. I remember all the angst and frogging that went on, but so worth it. They will look even more amazing once you've blocked them - but I'd save that, with all the squeezing and squashing, until your rotator cuff is better.

I'm knackered today, and still have an itchy foot, so my efforts to keep up with the completely bonkers ET are even worse than usual. Is anything major happening?

The department set up a different forum to Yammer, called VivaExchange. This is private, so if you don’t want to see SEEN posts, you don’t have to. All the discussion groups are private.

But as I said on the thread, if he did see stuff on VivaExchange, he was shown it by someone else.
He was trying to get the whole of VE closed down. So he objected to SEEN and others being able to post in private groups. He wanted it shut because he wanted SEEN shut down and unable to post GC views, even if in private, even if he never saw them, even if he was never distressed because he didn’t see them. He was distressed by their very existence.

MyrtleLion · 06/07/2026 14:28

Actually it is Viva Engage.

AsWithGlad · 06/07/2026 15:47

@Igneococcus wrote I worked on repair of UV damage to DNA for a few years.

I continue to be amazed and impressed by the range of wisdom and experience shown in FWR and The Bluestocking, which benefits us all.

Congratulations on the dresses, @SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius . They are indeed a work of genius.

EdithStourton · 06/07/2026 15:59

Myrtle, thank you.
I was getting the drift that he was looking for things to 'trigger', but it looks as if trying to police what people could think about at work.

What a treasure he is.

EdithStourton · 06/07/2026 16:03

EmpressaurusKitty · 06/07/2026 09:03

Maybe Boily could tell all the others to leave @EdithStourton alone?

And I hope Boily gets the word out to the insect world before Bitey Time this evening.

Close inspection indicates 3 or 4 bites in a confined area, which explains the swelling. It's better today than it was yesterday, at least.

AsWithGlad · 06/07/2026 16:19

Today is going well.

-Glad, why did you stay up to watch the football?
-Technically I didn’t, I watched it in bed, changed into ‘jamas, teeth cleaned and all. I intended just to watch a few minutes, but the match was so exciting, especially since so many had said England didn’t stand a chance and it would be their last game. Then they went into an early lead.

-I have been granted remote access for Sex Matters v the DPP later this week.

-I have managed to snag a rarely-available Too Good To Go bag from an expensive bakery which does good g-f stuff. A friend has gone to collect it, it’s been very complicated but I’ve finally managed to do what’s needed so that they’ll give it to him. It’s several years (possibly 5) since I last used TGTG, friend never has.

🤞🤞fingers crossed for no jinxing.

PastaAllaNorma · 06/07/2026 16:57

Woley, those are incredible! What marvellous dresses.

I have given blood for the first time in 30 years. The paperwork and comprehensive medical history took an hour, the donation itself about 5 minutes.