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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Is being trans a 'disease'/mental health issue?

443 replies

SolveMyPrombles · 26/06/2026 20:05

I'm asking on this board for deliberate considered responses so please do share your thoughts.

A lady on a local group has described being trans as a mental illness that should be treated with compassion not pandered to because it's a disease.

Looking into it more deeply I believe she's wrong and there is no current diagnostic manual that agrees with her take.

What do you think?

OP posts:
Grammarnut · Yesterday 06:49

PurpleEmperor · 26/06/2026 20:14

It can be a source of mental distress for some but it’s not a mental illness.

I think it is sometimes a mental illness, which we now call gender dysphoria, but in older men it is much more likely to be a fetish such as autegynophilia - the arousal of oneself by the thought of being a woman.

Cheese55 · Yesterday 07:01

Grammarnut · Yesterday 06:49

I think it is sometimes a mental illness, which we now call gender dysphoria, but in older men it is much more likely to be a fetish such as autegynophilia - the arousal of oneself by the thought of being a woman.

I do believe this can be the case for 'cross dressers' but how does this work for the men who live as (pretend) women as they can't be aroused the whole day whilst at work

Grammarnut · Yesterday 07:08

Zoonosis · 26/06/2026 21:06

The brain is the software, the body is the hardware. This isn't pulled out of nowhere, this is supported by multiple studies that show trans people's brains differ from cis people's in the parts that deal with self-image and self-perception, you can google if you actually have a shred of good faith interest.

Transition isn't about damaging the body; change isn't damage, especially not if the person who lives in that body doesn't perceive it as such (and their opinion counts above yours, I'm afraid). I'm reminded of the words of a trans man friend of mine who said that when he started taking testosterone it felt like coming home to his body for the first time ever in his life.

The body is you and you are your body. You do not 'live' in it, you are it. We are not meat puppets, IOW.
Homosexuality can be falsified, it is not just a feeling, it has real world consequences which can be seen. But trans identity is unfalsifiable, it cannot be disproved, it is just whatever the person who identifies as trans says it is. He says he is a woman - there is no objective way of disproving this, therefore it is a belief, not reality. The idea that the body is a vessel for the spirit is a form of gnosticism, a theology that places the material world at odds with the purer spiritual reality.
I am sorry for your friend because instead of being helped she was given substances that will ruin her health. Would you give Mounjaro to an annorexic?

BunnyBunbunbun · Yesterday 07:17

UnintentionalArcher · 26/06/2026 22:45

Being trans means that you experience your gender as different to your biological sex.

’The reality is that trans people are not what they believe they are - they are not the opposite sex and never can be.’

You’re conflating sex and gender. You’re right that biological sex cannot be changed but gender is a more ephemeral construct that is, as far as I understand it, not yet that well understood. It’s reductive to say that trans people aren’t what they believe they are, however, as it suggests that all trans people believe they can alter their biological sex. The reality that most will be aware this isn’t possible, yet still experience gender as distinct from this.

I’m interested in what @Zoonosis says, as I believe that our understanding of this will evolve significantly in coming decades and much current discourse will be looked upon as narrow and even discriminatory.

A male person with a female soul is an interesting symbolic way of thinking about it.

"Gender" is a social construct and has nothing to do with biological sex. Therefore, anyone who claims to have a "gender identity" is simply talking about adhering to certain socially constructed stereotypes, and most often the most crude and simplistic stereotypes

The more sophisticated understandings were actually in the past, when the people who had mental health issues and believed they were the opposite sex and wanted "sex-change surgery" were known as transsexuals, while men who got off on wearing fishnet tights and bodices were known as transvestites and understood as having a fetish.

From what I understand, it was an early 1970s court case involving a transsexual man who wanted to divorce his wife that co-opted the word "gender" from language grammar and tried to use it to mean something allegedly more "sophisticated" (i.e. would help this biological man who claimed to be a woman win his court case). Before that, the word used for biological sex was simply sex (hence sexism, sex roles [as in the socially prescribed behaviour associated with the two sexes], sex as the category for male or female on birth certificates, passports and other forms of ID).

My memory of this court case is hazy and I may have the details wrong, so if anyone knows anything more I'd really appreciate it if you could give more info.

The idea that "gender identity" is some kind of complex thing that most of us are too simple-minded and prejudiced to understand is complete claptrap. That's some rubbish that trans activists put out to make it seem to their "allies" that they are fighting the good fight and the "allies" are wise and sophisticated and on the right side of history, unlike the mass of plebs who still believe that there are only two sexes and dressing a bit differently from stereotypes doesn't change that.

In the future, the "gender identity" nonsense is going to be seen as akin to giving people lobotomies or obscure theological debates from the 16th century.

Shedmistress · Yesterday 07:35

Baileyonice · Yesterday 01:19

It's no different from expensive hand bag competitiveness. You seriously believe women don't compete with one another aesthetically?

I don't even own a handbag. I do have 3 axes and 2 chainsaws. And decent size tits.

What is this utter mince you are banging on about?

Seethlaw · Yesterday 07:42

Baileyonice · Yesterday 01:25

Social categories based on typical behaviours. Still not getting the difference between 'typical' & 'expectations'? Try a dictionary.

Do you know what one typical female behaviour is? Being agreeable. We are taught from infancy to be nice and quiet, to not make waves, to accommodate others even at our own expense.

Now look at transwomen as a group: do they strike you at being naturally agreeable? Do they demonstrate a tendency to be nice and quiet? Do they hate making waves? Do they accommodate others even at their own expense? Hell no.

If they did, they wouldn't insist on entering spaces where they are not wanted.

If they did, they would feel bad when they receive awards they know they are not qualified for.

If they did, they would refrain from entering competitions they know are not designed for them.

So that's one majorly typical female behaviour transwomen neither naturally exhibit, nor strive to master. Because they are male, through and through, physically and mentally.

Seethlaw · Yesterday 07:44

Shedmistress · Yesterday 07:35

I don't even own a handbag. I do have 3 axes and 2 chainsaws. And decent size tits.

What is this utter mince you are banging on about?

While this transman would collect all the handbags if he could, and wouldn't trust himself with an axe or a chainsaw.

Utter mince indeed...

Imdunfer · Yesterday 07:54

@Zoonosis It's worth stressing that absolutely no reputable medical organisation considers being trans to be a mental health disorder anymore, and nor is gender dysphoria considered to be a type of body dysmorphia as pps have claimed.

Yes. That is one of the greatest triumphs of the trans activists.

They created a situation where any organisation with a different view is defunded, any person expressing a different view loses their job, any group trying to organise a meeting to discuss a different point of view is deplatformed.

It truly was a masterful battle they fought.

Imdunfer · Yesterday 07:59

Cheese55 · Yesterday 07:01

I do believe this can be the case for 'cross dressers' but how does this work for the men who live as (pretend) women as they can't be aroused the whole day whilst at work

The same way any businessman/woman attends a business meeting with someone they find incredibly sexually attractive, by focusing on the work.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · Yesterday 08:04

Imdunfer · Yesterday 07:59

The same way any businessman/woman attends a business meeting with someone they find incredibly sexually attractive, by focusing on the work.

Alternatively, according to Grayson Perry, by wearing big floofy skirts that hide the perma-erection.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · Yesterday 08:43

Cattywillow · Yesterday 01:03

It’s an idea. A thought. A feeling. No doubt one that causes those who hold it (whatever the source of it) discomfort and difficulty, but a feeling nonetheless. Medical interventions which surgically modify the body and leave the person with lifelong problems cannot be the answer to solving their distress. In my view the proper answer is a societal one. I believe that if gender norms were relaxed so that feminine little boys could safely present however they wanted and masculine little girls could comfortably be who they are, life would be better for the people who have been convinced they are trans. I feel like we were getting there for a while with the breakdown of gender stereotypes , then social media came along and started reinforcing them to the point that anyone not on either end of the spectrum feels ‘wrong’. I weep for the child I know who fell victim to this thinking and is now starting life as a young adult with major medical problems and preoccupations rather than as a healthy individual comfortable in their own body. As a tomboyish child who was allowed to pass through the phase of wishing I was a boy without medical harm, it honestly hurts to see young people harming themselves trying to conform to sexist stereotypes and I think the adults that allow it have a tsunami of regret heading for them.

I have been reading through all the responses, trying to put into words how on earth I would answer the question, or if indeed I could.

Along comes your post, which is exactly what I was trying to find the words for. Exactly. Thanks for this.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · Yesterday 08:48

Baileyonice · Yesterday 01:19

It's no different from expensive hand bag competitiveness. You seriously believe women don't compete with one another aesthetically?

Fantastic! Misogyny on steroids here: handbags AND boobs 😀We see you, Bailey! Thanks once again for the AI incoherence!

Octavia64 · Yesterday 08:48

ThatZanyFatball · 26/06/2026 22:52

I'm sorry r u trying to claim that your brain believing your foot is not actually there when it is... Is not a mental health problem?

Ok so to clarify this.

the diagnosis I was given subsequent to this was CRPS (complex regional pain syndrome).

essentially I was in an accident and my foot was smashed up and operated on and then in a cast for six months.

this caused major physical damage to my foot (obviously) including broken bones, severed ligaments and muscles and nerve damage.

now what is interesting here is the level at which “belief” operates.

as my foot basically was sending pretty much no sensation to my brain my brain at a level underneath the conscious level essentially re-organised the perception centres of my brain.

i (consciously) believed I had a foot because I could see it. But when the plaster came off I had no motor control (couldn’t move it) and no sensation (couldn’t feel anything).

it took a couple of years of physio and slow work on motor imagery to recover some motor control and some sensation,

now in our current way of splitting things normally we don’t say things like strokes are mental illnesses even though they affect the brain and the mind.
a stroke literally cuts of blood supply and kills part of the brain, but people after stroke can by physio and speech therapy etc relearn the skills that they lost when that part of the brain was damaged.

in the same way I’m not diagnosed with a mental illness because I lost motor and sensation in my foot - this is considered a neurological thing ie to do with the functioning of the nerves and brain.

equally, if someone loses a limb in an accident, their brain has developed motor control and sensation experiences for the limb and often people experience sensation in alimb that is not there anymore. This is known as phantom limb pain. Again, this is not considered a mental illness largely because it’s the brain not being able to adapt very well to a new bodily reality - it’s considered neurological.

you can get psychological therapy for stuff like CRPS and phantom limb syndrome but it focuses on changing the inputs into the brain so that the brain is able to re-organise itself - so my CRPS therapy was imagining moving my foot.

not the sort of talking about childhood/CBT stuff which is generally advised to mental health.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · Yesterday 08:51

IwantToRetire · Yesterday 02:01

I'm beginning to wonder whether the OP question is as niave as it might seem on first reading, or whether it is another or the now endless threads started to take up time with getting FWRers to repeat what most of us know, so that as a whole FWR just becomes ground hog day instead of moving forward.

Of course it isn't, but I think it's useful to have so many TRAs on the same thread. Now we know who's who and how many there are, at least for now.

It was Friday night, it's bound to happen. We'll survive 😉

Seethlaw · Yesterday 08:55

Octavia64 · Yesterday 08:48

Ok so to clarify this.

the diagnosis I was given subsequent to this was CRPS (complex regional pain syndrome).

essentially I was in an accident and my foot was smashed up and operated on and then in a cast for six months.

this caused major physical damage to my foot (obviously) including broken bones, severed ligaments and muscles and nerve damage.

now what is interesting here is the level at which “belief” operates.

as my foot basically was sending pretty much no sensation to my brain my brain at a level underneath the conscious level essentially re-organised the perception centres of my brain.

i (consciously) believed I had a foot because I could see it. But when the plaster came off I had no motor control (couldn’t move it) and no sensation (couldn’t feel anything).

it took a couple of years of physio and slow work on motor imagery to recover some motor control and some sensation,

now in our current way of splitting things normally we don’t say things like strokes are mental illnesses even though they affect the brain and the mind.
a stroke literally cuts of blood supply and kills part of the brain, but people after stroke can by physio and speech therapy etc relearn the skills that they lost when that part of the brain was damaged.

in the same way I’m not diagnosed with a mental illness because I lost motor and sensation in my foot - this is considered a neurological thing ie to do with the functioning of the nerves and brain.

equally, if someone loses a limb in an accident, their brain has developed motor control and sensation experiences for the limb and often people experience sensation in alimb that is not there anymore. This is known as phantom limb pain. Again, this is not considered a mental illness largely because it’s the brain not being able to adapt very well to a new bodily reality - it’s considered neurological.

you can get psychological therapy for stuff like CRPS and phantom limb syndrome but it focuses on changing the inputs into the brain so that the brain is able to re-organise itself - so my CRPS therapy was imagining moving my foot.

not the sort of talking about childhood/CBT stuff which is generally advised to mental health.

I'm now wondering if physiotherapy could help realign my mental map of my body with the reality of it. Huh. Food for thought, thank you for sharing!

Octavia64 · Yesterday 08:59

Cheese55 · Yesterday 06:36

How is psychosis a social construct?

Medieval people would have understood it as someone having visions from either God or the Devil.

if different societies see things differently it’s a social construct.

(most things are)

relaxitsok · Yesterday 09:10

Cattywillow · Yesterday 01:03

It’s an idea. A thought. A feeling. No doubt one that causes those who hold it (whatever the source of it) discomfort and difficulty, but a feeling nonetheless. Medical interventions which surgically modify the body and leave the person with lifelong problems cannot be the answer to solving their distress. In my view the proper answer is a societal one. I believe that if gender norms were relaxed so that feminine little boys could safely present however they wanted and masculine little girls could comfortably be who they are, life would be better for the people who have been convinced they are trans. I feel like we were getting there for a while with the breakdown of gender stereotypes , then social media came along and started reinforcing them to the point that anyone not on either end of the spectrum feels ‘wrong’. I weep for the child I know who fell victim to this thinking and is now starting life as a young adult with major medical problems and preoccupations rather than as a healthy individual comfortable in their own body. As a tomboyish child who was allowed to pass through the phase of wishing I was a boy without medical harm, it honestly hurts to see young people harming themselves trying to conform to sexist stereotypes and I think the adults that allow it have a tsunami of regret heading for them.

I agree this is a great post. And highlighting how being trans is essentially just about thoughts and ideas, explains social contagion.

Also that it makes sense that a thought that one really is the opposite sex inside somehow, given weight, can lead to MH problems because struggling to accept reality to this extent/ living in a world that doesn’t agree with your thought is highly distressing.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · Yesterday 09:10

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 22:38

It's just another way of saying 'I have more in common with the opposite gender I was born as & therefore want to be treated as such' so that's hardly mental illness territory.

Edited

If I feel that I have more in common with a cat than the species I was born as, and therefore want to be treated as such, does this make me mentally ill?

Do I really have a right to demand that everyone around me treats me as though I were an actual cat? Haven't we already dealt with that particular "mentally-challenged" phenomenon?

Why am I not allowed to demand that everyone around me treats me as though my understanding that sex is immutable and "trans" is not real is a fact? It's what I want!

Ed. SP

noblegiraffe · Yesterday 09:11

Baileyonice · Yesterday 01:25

Social categories based on typical behaviours. Still not getting the difference between 'typical' & 'expectations'? Try a dictionary.

But humans are messy and do not fit into neat categories. Sure, risk-taking is a more typical male behaviour (because of testosterone) but that doesn't mean that there are males who don't exhibit risk-taking behaviour, or that there aren't any females who exhibit risk-taking behaviour.

There is a fairly obvious difference between saying 'this is typically male behaviour' and 'if you do this, you're a man'.

Someone who does something extremely risky is, at a cohort level, more likely to be a man. But that's a cohort level prediction, an average. And you don't apply averages to individuals and then say that if they don't match, something is wrong. That would be stupid.

Cheese55 · Yesterday 09:11

Octavia64 · Yesterday 08:59

Medieval people would have understood it as someone having visions from either God or the Devil.

if different societies see things differently it’s a social construct.

(most things are)

Well people can think they are having visions from God/Devil, so still the same. The difference is that they are now disbelived as we don't have the same overriding belief in god. That is medical progess

Seethlaw · Yesterday 09:17

Cheese55 · Yesterday 09:11

Well people can think they are having visions from God/Devil, so still the same. The difference is that they are now disbelived as we don't have the same overriding belief in god. That is medical progess

And presumably, the same will happen with the whole "gender identity" idea: medical progress will figure out what's going on with trans people, and everyone will shake their heads at the weird idea of gender identity.

Lovelyview · Yesterday 09:31

Cattywillow · Yesterday 01:03

It’s an idea. A thought. A feeling. No doubt one that causes those who hold it (whatever the source of it) discomfort and difficulty, but a feeling nonetheless. Medical interventions which surgically modify the body and leave the person with lifelong problems cannot be the answer to solving their distress. In my view the proper answer is a societal one. I believe that if gender norms were relaxed so that feminine little boys could safely present however they wanted and masculine little girls could comfortably be who they are, life would be better for the people who have been convinced they are trans. I feel like we were getting there for a while with the breakdown of gender stereotypes , then social media came along and started reinforcing them to the point that anyone not on either end of the spectrum feels ‘wrong’. I weep for the child I know who fell victim to this thinking and is now starting life as a young adult with major medical problems and preoccupations rather than as a healthy individual comfortable in their own body. As a tomboyish child who was allowed to pass through the phase of wishing I was a boy without medical harm, it honestly hurts to see young people harming themselves trying to conform to sexist stereotypes and I think the adults that allow it have a tsunami of regret heading for them.

Very well put. I am horrified that young people are damaging their healthy bodies to try and conform to regressive stereotypes of what it is to be a man or a woman.

Mapletree1985 · Yesterday 09:36

Zoonosis · 26/06/2026 20:52

If anyone cares about actual science, the increasing evidence is that feelings of gender incongruence are related to the part of our brains that deal with self-perception and self-image, which can be influenced by genetic factors or hormones in utero to be misaligned with the way our bodies develop. People who feel this incongruence to such a degree that they are made happier by taking steps to help their bodies align with their internal self-image are what we call trans people. It is not a mental illness because the brain is functioning perfectly normally, it's just part of its software is programmed for different hardware, if that makes sense.

Just to emphasise before someone jumps on me this is NOT as popularly suggested anything to do with having a "male" brain in a female body or vice versa as there's no such thing as male or female brains, but there are extensive networks in your brain that deal with bodily perception, and we know from neuroimaging that these parts of the brain differ in transgender individuals.

It's worth stressing that absolutely no reputable medical organisation considers being trans to be a mental health disorder anymore, and nor is gender dysphoria considered to be a type of body dysmorphia as pps have claimed. Nor have any efforts to "cure" trans people apart from allowing them to transition ever been successful or caused anything other than harm and distress.

Edited

"the increasing evidence is that feelings of gender incongruence are related to the part of our brains that deal with self-perception and self-image, which can be influenced by genetic factors or hormones in utero to be misaligned with the way our bodies develop. "

What evidence?

Genetic factors or hormones in utero can cause any organ to malfunction. To say fragile skin or a misfiring heart or allergies are not physical illnesses would be an unreasonably strict definition of the word "illness". If some aspect of the brain has failed to develop correctly, and the brain isn't functioning properly as result, that's an illness in my book.

DoYouSellBuckets · Yesterday 09:36

You're asking (mostly) non-medical people on a forum for opinions on what constitutes a mental illness or disease? How could we possibly know?

This forum is largely Gender Critical and many of us have concerns about a number of things - medicalisation of otherwise physically healthy children, erosion of single-sex spaces, the affirmation of a body dysmorphia that would be unthinkable for others such as EDs, loss of hard won Women's rights, co-opting of small numbers of DSDs to justify a breakdown in understanding of sex, redefining of language etc etc. I can't speak for others, but I don't think that holding those concerns qualifies me to know anything about what constitutes a disease or mental health problem or how to treat them if they were. I'm not a doctor. People thinking their feelings are more important than the professional, academically researched, data-driven theories of actual scientists is how we ended up with all of the concerns above.

So it doesn't matter what I think about something I'm not qualified to speak on. It only matters that I speak out when the (considerable) implications for society that experiments or conclusions drawn from them don't fit with what I think a just, caring, safe country should countenance.

TempestTost · Yesterday 10:03

Seethlaw · Yesterday 08:55

I'm now wondering if physiotherapy could help realign my mental map of my body with the reality of it. Huh. Food for thought, thank you for sharing!

I have heard a number of reports of people with sex dysphoria talk about taking actions to get in touch with their body in a healthy way through physical activity which they said really helped. Particularly it seems where they were in nature or working with animals. Hiking, gardening, horses, etc.

Not quite the same as physiotherapy but I suspect it would work to some extent through the same mechanisms.