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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Cambridge University ignoring the Supreme Court ruling?

336 replies

yoursweetpotatoesarebland · 11/06/2026 23:27

Dd is going to the Cambridge open day coming up, I got an email through about the colleges and was having a read through. There’s a section about “gender identity” and how it impacts on what colleges you can apply to. There are two women’s colleges but both accept anyone who identifies as a woman!

This is from Murray Edwards:
“At the admissions level, we will consider any student who, at the point of application, identifies as a woman“

How can this still be allowed? It’s self ID too so has NEVER been legal for the purposes of the eqA.

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CoolBlueBear · 13/06/2026 20:39

Thanks Mmmnotsure,

It was distressing and I appreciate your concern.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 13/06/2026 21:45

Helleofabore · 13/06/2026 15:58

"Not when it comes to consumerist, employment, special interest & life choices where vast differences are measured in what is fundamentally the biggest parts of peoples lives."

Bollocks

On this 'definition' I reckon I know 2 men, 2 women and everyone else is non-binary. So not a useful way of categorising people at all.

Anyway, I really popped back onto this thread to see if @oxfordfeminist had chosen to treat us to a display of the Oxford-level critical thinking that led her to be trans-inclusive. No joy yet. I'm sure she'll enlighten us soon though.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 13/06/2026 21:55

Whenever anyone asks awkward questions she is so terribly busy being Academic that she has to rush away. Except for coming back two or three times during the next hour to blether unconstructively a bit more.

BitingtheSkirting · 13/06/2026 22:12

Sometimes as a result of us recognising this socialisation imbalance, we have “stacked the scales” to encourage, eg, girls to get an education at Cambridge.

And that's what New Hall, Newnham, Lady Margaret Hall etc all used to do so well. There were very few women in the physical sciences at Cambridge by the final year, and for some subjects the all female colleges were that rare place where one wasn't the only female in the room.

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 23:17

MarieDeGournay · 13/06/2026 16:13

Baileyonice While I appreciate the structural necessity for reliable methods of assigning people to categories that doesn't also mean we get to tell them who they are. Only they can. Self identification gives an individual the power to define their own beliefs or identity (which is a core human right) rather than having it assigned to them by others or by institutions .

we get to tell them who they are -
In the context of sex, who is this 'we' telling people who they are?
'We' don't get to tell anyone whether they are male or female, because it is an observable biological fact.
And that negates your 'only they can', because 'they' are as incapable as 'us' of contradicting reality.

So nobody is 'telling' anybody what sex they are, nobody is being 'assigned' a sex at birth, and you can no more self-identify into the opposite sex than you can self-identify as a six-footer if you measure 5'4" [1m83/1m63].

Well, you [one] can, and people probably do on dating profiles, but you'd be wrong, as in accurate.

The context being discussed was the validity of gender identity. That is, telling trans people their identity isn't legitimate & only a sexual one is.

What people often don't realise is that the choice between identifying with one's gender or sex is values based that relies on personal subjectivity. An example might be a butch natal female might consider her gender identification with the opposite sex a defining feature & be trans or birth sex & be cis.

Ultimately, it's up to the individual's foundational guiding principles and beliefs that serve as their moral compass influencing their identification not the fact that sex & gender exist.

In other words, you can't get an ought from an is.

and you can no more self-identify into the opposite sex than you can self-identify as a six-footer if you measure 5'4" [1m83/1m63].

Again, the context is gender identification. Tran's people aren't suggesting they are identical to the opposite sex rather they have a commonality at the group level of foundational gendered behaviours.

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 23:27

Mmmnotsure · 13/06/2026 19:44

If I didn’t know that @Baileyonice was male, and behaving just like a male on this thread, I would know after this answer.

@CoolBlueBear I’m so sorry for your mother’s – and your – experience with that man on the hospital ward. It must have been traumatising for her. And I find it almost unbelievable that the man on this thread, in his answer, has completely ignored that distressing experience you shared here.

It's cute you think the human body evolved with distinguishing reproductive characteristics & the mind wouldn't be but that's what denial will do.

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 23:33

Avezaveza · 13/06/2026 18:51

Self identification gives an individual the power to define their own beliefs or identity (which is a core human right) rather than having it assigned to them by others or by institutions .

So, my caucasian nan from Somerset always said she felt black, she wasn’t but she felt she was. Should she have taken on a stereotype of a black woman and should we have respected that as a human right?

Genune question.

This is a false equivalence because there's different qualifying criteria to defining race as there is to gender. Race requires a genetic association while gender requires a behavioural one.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 13/06/2026 23:39

Tran's people aren't suggesting they are identical to the opposite sex rather they have a commonality at the group level of foundational gendered behaviours.

No, this is your suggestion @Baileyonice . You can't claim to speak for 'trans people', plenty of whom do indeed claim to be identical to the opposite sex.

atalkingtree · 13/06/2026 23:42

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 23:17

The context being discussed was the validity of gender identity. That is, telling trans people their identity isn't legitimate & only a sexual one is.

What people often don't realise is that the choice between identifying with one's gender or sex is values based that relies on personal subjectivity. An example might be a butch natal female might consider her gender identification with the opposite sex a defining feature & be trans or birth sex & be cis.

Ultimately, it's up to the individual's foundational guiding principles and beliefs that serve as their moral compass influencing their identification not the fact that sex & gender exist.

In other words, you can't get an ought from an is.

and you can no more self-identify into the opposite sex than you can self-identify as a six-footer if you measure 5'4" [1m83/1m63].

Again, the context is gender identification. Tran's people aren't suggesting they are identical to the opposite sex rather they have a commonality at the group level of foundational gendered behaviours.

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That is, telling trans people their identity isn't legitimate

Well, yes. Identifying as female when you are not female, or identifying as male when you are not male, means that this is not a legitimate identity.

It's the same principle as how identifying as a child when you are an adult is not a legitimate identity.

MyAmpleSheep · 13/06/2026 23:53

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 23:17

The context being discussed was the validity of gender identity. That is, telling trans people their identity isn't legitimate & only a sexual one is.

What people often don't realise is that the choice between identifying with one's gender or sex is values based that relies on personal subjectivity. An example might be a butch natal female might consider her gender identification with the opposite sex a defining feature & be trans or birth sex & be cis.

Ultimately, it's up to the individual's foundational guiding principles and beliefs that serve as their moral compass influencing their identification not the fact that sex & gender exist.

In other words, you can't get an ought from an is.

and you can no more self-identify into the opposite sex than you can self-identify as a six-footer if you measure 5'4" [1m83/1m63].

Again, the context is gender identification. Tran's people aren't suggesting they are identical to the opposite sex rather they have a commonality at the group level of foundational gendered behaviours.

Edited

The context being discussed was the validity of genderidentity. That is, telling trans people their identity isn't legitimate & only a sexual one is.

This is such a red herring. Nobody cares about gender identity except people who think they have one. Nobodty cares about your cat identity, or non-binary identity, or Martian identity or blancmange identity. All irrelevant. Fill your boots.

Gender identity isn’t the passport into women’s (or men’s) services. Nor does cat identity get you an appointment at the vet.

Baileyonice · Yesterday 00:11

atalkingtree · 13/06/2026 23:42

That is, telling trans people their identity isn't legitimate

Well, yes. Identifying as female when you are not female, or identifying as male when you are not male, means that this is not a legitimate identity.

It's the same principle as how identifying as a child when you are an adult is not a legitimate identity.

"Identifying" is simply synonymous with being more associated with a category than another or a sub category to it. It's not claiming to be indistinguishable from other sub categories.

That you don't consider gender a valid sub category is a value based opinion not a fact.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 00:17

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 12/06/2026 16:57

Oh silly me thinking them making an effort to integrate with the world around them might be a better thing.

It would be terrible if they were to learn the wrong thing from their work place like men and women can function together without anyone going off the deep end because they caught sight of a stray piece of hair.

Or that women don't have to cover themselves up in order to work, that women can face the world uncovered and still be unmolested at the end of the day.

We wouldn't want anyone to learn about the benefits of living in a tolerant, secular world we.

that women don't have to cover themselves up in order to work

You want to tell a Saudi PhD student's brother, who is in the UK with her as her chaperone, that she should uncover in an open-plan mixed-sex office? She'd be on a flight home within 24 hours.

In the real world, where plenty of Arabic and Persian women are only studying in the UK because their fathers allow them to and that permission comes with conditions attached surrounding her conduct, we do what we can to facilitate the education that is those women's best chance of being able to defy their families later in life whilst stopping them from passing out or getting heat-induced migraines in ancient university buildings that have no aircon. And that means quietly giving them a single-sex office in which to work unveiled.

Silly you indeed, thinking that the agency and freedom that you have is shared by every woman.

Seethlaw · Yesterday 00:17

Baileyonice · Yesterday 00:11

"Identifying" is simply synonymous with being more associated with a category than another or a sub category to it. It's not claiming to be indistinguishable from other sub categories.

That you don't consider gender a valid sub category is a value based opinion not a fact.

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Gender is an entirely irrelevant category when discussing sex. The two are not correlated, so mentioning gender when discussing sex-related matters is absurd. Why do you insist on doing it?

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 00:22

MyAmpleSheep · 12/06/2026 17:26

There's very good reasons for accommodation spaces to be single-sex, which is why Newnham and ME were set up and is why US universities have sorority houses. Safeguarding, being able to relax without having to have one's guard up against male aggression, and being able to have a conversation without men dominating it are all great reasons.

I totally agree about accommodation spaces.

My inclusivity principles are challenged by teaching and workplaces that are sex-segregated. The concept of an office of Muslim women where men have to knock before entering does not accord with those principles.

The concept of knocking before entering someone's office strikes you as odd? You do realise that NHS consultants often change into their scrubs in their offices, as testified to in Peggie vs Fife?

It's not men who knocked, we all did if an office door was closed. That's normal civilised behaviour.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 00:40

MyAmpleSheep · 12/06/2026 17:28

Perhaps we are in furious agreement.

I was concerned with the concept that single-sex colleges should remain so for the benefit of observant Muslim woman who cannot be in an room with men. Specifically "it would be interesting to know how many young Muslim women don't attend university at all unless they are able to live at home, because they or their parents want them to avoid men."

I may be reading too much into that, however.

Specifically "it would be interesting to know how many young Muslim women don't attend university at all unless they are able to live at home, because they or their parents want them to avoid men."

I refer you to my last-but-one comment describing the chaperoned daughters of rich Saudis studying PhDs at the English university I was working at. There are a lot of women, particularly from the oil-bearing countries of the Middle East, who get to study in the UK because their dads are OK with them coming here chaperoned, basically to make sure that the women are sticking to the modesty and segregation expectations. Yes, it's shit that their dads act like this, but at least the Saudi govt lets girls go to school and will let them go abroad to be educated, unlike the Taliban's ideas on how to treat women. When these ladies get their PhD, they can use that to apply for jobs outside Saudi, and have potentially more autonomy from their dads when earning their own money under a more liberal legal system. They get dragged home for not veiling, that escape route is closed to them.

I will always remember the Iranian student who, whilst writing up her PhD, was applying for all sorts of jobs, including as a nursery governess, something she was wildly overqualified for, because she was so desperate not to have to go back to Iran.

Mmmnotsure · Yesterday 01:02

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 23:27

It's cute you think the human body evolved with distinguishing reproductive characteristics & the mind wouldn't be but that's what denial will do.

Aww, I haven't been called cute since I was a kitten. Which is as likely as someone born male being female.

A woman would be able to recognise the significance of the PP's experience and that of her mother. The fact that you seem unable to do so does mark you out.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 01:04

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 00:25

Yes, the premise of feminism is differences exist but so do commonalities that justify measures to enable gender equality. And it's the commonalities where the disconnect happens for GC feminists in my view.

Highlighting the biological differences justifies measures like reproductive freedom, child care, flexible working hours/parental leave etc that enable access to gender parity. Highlighting the commonalities as in cognitive skills & psychological traits justified anti discrimination laws that enabled access to the same work places. How else would you justify women not being the 'weaker sex'? The same way people of colour were justified not being discriminated against. We are all humans & as such cognitively & psychologically interchangeable.

And once the door to interchangeability opens, so does gender identification. Whilst males & females share psychological traits there are typical behaviours more common to one sex than the other due to genetic, hormonal distribution & environmental settings that create behavioural categories distinguishing males from females. Sex after all is in essence the traits that distinguish males from females which isn't just limited to reproductive traits. I'm not saying behaviour defines sex. I'm saying there are behaviours & inclinations more common to each sex that create categorical gendered differences at population scale.

A trans person is in essence simply saying 'I have more in common & as such identify with the opposite gender category I was born as.'

Of course the schism here is the GC presumption that alluding to typical behaviours is in conflict with psychological interchangeability. But it doesn't because interchangeability & typical behaviours are not mutually exclusive. One does not cancel out the other because individuals aren't necessarily reflective of the norm.

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The premise of feminism is that women are oppressed as a sex class because of men's desire to control our reproductive capabilities, and that this is unjust because it denies us the rights due to us as humans. The "commonalities" between us and men, such our creativity and ability to reason, are why we deserve human rights.

To redefine women as "people of either sex who have the typical behaviours more common to the female sex" is to deny our oppression as a sex class, deny men's desire to control our reproductive capabilities, and water down the commonalities-based argument for us having human rights by pretending that the mental commonalities are less present than they really are.

It also denies the observable reality that trans-identifying men share with other men the typically male traits of social dominance, violence, and entitlement towards women.

Baileyonice · Yesterday 01:22

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 01:04

The premise of feminism is that women are oppressed as a sex class because of men's desire to control our reproductive capabilities, and that this is unjust because it denies us the rights due to us as humans. The "commonalities" between us and men, such our creativity and ability to reason, are why we deserve human rights.

To redefine women as "people of either sex who have the typical behaviours more common to the female sex" is to deny our oppression as a sex class, deny men's desire to control our reproductive capabilities, and water down the commonalities-based argument for us having human rights by pretending that the mental commonalities are less present than they really are.

It also denies the observable reality that trans-identifying men share with other men the typically male traits of social dominance, violence, and entitlement towards women.

To redefine women as "people of either sex who have the typical behaviours more common to the female sex" is to deny our oppression as a sex class, deny men's desire to control our reproductive capabilities, and water down the commonalities-based argument for us having human rights by pretending that the mental commonalities are less present than they really are.

There's no 'redefining' of what is & always has been which is gendered behaviours exist at the group level. This is a fact as sure as reproductive differences. And accepting this fact & that of female oppression isn't mutually exclusive nor does it water down the fact that individuals aren’t necessarily reflective of the group. You act as if humans don't have the capacity to hold two different facts in their head at once without cancelling the other one out (well perhaps some of us can't).

It also denies the observable reality that trans-identifying men share with other men the typically male traits of social dominance, violence, and entitlement towards women.

Again, this is missing the point of self identification here. Its upto an individual's own beliefs & values how they assess on balance their associations to the sex they identify with.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 01:30

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 12:21

Sharing the same clothes, interests, hobbies, aesthetics, or even certain personality traits strikes me as a superficial commonality rather than a substantive one.

But the organic inclinations towards these particular behaviours aren't superficial commonalities is the point. The behaviours are simply an expression of deeper biologically influenced underlying similarities.

I've never experienced that.

Just the opposite for me with both trans women & very effeminate men. Interestingly I don't get any sense of a 'female' connection with butch women just an impression very reminiscent of the 'macho' 'disaggreeable' men I've experienced relationships with. But that's based on anecdotal evidence & my intuition of course.

My understanding of womanhood has never been rooted in clothes, hobbies, personalities, or stereotypes. It's rooted in the shared reality of being female, and I don't think identification or affinity with a gender category can replicate that.

I dunno, I've hung out in many a female dominated & male dominated social settings & the two couldn't be further apart in behaviours. It's absurd to me that people claim there's no difference but I guess maybe it's the company I keep?

But the organic inclinations towards these particular behaviours aren't superficial commonalities is the point. The behaviours are simply an expression of deeper biologically influenced underlying similarities.

Until about one hundred years ago, pink was for boys as being a sort of "red-lite" suitable for easing the boys into manly red. Pale blue was the girls' colour, as a "blue-lite", a toned-down version of the Virgin Mary's blue cloak.

Please explain what biological change caused men and boys to start swerving pink whilst women and girls took up wearing it?

The first six computer programmers, of the ENIAC, were all women. Women dominated computing until the late-seventies.

Please explain the biological change that brought about the rise of the brogrammer?

For hundreds of years, men worked as weavers, stocking frame knitters, and tailors. Women often worked as beer brewers.

Please explain the biological change that led to fibre crafts and textile crafts becoming female-coded, and craft brewing becoming a mostly-male preserve?

During WW2, women welded ships, built and flew aircraft, drove buses and lorries, delivered the post, and farmed.

Please explain the biological changes that allowed women to only excel at these skills during WW2 and suddenly lose those abilities (particularly driving, there's a huge negative stereotype now about women's parking) after VE Day?

I'll grant that child-rearing instincts will be sex-linked, after all it's the mother who gestates and births the baby so she will be strongly bonded to it in a way that the father won't be, but the other stuff is culturally-bound. We know this because, whilst the Western powers were only allowing men to fight, some of the top Russian snipers and pilots were women, despite fighting allegedly being a "men" thing that women supposedly suck at.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 01:32

Baileyonice · Yesterday 01:22

To redefine women as "people of either sex who have the typical behaviours more common to the female sex" is to deny our oppression as a sex class, deny men's desire to control our reproductive capabilities, and water down the commonalities-based argument for us having human rights by pretending that the mental commonalities are less present than they really are.

There's no 'redefining' of what is & always has been which is gendered behaviours exist at the group level. This is a fact as sure as reproductive differences. And accepting this fact & that of female oppression isn't mutually exclusive nor does it water down the fact that individuals aren’t necessarily reflective of the group. You act as if humans don't have the capacity to hold two different facts in their head at once without cancelling the other one out (well perhaps some of us can't).

It also denies the observable reality that trans-identifying men share with other men the typically male traits of social dominance, violence, and entitlement towards women.

Again, this is missing the point of self identification here. Its upto an individual's own beliefs & values how they assess on balance their associations to the sex they identify with.

Its upto an individual's own beliefs & values how they assess on balance their associations to the sex they identify with.

That self-perception ends where women's rights to single-sex spaces, sports, and services begins, otherwise the individual is violating the rights of the female sex class.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 01:37

Theeyeballsinthesky · 13/06/2026 09:05

So when people argue that transwomen are women because they identify more closely with female typical behaviours or preferences, that doesn't resonate with me.

indeed especially as when you dig down into it, TW will say things like being submissive or emotional or sensitive - god yes us submissive emotional sensitive women eh? It's not like those are stereotypes we've been trying to escape forever

it's also of course nonsense because TRA determination to force men into women's spaces displays none of those traits whatsoever

being submissive or emotional or sensitive

Emotional: yes. I have cried daily for CatOfHate for two weeks.

Sensitive: in what sense of the word?

Submissive: everyone who has ever had the misfortune to work with me thinks you are off your rocker.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 01:45

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 13/06/2026 12:55

@MarieDeGournay - Are you saying that there is an organic inclination towards clothes, hobbies, interests etc that are typically associated with women?

Are they talking about the Blue Jean Gene do you think. 😂

"Jeans" comes from "Gênes", the French word for Genoa (It: Genova) in Italy.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 01:53

Avezaveza · 13/06/2026 15:00

It’s really interesting because traits such as the type of clothes I wear are generally because of my biology not because of my mind.
For example, I prefer to find suit jackets that have room at the bust but go in at the waist. I also prefer trousers with zips on the side and no fly because I have a typical round tummy after childbirth so would rather not have buttons accentuating that area and I don’t need a zip fly to pee.

I also find that chatting in a group of women can sometimes have a different vibe than chatting in a group of men. This is not due to some organic brain function but to do with biology and societies expectations. Perhaps talk being centred around children, or problems juggling caring for elderly family members as well as young kids. Or perhaps male conversation might centre quite a bit around male sport. None of these traits are an organic function but a result of biology and society.

Well yes, we tend to like clothes that fit us properly.

I am child-free, so I find "mum chat" to be hellishly boring. This doesn't make me not a woman.

Baileyonice · Yesterday 01:55

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 01:30

But the organic inclinations towards these particular behaviours aren't superficial commonalities is the point. The behaviours are simply an expression of deeper biologically influenced underlying similarities.

Until about one hundred years ago, pink was for boys as being a sort of "red-lite" suitable for easing the boys into manly red. Pale blue was the girls' colour, as a "blue-lite", a toned-down version of the Virgin Mary's blue cloak.

Please explain what biological change caused men and boys to start swerving pink whilst women and girls took up wearing it?

The first six computer programmers, of the ENIAC, were all women. Women dominated computing until the late-seventies.

Please explain the biological change that brought about the rise of the brogrammer?

For hundreds of years, men worked as weavers, stocking frame knitters, and tailors. Women often worked as beer brewers.

Please explain the biological change that led to fibre crafts and textile crafts becoming female-coded, and craft brewing becoming a mostly-male preserve?

During WW2, women welded ships, built and flew aircraft, drove buses and lorries, delivered the post, and farmed.

Please explain the biological changes that allowed women to only excel at these skills during WW2 and suddenly lose those abilities (particularly driving, there's a huge negative stereotype now about women's parking) after VE Day?

I'll grant that child-rearing instincts will be sex-linked, after all it's the mother who gestates and births the baby so she will be strongly bonded to it in a way that the father won't be, but the other stuff is culturally-bound. We know this because, whilst the Western powers were only allowing men to fight, some of the top Russian snipers and pilots were women, despite fighting allegedly being a "men" thing that women supposedly suck at.

Measuring organic (biologically motivated) gendered behaviours more accurately requires removing variables that might confound results like environmental pressures from Patriarchal, fashion, necessity & other extraneous influences. That's why when assessing gendered differences researchers tend to look at trends in more egalitarian countries like Sweden for example which interestingly show even more gendered behavioural differences.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 02:05

Baileyonice · 13/06/2026 15:34

Even if there are some average differences in how men and women tend to behave, there is still a lot of overlap,

Not when it comes to consumerist, employment, special interest & life choices where vast differences are measured in what is fundamentally the biggest parts of peoples lives.

More importantly, behaviour doesn’t determine sex category, people of either sex can show a wide range of traits, so noticing patterns is not the same as defining what someone is.

Same with biological reproductive traits. Individuals vary in morphological, hormonal & genetic characteristics that can be sexually ambiguous in outcomes they are socially perceived.

so behaviour is not a reliable way to define what someone is.

That's why self-identification matters. People come in all different mosaic forms that don't strictly meet social categorisations so its ultimately upto them to decide who they are. While I appreciate the structural necessity for reliable methods of assigning people to categories that doesn't also mean we get to tell them who they are. Only they can. Self identification gives an individual the power to define their own beliefs or identity (which is a core human right) rather than having it assigned to them by others or by institutions .

And let's not forget freeing women from the limitations of being defined by their reproductive traits was a necessary part of how feminists advocated for their self determination.

We also tend to recognise whether someone is male or female instinctively, and this is not really based on behaviour.

A naturalistic fallacy/is ought problem.

Not when it comes to consumerist, employment, special interest & life choices where vast differences are measured in what is fundamentally the biggest parts of peoples lives.

If you take out all the stuff that relates to having kids, what's left? I bet folding money that the answer is "bugger all". These aren't male versus female differences, they are child-bearer versus not-child-bearer differences. Even the "special interests", because the child-free woman and the typical "leaves it all to the missus" father get to carry on having time for special interests, which mothers don't get. It's not women who go part-time at work, but mothers. The child-free woman stays full-time.

These differences aren't biologically programmed tendencies by sex, they are behaviours that are forced by motherhood.