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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

More fuckwittery from Eva Wiseman, Observer

142 replies

ConstanzeMozart · 07/06/2026 09:35

fuckwittery
the EHRC ‘insisting’ on single-sex toilets excluding trans people.
Well, only if they try to use the one for the wrong sex.
There are also some bingo points including trans people being excluded from public life, and women who don’t look feminine being harassed in the Ladies.

‘Lavatory deserts’ mean we are all likely to be caught short

‘Lavatory deserts’ mean we are all likely to be caught short

Lack of proper funding for public bathrooms is putting real stress on all of us - which no one needs when they are desperate for the loo

https://observer.co.uk/news/columnists/article/lavatory-deserts-mean-we-are-all-likely-to-be-caught-short

OP posts:
nutmeg7 · Today 09:16

Baileyonice · Today 01:59

Both Canadian & Australian have exemptions under specific circumstances for cis women that work fine.

They do not work fine.
Not looking at the legal situation Australia and Canada. Perhaps ask some Canadian and Australian women.

Baileyonice · Today 09:18

GeneralPeter · Today 09:01

You've raised a really good point. Why don't we look at data.

If women's concerns were about "trans people existing" then 0.5% might be a sensible number to refer to.

But it's not. Mostly, women's concerns are about harms to safety, dignity and fairness.

Let's for a moment grant your (rather silly) contention that removing of rights from a group does not count as a harm, only specific instances of harm.

Does a transwoman commit more or less sexual crime than the average woman, for example?

(This is relevant because often we're considering how adding transwomen to a group previously restricted to women changes the risk profile).

By roughly what multiple? Up or down?

Edited

Let's for a moment grant your (rather silly) contention that removing of rights from a group does not count as a harm, only specific instances of harm.

Not what was said at all.

Does a transwoman commit more or less sexual crime than the average woman, for example?

Unknown & irrelevant.

The over arching point being made that you are clearly missing was the actual impact isn't the existential threat being made out not that there wasn't any impact.

Baileyonice · Today 09:19

nutmeg7 · Today 09:16

They do not work fine.
Not looking at the legal situation Australia and Canada. Perhaps ask some Canadian and Australian women.

Well there's no broad spread movement for change nor is it an election defining issue in either country.

GeneralPeter · Today 09:21

Baileyonice · Today 09:18

Let's for a moment grant your (rather silly) contention that removing of rights from a group does not count as a harm, only specific instances of harm.

Not what was said at all.

Does a transwoman commit more or less sexual crime than the average woman, for example?

Unknown & irrelevant.

The over arching point being made that you are clearly missing was the actual impact isn't the existential threat being made out not that there wasn't any impact.

Unknown & irrelevant.

Known (see my answer). You don't seem to know much about this issue if you were unaware of that basic fact.

"Existential" threat? Firstly, some women are killed, but no, that is not what most women are arguing about. Again you seem very new to this terrain.

You were railing against people taking positions based on ignorance earlier. Start with yourself.

GeneralPeter · Today 09:23

Baileyonice · Today 09:18

Let's for a moment grant your (rather silly) contention that removing of rights from a group does not count as a harm, only specific instances of harm.

Not what was said at all.

Does a transwoman commit more or less sexual crime than the average woman, for example?

Unknown & irrelevant.

The over arching point being made that you are clearly missing was the actual impact isn't the existential threat being made out not that there wasn't any impact.

"Let's for a moment grant your (rather silly) contention that removing of rights from a group does not count as a harm, only specific instances of harm.

Not what was said at all."

You said that removing rights from 51% of the population does not count. You wanted examples of "trampling".

What did you mean by that then?

Baileyonice · Today 09:23

GeneralPeter · Today 09:15

@Baileyonice -- I've got some numbers for you.

Let's go with 0.5% of the pop is trans (I don't know how accurate this is, but it's your figure). So let's say about 130,000 adult transwomen.

MoJ figures (Nov 2023): between 95 and 99 trans-identifying male prisoners without a GRC (so this is probably an undercount) are in for a primarily sexual offence.

That is 1 in 1,313 of transwomen currently in prison for a sexual offence.

Total adult female population about 27,000,000.

MoJ figures: female prisoners serving for a primarily sexual offence: 150.

That is 1 in 180,000 women currently in prison for a sexual offence.

So, a 137x difference in sexual offence rate on those numbers.

This also means that 95/245 = 39% of the group of "women+" (i.e. women plus trans-identifying-males-without-GRC) prisoners in for a sexual offence are trans women.

At all stages of the calculation, I've hedged in your favour (haven't adjusted for GRC-holders, used the lower number provided by the MoJ).

At what level does it become acceptable to be concerned about this?

Edited

This bogus analysis has been debunked a zillion times on MR. Incarceration is not offending & in any case the trans population is too small to make any meaningful statistical conclusions about.

Sexual offences can include prostitution btw that trans women are more likely to be involved in.

GeneralPeter · Today 09:28

Baileyonice · Today 09:23

This bogus analysis has been debunked a zillion times on MR. Incarceration is not offending & in any case the trans population is too small to make any meaningful statistical conclusions about.

Sexual offences can include prostitution btw that trans women are more likely to be involved in.

You don't seem to know much about statistics either.

Prostitution is not illegal (though some related activities are).

Your point was that it's illegitimate for women to be concerned about this (a 'moral panic').

Why should women not be concerned about incarceration rates? Why must they use your preferred numbers, draw your preferred (lack of) conclusions?

We know from the figures that 46 of the transwomen are in prison for rape or attempted rape.

So, re-run the numbers only with those figures and without adjusting downwards the female figures and you get a ratio of 64x.

I've used your figures for the denominator here. I've erred in your favour on every calc. It still comes out really bad.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · Today 09:29

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · Yesterday 13:13

I think that is because each TRA on here has his own obsessively focused interests at heart and doesn't give a shiny shit what anyone else, including other TRAs, wants.

Edited

I actually think that, most of the time, they're all the same person! 😏

Szygy · Today 09:31

AIBU to mourn the simple times when everyone knew perfectly well who was a man and who was a woman and didn’t ever give it a second thought?

Now 20,000 angels must dance on the head of a pin in every single bloody thread thanks to men like Bailey. It’s exhausting.

GeneralPeter · Today 09:41

Szygy · Today 09:31

AIBU to mourn the simple times when everyone knew perfectly well who was a man and who was a woman and didn’t ever give it a second thought?

Now 20,000 angels must dance on the head of a pin in every single bloody thread thanks to men like Bailey. It’s exhausting.

They so often combine a surface logic with stubborn wrongness, which suckers me in every time! Like those Twitter posts that include a distracting error for engagement-farming purposes. I have not learned my lesson.

Need to do some work today so must put on all my internet blockers.

Baileyonice · Today 09:51

GeneralPeter · Today 09:28

You don't seem to know much about statistics either.

Prostitution is not illegal (though some related activities are).

Your point was that it's illegitimate for women to be concerned about this (a 'moral panic').

Why should women not be concerned about incarceration rates? Why must they use your preferred numbers, draw your preferred (lack of) conclusions?

We know from the figures that 46 of the transwomen are in prison for rape or attempted rape.

So, re-run the numbers only with those figures and without adjusting downwards the female figures and you get a ratio of 64x.

I've used your figures for the denominator here. I've erred in your favour on every calc. It still comes out really bad.

Prostitution is not illegal (though some related activities are).

"People are imprisoned or prosecuted for prostitution in the UK for the following main reasons:
Brothel-Keeping: Under UK law, any premises used by more than one person for sex work is considered a brothel. Because working alone can be highly dangerous, sex workers often share apartments or spaces for safety. However, doing so is illegal and can lead to prosecution. 1, 2, 3, 4]
Soliciting and Kerb-Crawling: It is illegal to loiter or solicit sex in a public street or in a vehicle (kerb-crawling). 1, 2]
Pimping and Trafficking: The highest penalties—up to seven years in prison—are reserved for third-party exploiters, pimps, and those engaged in human trafficking or forcing people into prostitution. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5]
Failure to Pay Fines: Many individuals, particularly street-based workers, accumulate repeated fines for soliciting. When these fines go unpaid, or they breach community orders or Anti-Social Behaviour Orders (ASBOs), they can face prison sentences. 1, 2]"

Your point was that it's illegitimate for women to be concerned about this (a 'moral panic').
Why should women not be concerned about incarceration rates?

Again the point being made is the impact is far lower than being asserted.

Why must they use your preferred numbers, draw your preferred (lack of) conclusions?

Why should they pay attention to the actual risks & not the ginned up one's? They can do what they want but its notable that its only the UK where this has become an issue. Most other western countries in Scandinavia, Europe, North America & Australia & Asian countries don't consider the risk worth changing the structure of society over.

Perhaps they take a different approach to scapegoating crime problems on minorities like the UK does by understanding them as they are being a symptom of poverty caused by bad governance.

Is Prostitution Legal in the UK - and Elsewhere? - CEASE / Centre to End All Sexual Exploitation

The UK government is only too aware of the serious damage that prostitution inflicts on the individuals involved in it, and on the communities where it takes place. Prostitution is associated with antisocial behaviour, organised crime, trafficking, dru...

https://cease.org.uk/facts/prostitution-2/is-prostitution-legal-in-the-uk-and-elsewhere/

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · Today 09:57

Baileyonice · Today 09:19

Well there's no broad spread movement for change nor is it an election defining issue in either country.

And everyone in the PRC is fine with the political situation in their country, and their "rights" therein, evidenced by the fact that there is "no broad spread movement for change nor is it an election defining issue in either country."

See also North Korea.

FridayOnMyMind · Today 10:07

Baileyonice · Today 08:45

Yeah they "trample" 0.5% of the time being the point.

PS You don't get to speak for all women so 52% is a false total.

Surely even you know how dishonest you are trying to be with statistics there.

nutmeg7 · Today 11:02

Baileyonice · Today 09:19

Well there's no broad spread movement for change nor is it an election defining issue in either country.

That doesn’t mean it is working fine for women.

But it’s not about reality for you, is it?

Just about how things look, and whether you can hand wave away women’s concerns whilst spouting self righteous word wankery.

nutmeg7 · Today 11:17

Baileyonice · Today 09:18

Let's for a moment grant your (rather silly) contention that removing of rights from a group does not count as a harm, only specific instances of harm.

Not what was said at all.

Does a transwoman commit more or less sexual crime than the average woman, for example?

Unknown & irrelevant.

The over arching point being made that you are clearly missing was the actual impact isn't the existential threat being made out not that there wasn't any impact.

Unknown? Only if you don’t accept prison stats, or don’t want to know.

Irrelevant???

GeneralPeter · Today 11:31

@Baileyonice I again appreciate your assistance in providing supporting references for my claims, albeit on the fairly minor point about prostitution laws.

"The impact is far lower than being asserted".

Mate. I'm trying to run with your logic and methods as far as they take us. You wanted a share-of-population as the measure of what's important. You wanted to look at serious issues. The relevant population for many trans debates is the female one (as often the crux is about access or inclusion of transwomen into female areas or categories). We look at the numbers. Suddenly you aren't so keen on numbers any more, the trans population is too small to draw meaningful conclusions from numbers.

its notable that its only the UK where this has become an issue.

OK, this is the measure now is it? Let's take a brief tour:

In the US, multiple states have restricted trans women from female prisons, sports and bathrooms, Title IX changes have been reversed. Sport Australia and other sports bodies have restricted trans women from female competition. Canada is reviewing its prison policies after high-profile cases of transwomen sex offenders in female prisons. Sweden, Denmark, Finland and Norway have all retreated from self-ID. Germany significantly watered down its proposed Self-Determination Act following public debate. Plenty more examples.

Now, no doubt, the goalposts are about to move again.

Why should they pay attention to the actual risks

Pays attention to actual risks.
>> No, no. Not those ones!

Perhaps they take a different approach to scapegoating crime problems ... by understanding them as they are being a symptom of poverty

Is sexual crime primarily driven by poverty? The one overwhelming factor predicting the risk of sexual offending is being male. Do you dispute this?

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · Today 11:35

Baileyonice · Today 02:25

Don't YOU dare dictate to others on the validity of their identity & exaggerate the impact.

I'm not exaggerating. My personal experience is the complete upending of my immediate family. I have little doubt that my son feels something very similar. I know DW does. DD is also severely affected, and she's a trans ally. And yet DS will not discuss even the peripheral aspects of his rather sudden deep dive into gender identity as the defining characteristic of his life. We are to be obedient to the demands of the ideology we don't hold. This is coercive control even if he doesn't see it, except that we have our boundaries so are not easy to control, even DD who is very sympathetic.

As for identity, perhaps the biggest problem with gender identity is that it comes to dominate so many people's self-perception. Our identities are formed around many aspects of ourselves. Is it not unhealthy for gender to become to the one defining aspect of one's personality?

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