Help end medical misogyny. Sign our petition.

Help end medical misogyny.
Sign our petition.

Sign the petition

Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Should cometic surgery to 'affirm' someones gender be banned?

75 replies

happydappy2 · Yesterday 08:25

Should cosmetic surgery to 'affirm' someones gender identity be banned?
So things like males getting silicone implants (not including males requiring that after breast cancer.) Just silicone implants to give them a female shape. Males having having their sex organs removed-being made infertile. Mastectomies for females and the very risky phaloplasty....with hideous infection rates after the op. Again this operation renders them infertile...
This is not health care-this is harming otherwise healthy bodies....if we ban tongue splitting why not ban these types of operations as well?

OP posts:
ArabellaScott · Yesterday 12:22

It's also worth considering the entire cosmetic surgery industry, what drives it, what models it uses and relies on, and the effects.

I'm not generally keen on 'banning' things, but the industry certainly should be questioned.

Instructions · Yesterday 12:31

Banned, no- same as the recent question about breast implants for males: a condition of having it done privately should be the purchase of insurance to cover the costs of any care required if there are complications.

NHS funded, no. But a ban is a different thing.

RobynMiller · Yesterday 13:05

To ban it for trans identifying people but still allow it for everyone else is actual discrimination. I don't like the cosmetic industry for obvious reasons but people do have rights to do with their bodies as they please. This is part of the dangerous path I've been afraid we've been slipping down so it's good to see so many people here being sensible and disagreeing with OP.

happydappy2 · Yesterday 13:23

currently 45% agree and 55% disagree, so a pretty close call.
I would argue that if someone has a mental health issue that makes them think they should be the opposite sex, then therapy to help them come to terms with the sex they are, might actually have better outcomes for them, than trying to live a lie. Especially when viewed through the lens of how they fit into wider society, and what adaptations need to be made to accommodate them, ie creating a whole load of gender neutral bathrooms because a very few individuals don't wish to use the facilities that align with their sex.

We know that people have attempted to transition and been so horrified by the results they've taken their own life. More and more detransitioners are speaking out now saying they deeply regret alternating their bodies as they can't get hose body parts back.....

This is just not a good pathway for people

OP posts:
HenriettaSwanLeavitt · Yesterday 13:32

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · Yesterday 10:17

I’m very wary of banning adults from doing things to their own bodies. Bodily autonomy matters, even when I think someone is making a terrible decision.
So I would not support a blanket criminal ban on “gender affirming surgery” for adults. That feels like the wrong legal tool, because it targets the motive rather than the actual risk. A man getting breast implants should not be treated differently in law from any other adult seeking breast implants simply because his reason is different.

But I also don’t think the words “gender affirming” should give medicine a free pass. Some of these procedures are not ordinary cosmetic tinkering. Mastectomy, removal of healthy reproductive organs, genital surgery and phalloplasty are permanent. They remove healthy function, often sterilise, can create lifelong medical dependency and, in some cases, have very high complication rates.

So:

Adults should not be criminalised for wanting body modification.

The NHS should not fund this unless there is very strong evidence of long-term benefit that outweighs harm.

Doctors should not be allowed to justify their actions by saying they were “just doing what the patient asked”, especially when a distressed patient is asking them to remove healthy body parts.

Any surgeon should have to show proper therapeutic justification, robust consent, independent psychological assessment, full disclosure of complication rates, fertility counselling, alternatives, cooling-off time and long-term follow-up.

No surgery or hormones of any type for those under 18.

There is a conflict in my mind and it's this - I don’t want the state telling competent adults that they may not alter their own bodies. But I absolutely do want the medical profession held to the normal ethical standard: first, do no harm. If a doctor cannot honestly say the operation is likely to benefit that patient overall, they should not do it.

I agree with all this, but woud add two points covered on the previous thread.

One is that the NHS can end up stepping in when private surgeries go wrong, either as an emergency during the surgery or down the line when, the private surgeon washes their hands of any complications. I'm not saying that is right or wrong, but 'the NHS should not fund this' is not possible in an absolute sense.
PP on the other thread suggested compulsory insurance to go along with any UK cosmetic procedure that is not available on the NHS.

Secondly, there is still an issue with people travelling abroad for treatment. Harder to get them to take out insurance for potential future NHS treatment related to their surgery.

LizardyGuts · Yesterday 13:38

happydappy2 · Yesterday 13:23

currently 45% agree and 55% disagree, so a pretty close call.
I would argue that if someone has a mental health issue that makes them think they should be the opposite sex, then therapy to help them come to terms with the sex they are, might actually have better outcomes for them, than trying to live a lie. Especially when viewed through the lens of how they fit into wider society, and what adaptations need to be made to accommodate them, ie creating a whole load of gender neutral bathrooms because a very few individuals don't wish to use the facilities that align with their sex.

We know that people have attempted to transition and been so horrified by the results they've taken their own life. More and more detransitioners are speaking out now saying they deeply regret alternating their bodies as they can't get hose body parts back.....

This is just not a good pathway for people

That is because you didn't clarify in your OP whether you were asking if it should be banned just on the NHS, or banned completely. Your poll is therefore meaningless.
The comments on this thread have been insightful though.

lornad00m · Yesterday 13:46

happydappy2 · Yesterday 08:25

Should cosmetic surgery to 'affirm' someones gender identity be banned?
So things like males getting silicone implants (not including males requiring that after breast cancer.) Just silicone implants to give them a female shape. Males having having their sex organs removed-being made infertile. Mastectomies for females and the very risky phaloplasty....with hideous infection rates after the op. Again this operation renders them infertile...
This is not health care-this is harming otherwise healthy bodies....if we ban tongue splitting why not ban these types of operations as well?

If you're an adult I don't care. You do you.

But not on the NHS's dime. Unless it's reconstructive after say, cancer. Other than that you need to fund it yourself. Some of those operations should be over 21 though. Especially phalloplasty.

logiccalls · Yesterday 13:49

Arabella Scott posted on the last page, about the mental state of the people requesting extreme surgery on healthy bodies. Wanting healthy limbs amputated is one example.

Doubtless anorexic patients would love to be prescribed weight loss drugs, and if possible to have 'fat-reducing' surgery.

It would be obvious that any surgeon or mental health practitioner, or teacher, or anyone else, should not be encouraging these distressed people to continue in their deluded fantasies. Above all, those making money out of them ought to be removed from professional registers.

It appears that men are capable of creating a s fetish out of absolutely anything, so why would autogynophilia be singled out for approval under law, over-riding the safety of women and children, and for public-purse funding?

(Actually, on the creeping mould of approval of s fetishes, others among the most popular are also being sanctioned by 'bewildered' officials, e.g. apparently in some prisons, (Irish??) the men who get s excitement by dressing up in giant nappies, pretending to be babies, are allowed to have guards hold their hands as they walk from the cells, and to have their food pureed and spoon fed to them by guards. They also require two guards with them in their cells, round the clock. Keeping people in prison, with no extra attention at all, costs the public purse a thousand pounds a week. There is a dire shortage of staff. )

Zoonosis · Yesterday 14:21

happydappy2 · Yesterday 09:12

several reasons-they are not simple procedures-phalloplasty has a high rate of complications afterwards-ongoing infections etc etc.
Penis removal and creating a neo vagina has terrible problems afterwards.
I won't go into the graphic details or the thread would most likely get deleted.
a nose job, or boob job is pretty straight forward-yes there is always a risk with any kind of surgery and agree with PP that someone has died following (or during I can't remember) a butt lift operation.
But you could say those operations are minor, well practiced and have good results.
The evidence is that a lot of the gender affirming surgeries have terrible results and come at a huge cost to the individual-hence so many deeply regret having them.
Added to that the basic fact that a previously healthy person becomes a life long medical patient...

Do you have any actual evidence that gender affirming procedures have a higher rate of serious complication than every single other cosmetic or elective procedure? Or is it just something you reckon?

One way in which gender affirming procedures differ from many other procedures, especially when they are done on the NHS, is there is a lengthy (sometimes very lengthy) process of assessment and discussion and diagnosis before the procedure goes ahead, which reduces the risk of a hasty or uninformed decision. One perennial problem with banning stuff is it doesn't stop people accessing it, it just drives the process underground, making it unregulated and more dangerous so if your actual concern is with the risk of side effects and complications, banning it is probably only going to increase the risk of unsafe surgeries.

Is your real concern actually with safety though, or do you just want to stop trans people from being trans people?

helderste · Yesterday 14:37

do you just want to stop trans people from being trans people?

I thought that neither surgical procedures nor medical interventions make someone trans or more trans than someone else and aren’t required to activate the gender reassignment protections of the EA2010 or to acquire a GRC under the GRA?

happydappy2 · Yesterday 15:03

Zoonosis · Yesterday 14:21

Do you have any actual evidence that gender affirming procedures have a higher rate of serious complication than every single other cosmetic or elective procedure? Or is it just something you reckon?

One way in which gender affirming procedures differ from many other procedures, especially when they are done on the NHS, is there is a lengthy (sometimes very lengthy) process of assessment and discussion and diagnosis before the procedure goes ahead, which reduces the risk of a hasty or uninformed decision. One perennial problem with banning stuff is it doesn't stop people accessing it, it just drives the process underground, making it unregulated and more dangerous so if your actual concern is with the risk of side effects and complications, banning it is probably only going to increase the risk of unsafe surgeries.

Is your real concern actually with safety though, or do you just want to stop trans people from being trans people?

If I posted photos here of the travesty that these operations can end in-the thread would likely be deleted.

We're told to listen to trans people-well I am listening to people who regret terribly believing they were trans and being pushed into hormones & surgeries.

There is simply no diagnostic tool to provide an evidence based diagnosis that someone is trans...

OP posts:
Zoonosis · Yesterday 15:42

happydappy2 · Yesterday 15:03

If I posted photos here of the travesty that these operations can end in-the thread would likely be deleted.

We're told to listen to trans people-well I am listening to people who regret terribly believing they were trans and being pushed into hormones & surgeries.

There is simply no diagnostic tool to provide an evidence based diagnosis that someone is trans...

Yes, but you could find gruesome pictures of surgery gone wrong of any surgical procedure. My question was do you have any evidence serious complications are always significantly more likely for gender affirming care than other cosmetic procedures? A few pictures proves nothing about actual statistics.

We're told to listen to trans people-well I am listening to people who regret terribly believing they were trans and being pushed into hormones & surgeries.

While ignoring the significantly larger majority who have not had serious complications and who don't have regrets. So no you are not listening to trans people, you're listening to people who confirm what you already want to believe.

There is simply no diagnostic tool to provide an evidence based diagnosis that someone is trans...

Yes. There literally is. The diagnostic criteria used by doctors is listed in the DSM-5-TR (for gender dysphoria) or the ICD-11 (for gender incongruence).

FernandoSor · Yesterday 15:49

happydappy2 · Yesterday 08:36

I can't think of any other cosmetic surgery that takes away your reproductive ability....thats a fairly major side affect, to try and achieve something that is not possible

Really? You've never heard of a vasectomy or a tubal ligation???

Fancythatfancyhat · Yesterday 15:52

I don't understand how banning them would be justified when we allow the same cosmetic surgeries for others, and sometimes even on the NHS. Is a labiaplasty not in some way gender "affirming" (although I hate that word) as there's no clinical reason other than them feeling they don't conform to a notion of what a vulva should look like.

JellySaurus · Yesterday 15:53

FernandoSor · Yesterday 15:49

Really? You've never heard of a vasectomy or a tubal ligation???

They are not cosmetic.

Additup · Yesterday 15:54

arethereanyleftatall · Yesterday 09:14

I hope so. You see some still shots of TW on social media, where for a very small portion of them, they do look like they might look like women in real life, so I hope as you say you can still tell.

Anyone can make themselves look convincing in a photo, especially with filters etc but face to face walking down the street is a completely different matter.

It's impossible to disguise a male or female gait/musculoskeletal system because something will always look not quite right.

Fancythatfancyhat · Yesterday 16:01

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · Yesterday 13:32

I agree with all this, but woud add two points covered on the previous thread.

One is that the NHS can end up stepping in when private surgeries go wrong, either as an emergency during the surgery or down the line when, the private surgeon washes their hands of any complications. I'm not saying that is right or wrong, but 'the NHS should not fund this' is not possible in an absolute sense.
PP on the other thread suggested compulsory insurance to go along with any UK cosmetic procedure that is not available on the NHS.

Secondly, there is still an issue with people travelling abroad for treatment. Harder to get them to take out insurance for potential future NHS treatment related to their surgery.

This is an important point. The NHS ends up funding a lot of things around and after private care, so it's not possible to completely unfund something from the NHS. If they have a complication, infection or pre-op.flags something to be resolved before surgery that all falls on the NHS.

LizardyGuts · Yesterday 16:09

Fancythatfancyhat · Yesterday 15:52

I don't understand how banning them would be justified when we allow the same cosmetic surgeries for others, and sometimes even on the NHS. Is a labiaplasty not in some way gender "affirming" (although I hate that word) as there's no clinical reason other than them feeling they don't conform to a notion of what a vulva should look like.

The NHS doesn't do any cosmetic surgery, unless it's fixing something that has gone wrong in some way/is unhealthy. They certainly don't do cosmetic labiaplasty just because you want a different appearance! You would only qualify if your labia are considered abnormal and you have problems, such as painful sex.

Fancythatfancyhat · Yesterday 16:12

LizardyGuts · Yesterday 16:09

The NHS doesn't do any cosmetic surgery, unless it's fixing something that has gone wrong in some way/is unhealthy. They certainly don't do cosmetic labiaplasty just because you want a different appearance! You would only qualify if your labia are considered abnormal and you have problems, such as painful sex.

Umm they absolutely do! If a consultant agrees to add them to a list it will be done and the majority of patients I see have this are young early 20 something's where the appearance is what they believe to be abnormal and it's getting them down despite being completely normal. Perhaps don't make such blanket comments if you're gonna be so incorrect.

Ponderingwindow · Yesterday 16:12

We allow adults to get all sorts of cosmetic surgeries that are not necessary for physical health. Unless we ban all of those, we have no business evaluating the reason an adult wants to spend their own money modifying their body.

I would hope a reputable surgeon would consider just how many surgeries an individual can undergo safely. Beyond that, it is their choice.

cocoadreams · Yesterday 16:13

I am gender critical, however, trans people will say that the emotional pain of living with the ‘wrong sex’ genitals leads to depression and sometimes to suicide. I assume the surgeons performing the surgery take this into account when considering ‘do no harm’. I am also a doctor and would welcome a more open and public debate about what the NHS will and will not fund

ArabellaScott · Yesterday 16:22

cocoadreams · Yesterday 16:13

I am gender critical, however, trans people will say that the emotional pain of living with the ‘wrong sex’ genitals leads to depression and sometimes to suicide. I assume the surgeons performing the surgery take this into account when considering ‘do no harm’. I am also a doctor and would welcome a more open and public debate about what the NHS will and will not fund

People say a lot of things.

Did you read about Neil Hopper?

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · Yesterday 16:25

If they are an adult, are self funding it and have proven to be mentally fit to make that decision then I think it’s fine.

JellySaurus · Yesterday 16:30

ArabellaScott · Yesterday 12:21

Maybe worth considering BIID as a parallel issue with perhaps some similar questions.

Should surgeons remove healthy body parts because a patient really wants them removed?

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34237024/

'Body integrity dysphoria (BID) is an intense need/desire to live in a disabled body, particularly due to a limb amputation or paraplegia. The investigators observed that significantly more people affected by BID wish to change their gender compared with the average population.'

Tiny study, but interesting.

'These results indicate a comprehensive disruption of identification with one's own body, which is not limited to legs or arms, but also affects the gender identity of many affected individuals. '

Do surgeons amputate in such situations? Or is BIID treated with talking therapies, anti-depressants, anti-psychotics etc?

SinuousTendrils · Yesterday 16:31

Oh god didn't you get enough affirmation of your vitriolic views in the other thread?🙄

Swipe left for the next trending thread