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EdithStourton · Yesterday 19:55

The thread in which Gosie's mysterious adventures will continue. All women welcome to join us for a virtual tipple, fun, support and arcane knowledge. And tractors.

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MyrtleLion · Yesterday 21:20

I am extremely upset and angry.

I created the best application I have ever made for a fabulous job that I was perfect for.

Just got brushed off with a standard rejection saying other people had more experience in the sector. Well, my previous role was as a generalist - a bloody good one - so I can never be of the exact sector.

It's been 18 months searching and I don't know I'm doing wrong.

Apparently I'm overqualified, too generalist and haven't managed enough people or money. So I can't scale up, I can't specialise and the roles I'm going for are already very senior directors. I don't know what more I can do.

It's been 18 months unemployed and I don't feel I've got anywhere in that time.

Magpiecomplex · Yesterday 21:22

Oh Myrtle. That's rough. Sending you Flowers and 🐪🐫

AsWithGlad · Yesterday 21:24

I'm very sorry to read that, Myrtle. Sending Bluestocking-appropriate hugs and lots of virtual flowers.

Hedgehogforshort · Yesterday 21:25

Myrtle it is nothing to do with anything other than your age. Yes be angry, about that.

Boiledbeetle · Yesterday 21:26

Hedgehogforshort · Yesterday 20:53

Boiled put them in a potato sack, as far as i can recall BOILED where are they?

I'm saying nothing without legal representation.

<cuddles Rosie, throws Dreamies at the cat and gives Colin a bone>

Harriet will be at Marie's.

RandomHypatia · Yesterday 21:29

Boiledbeetle · Yesterday 19:55

Pint of full fat coke and a packet of Scampi Fries please bar gerbil.

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Same here, please. I'd like to finish off with a slice of black forest gateaux with a glass of Sauternes (I know the pudding is too sweet for that dessert wine but I'm not classy). It took an hour and a half of reading to child tonight before they were willing to sleep.

In real life I'd intended to spend an hour on the bike I have set up on my turbo trainer tonight, but it's now so late after bedtime duty I'm having a hot chocolate and biscuits instead.

AngleofRepose · Yesterday 21:30

Oh, good, I found it! Rosie and I walked the long way around to stay upwind of the Ferret Barn. We saw Venus near the western horizon, and Jupiter quite near the waxing moon. Not quite waxing gibbous, but give it a few days.

Nice to see you all! Just staying for a quick drink, then home to bed. Bar gerbils, hot chocolate with extra cream please!

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 21:32

Gosie's continuing adventures...

Right. Enough of the “mysterious breeze through a doorway” routine—here’s what actually happened.
Over that very good wine, the archivist mentioned a problem. Not dramatic, not headline-worthy—worse than that. A discrepancy. Something that shouldn’t quite exist, but does. A work—minor on paper, but not minor if you know what you’re looking at—has been quietly circulating under the wrong identity. Not stolen. Not missing. Just… misattributed in a way that benefits exactly one very discreet collector.
The thread leads west.
Gosie left Mount Stuart at first light, took the short hop north, then angled across—no dithering, no scenic nonsense—towards Oban. From there, she’s not staying put. Oban is just the hinge. Ferries, private boats, quiet logistics.
Final direction: Isle of Mull.
Why Mull? Because it’s perfect for this sort of thing:

  • remote enough to avoid scrutiny
  • connected enough that objects can move without raising eyebrows
  • scattered estates and private houses where collections exist off any formal record
The target isn’t a heist. It’s a correction. Someone on Mull has a painting hanging quite comfortably under the wrong name. Not a fake—ironically, it’s better than that. It’s real, just mislabelled in a way that suppresses its value and importance. Whether that was incompetence or design is… open. Gosie’s job is to confirm it, document it, and quietly set in motion the process that puts it back into its proper story. That might mean a discreet conversation. It might mean a swap of documentation. It might mean nothing visible at all—just the right information reaching the right person at the right time. No alarms. No vanishing frames. Just one small, precise shift in the art world that most people will never notice. And then she’ll be back at the Bluestocking, stirring her coffee, while somewhere in a catalogue, a name has changed—and a handful of very serious people are suddenly paying attention.
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AngleofRepose · Yesterday 21:36

Sorry about that job application, Myrtle. At one of my last jobs, we had nearly 800 applicants for one posted job! It took three of us over a week , full-time, just to get that down to 50, from which we shortlisted 10. If recruiters are now using AI to speed that process up, they're going to miss a lot of great candidates (like you!) I suspect it's the process that's the part of the problem, too. 🙁

AngleofRepose · Yesterday 21:40

Boiledbeetle · Yesterday 21:26

I'm saying nothing without legal representation.

<cuddles Rosie, throws Dreamies at the cat and gives Colin a bone>

Harriet will be at Marie's.

Wait a minute! If Rosie was in the potato sack, then...who did I walk all that way with??

I won't sleep now.

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 21:40

AngleofRepose · Yesterday 21:36

Sorry about that job application, Myrtle. At one of my last jobs, we had nearly 800 applicants for one posted job! It took three of us over a week , full-time, just to get that down to 50, from which we shortlisted 10. If recruiters are now using AI to speed that process up, they're going to miss a lot of great candidates (like you!) I suspect it's the process that's the part of the problem, too. 🙁

The last interview I had I was one of seven out of 400 candidates, and previously I was down to the last two of 800. So I am capable of beating the volume.

Also I asked two different AI models to assess my application against the brief and both said I should get an interview. Hence my upset.

I have tried really hard and I'm getting nowhere. And when I applied for lower roles I didn't get shortlisted because I was too senior.

I can't get anywhere.

AngleofRepose · Yesterday 21:44

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 21:40

The last interview I had I was one of seven out of 400 candidates, and previously I was down to the last two of 800. So I am capable of beating the volume.

Also I asked two different AI models to assess my application against the brief and both said I should get an interview. Hence my upset.

I have tried really hard and I'm getting nowhere. And when I applied for lower roles I didn't get shortlisted because I was too senior.

I can't get anywhere.

And when I applied for lower roles I didn't get shortlisted because I was too senior.

Oh, I hate that! Yes, has happened to me, too.

It is so discouraging.

Perhaps you should try to get your Gosie stories published- they really are very entertaining 😊

EdithStourton · Yesterday 21:44

I'm so sorry Myrtle, it is gutting when you apply knowing that you can damn well do the job and don't even get an interview. You must feel as if you're going round in circles - so frustrating and demoralising.

I wish I could offer you something more than sympathy over the Internet.

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EdithStourton · Yesterday 21:47

Oh, and Gosie...
She is going to relabel that picture and either
A) the person who has just inherited it, having been passed over for all the really valuable stuff, will suddenly be the one who can pay for the repairs to the ancestral pile and will, perforce, be able to move in and enjoy it or
B) someone nasty will be stung for huge amounts of inheritance tax.

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AngleofRepose · Yesterday 21:49

Myrtle, don't know if it's quite your thing, but once when I was stuck in a rut (not looking for work, but hating my job), a friend recommended a life coach. It was an interesting experience, a few sessions gave me some ideas, and eventually led me to a different job, working 80%FTE, which I could just about afford then.

NotAtMyAge · Yesterday 21:50

So sorry, Myrtle. That's really rough. At one extreme we have youngsters struggling even to be considered for jobs for lack of experience and at the other we have people like you with huge amounts of experience and excellent skills being dismissed as overqualified or too senior. Such a waste of talent.

AngleofRepose · Yesterday 21:50

EdithStourton · Yesterday 21:47

Oh, and Gosie...
She is going to relabel that picture and either
A) the person who has just inherited it, having been passed over for all the really valuable stuff, will suddenly be the one who can pay for the repairs to the ancestral pile and will, perforce, be able to move in and enjoy it or
B) someone nasty will be stung for huge amounts of inheritance tax.

It'll be the IHT that'll get you every time!

AngleofRepose · Yesterday 21:57

I'm off home to bed, I'll be taking one of the support camels just for, y'know, IN CASE.

(it looked so much like Rosie...)

Night, everyone.

Magpiecomplex · Yesterday 21:57

Just thinking out loud here. I'm connected, via the distaff side, to an ancestral pile on Mull. Interesting. 🤔

SidewaysOtter · Yesterday 22:01

I’ve never made it in here before but I heard there were Scampi Fries…. I’ll have a pint of them with a Tunnocks chaser, please?

Sorry about the job, Myrtle Flowers

MarieDeGournay · Yesterday 22:06

I'm so sorry about the job app, Myrtle, the selection processes don't let your qualities shine through. It's so frustrating.🐪Flowers x

Hedgehogforshort · Yesterday 22:09

Waves @SidewaysOtter seen you elsewhere. What would you like to drink?

@MarieDeGournay i was just about to order a search party out for you.

MarieDeGournay · Yesterday 22:09

Thank you for the new thread, Edith, it's already page 2 and I've just arrived!

Here's Harriet the Husky Rat, I've delivered her safely to the new Bluey thread.

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EdithStourton · Yesterday 22:14

Magpiecomplex · Yesterday 21:57

Just thinking out loud here. I'm connected, via the distaff side, to an ancestral pile on Mull. Interesting. 🤔

My only connection to an ancestral pile is that a forebear made some of the bricks.

There's probably an ancestral hovel still standing, 'sympathically extended to offer the benefits of modern living' (i.e. 3x the size it was to start with, and it now has glass in the windows).

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Chickadeeinme · Yesterday 22:14

Many sympathies Myrtle. I second the suggestion of a life coach - you're getting so frustrated with the process and with being rejected, and it is always possible for you to take your skills in a different direction. A FB friend of mine switched from accountancy to working in film with scripts at the age of 50 and is having a whale of a time.