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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
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Boiledbeetle · 29/03/2026 19:17

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 29/03/2026 19:12

I love beetles! I saved one of your sisters who was in the middle of the road the other day - or it could have been you! Do you have beautiful iridescent wing casings?

Propose I Love You GIF

I do!

I wondered who the heroine who saved my life the other day was. She had disappeared before I got chance to thank her.

Thank you

loislovesstewie · 29/03/2026 19:18

I fail to see why I should be threatened and panicky by a South African athlete who I will never meet. What I don't like are people who cheat to win hugely important sports events, no matter how they do it.

CohensDiamondTeeth · 29/03/2026 19:18

SirChenjins · 29/03/2026 19:14

Why threatened and panicky? @Uglydumpling

Edited

It's projection. That's what Uglydumpling is feeling right now.

SirChenjins · 29/03/2026 19:19

Uglydumpling · 29/03/2026 19:15

You tell me

Well no - I can't see inside your head. What made you think "threatened and panicky''?

EdithStourton · 29/03/2026 19:19

also don’t think you are meanies - I think you feel threatened and panicky and therefore want everyone to agree with you and mis gender CS
No. Just pissed off at having to explain this on a bloody loop.
I know someone who has a DSD. He is male. His DSD does not turn him into a woman or a member of some third sex. He looks like a man, he sounds like a man, he has male pattern baldness. He lives 'as a man'.
CS was quite clearly living 'as a boy' by the time he hit that beach in Durban.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 29/03/2026 19:19

Uglydumpling · 29/03/2026 19:15

You tell me

No, you tell us.
You made the remark.

EdithStourton · 29/03/2026 19:20

Boiledbeetle · 29/03/2026 18:44

The answer should of course be yes! Everyone knows I truly am a beetle!

But seriously Caster has everything to lose and nothing to gain by admitting the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

I know you are, Boily.
I've seen the photos.

Boiledbeetle · 29/03/2026 19:20

Uglydumpling · 29/03/2026 19:13

That’s me last - but without the brain washing

I can see why she wants to stay with what she thought she was and it doesn’t affect me in a negative way as long as she doesn’t compete in female category

also don’t think you are meanies - I think you feel threatened and panicky and therefore want everyone to agree with you and mis gender CS

Edited

Not threatened, not panicky just thoroughly sick of men wanting things that aren't theirs to take.

And the words girl, woman, female, she and her do not belong to men.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 29/03/2026 19:21

Uglydumpling · 29/03/2026 19:11

im saying we don’t know and can not know the direction of CS thinking mind at any onetime

you don’t have to have male genitals to wear the shorts though do you

No of course not but how many 15 year old girls do we see posing topless for a picture in boys swimming shorts?

Poppiesmocking · 29/03/2026 19:21

And the the fears of genital inspection [that seems to be quite a theme, doesn't it? we get in re women's toilets too] are rendered irrelevant by the fact that a simple swab is all that's needed

As if drug testing doesn’t require athletes to strip round their middle whilst an independent assessor watches urine as it leaves their body….

Poppiesmocking · 29/03/2026 19:22

IOC says men, including men with 5-ARD like Semenya, can no longer take part in women’s sports. And it those who agree with this that are meant to be the panicky ones? 🤔

FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/03/2026 19:23

Uglydumpling · 29/03/2026 19:13

That’s me last - but without the brain washing

I can see why she wants to stay with what she thought she was and it doesn’t affect me in a negative way as long as she doesn’t compete in female category

also don’t think you are meanies - I think you feel threatened and panicky and therefore want everyone to agree with you and mis gender CS

Edited

Angry dear. The word you want is angry.

I am angry that women's interests are being put behind those of men. I am angry that you care so much more about the possibly hurt feelings of a man who unfairly took female medals and prize money and records than the women he displaced.

And I am not ashamed to be angry.

One of the levers the world uses to shame women out of standing up for ourselves and our sisters is that even justified female anger is a weakness, is unbecoming.

The lie that if we smile nicely enough at the people who fuck us over they will be motivated to look on us more kindly, that of their own voilition they will suddenly decide to treat us fairly after all. The potent cultural trope of female abasement and self sacrifice.

Nah, fuck that shit. It's just one more con the male-centred world runs on women.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 29/03/2026 19:25

I think you feel threatened and panicky and therefore want everyone to agree with you and misgender CS

I feel as far removed from "threatened and panicky" as it is possible to be.

It's not a question of agreement, either. There is nothing to discuss.
CS is a biological male.

He took medals away from women athletes, knowing that he was male.

My sympathies in this case are reserved for the women who were denied victory and prize money when a man ran in their category.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/03/2026 19:27

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 29/03/2026 19:21

No of course not but how many 15 year old girls do we see posing topless for a picture in boys swimming shorts?

Randomly, due to a limited choice and a strong desire not to have to bother with my bikini line, I do actually wear a pair of boys swimming shorts with a tankini top.

Being made without a gusset, they give me terrible camel toe. I do not recommend boys shorts to any women of the original sex based type.

Waitwhat23 · 29/03/2026 19:29

we're 'threatened and panicky'?

Nah, the world is starting to right itself and that big old 'the terfs were right jar' is filling up rapidly.

Gender ideology is in it's death throes and those desperately still trying to centre men are the ones who are threatened and panicky.

Datun · 29/03/2026 19:32

Chersfrozenface · 29/03/2026 19:04

It could be.

But there are people who have heen taken in by genderist propaganda and actually believe that Semenya is a woman who has been unfairly treated.

And there are those who have been so brainwashed by bekindery that they believe Semenya should be able to call himself a woman if he wants, even if he shouldn't compete in women's sports - and worse, that the rest of us should also connive in that lie and refer to him as she and her or otherwise we're meanies / bullies / fascists / nazis or whatever the insult du jour may happen to be.

Yeah, it's the yeah but no but. You're all right, no wait a minute, I'm just gonna repeat everything I said before I said you're all right.

and then I saw this...😄 which nailed it

also don’t think you are meanies - I think you feel threatened and panicky and therefore want everyone to agree with you and mis gender CS

Threatened and panicky

🤣

Well that should tell the molecular biologists on this thread, at least.

MarieDeGournay · 29/03/2026 19:36

Uglydumpling · 29/03/2026 19:13

That’s me last - but without the brain washing

I can see why she wants to stay with what she thought she was and it doesn’t affect me in a negative way as long as she doesn’t compete in female category

also don’t think you are meanies - I think you feel threatened and panicky and therefore want everyone to agree with you and mis gender CS

Edited

I'm on record as have a degree of ... maybe 'sympathy' is too strong a word - for people with DSDs who genuinely do not know about their true sex until late in life.
I accept that there are circumstances in which a baby who does not look like a boy is considered to be a girl, and is brought up accordingly.
When it is revealed, whether naturally at puberty, or medically through chromosomal testing, I believe that young person deserves loving support to face and accept the shock of the truth about their biological sex.

In the current infamous cases in women's sports, the young people appear to have been pushed to continue IDing as female, because there's fame and fortune for their 'handlers' in having them take part in competitions where they have an inbuilt advantage.

However, and irrationally I admit, I find it hard to muster a lot of sympathy for Caster Semenya, who plays the cool dude celeb with a bit too much relish for my liking, and seems to be fully aware that we know that he knows that we know that he knows because everybody knows but he's getting away with it bigtime so the joke is on us...

The only thing I feel 'threatened' by is the assault on reality and scientific fact. Living in a post-factual world is disturbing; but it's OK I'm not panicky, Uglydumpling, I reckon common sense and reality will prevail. Eventually. Preferably ASAPSmile

Uglydumpling · 29/03/2026 19:40

Waitwhat23 · 29/03/2026 19:29

we're 'threatened and panicky'?

Nah, the world is starting to right itself and that big old 'the terfs were right jar' is filling up rapidly.

Gender ideology is in it's death throes and those desperately still trying to centre men are the ones who are threatened and panicky.

This is nothing to with trans..

MarieDeGournay · 29/03/2026 19:41

Uglydumpling · 29/03/2026 19:40

This is nothing to with trans..

Yes we know! We've been discussing eligibility for women's sports/men with DSDs.

Waitwhat23 · 29/03/2026 19:42

Uglydumpling · 29/03/2026 19:40

This is nothing to with trans..

No, it's to do with males.

As has been stated repeatedly on this very thread.

Males.

Datun · 29/03/2026 19:43

The way it's connected to trans ideology is because TRAs use DSDs as a wedge issue, and to pretend that sex isn't binary.

MarieDeGournay · 29/03/2026 19:45

Boiledbeetle · 29/03/2026 19:17

I do!

I wondered who the heroine who saved my life the other day was. She had disappeared before I got chance to thank her.

Thank you

Awww. That's so lovely. <wipes away tear>
Who's the cat, though? Maybe it's your Rosenkavalier because a beetle is too small to carry a rose?
Am I destroying a beautiful moment by overthinking?Grin

Waitwhat23 · 29/03/2026 19:46

Because the whole gender ideology bullshit has been the moat enormous gift to those who want to centre males at the expense of females.

And is why, whenever we say 'he's very clearly a male with a specific DSD and shouldn't be competing against women' we get chapter and verse of the gender ideology playbook hits, including 'sex is on a spectrum!'

Misogyny turned up to the highest point.

Uglydumpling · 29/03/2026 19:49

SirChenjins · 29/03/2026 19:19

Well no - I can't see inside your head. What made you think "threatened and panicky''?

The insistence for everyone to agree with your view - not you personally but the majority thinking on here - I see it time and time again on mumsnet that only one view fits on these issues

I can see why CS wants to see herself as a women AND I’m clear she should not take part In Womens sport - both views can exist

Uglydumpling · 29/03/2026 19:51

Datun · 29/03/2026 19:43

The way it's connected to trans ideology is because TRAs use DSDs as a wedge issue, and to pretend that sex isn't binary.

And DSDs don’t see themselves as trans so they are not on board with that