Sticking everyone under the ASD umbrella because 'spiky profile' was just stupid. It was just a way to raise the bar on assessment criteria IMO, but many in the autistic community seemed to think it was a wonderful move because they had once self harmed/felt suicidal/had a melt down in a car park. No one seemed to grasp that the difference between classic ASD and Aspergers was simply whether you also had a learning disability or not - and that that differentiation was probably pretty useful/important.
I'd also say that many people with ASD build their life so that it allows them to cope well and this can make it seem feel to them like they are not disabled by having ASD (or ADHD). I don't think it's unusual in higher functioning people. DS had a pretty shit time through secondary school, no friends, but now has a job in his special interest, something he's very good at and is doing really well. He has a lot in common now with his peers, gets on well with them and would consider them friends - although he wouldn't see them outside work. He wouldn't consider himself disabled. No one should be being diagnosed though because they're an introvert, ASD is much more complex than that.
DS was breast fed, co slept and didn't go to nursery till he was three. He was diagnosed with Aspergers, it is genetic, no question about it - I have at least 4 ND diagnosed relatives, and several older generation that are IMO undiagnosed. I definitely didn't 'push' for him to be diagnosed with Aspergers because of cachet or to feel better about him getting diagnosed. He was diagnosed with Aspergers because he's autistic and he didn't have a learning disability.
The article is just a load of stupid nonsense IMO. For example 'These days, many people are self-diagnosing before they are assessed.' Well duh, if you don't think you've got something wrong with you then you're not going to seek diagnosis are you? No one goes to the doctor with a mole if they don't think it's skin cancer, no one goes to the doctor with debilitating headaches and doesn't suggest they might be suffering from migraines.
I'd also strongly disagree that teachers somehow 'intuitively' know what children need. Teachers often don't have a clue! IME they know very little about Aspergers. Many kids get all the way through primary school without being noticed, DS did and I know lots of others.
The idea that ASD is a more common male 'disease' just like 'psychopathy' is as fucking offensive as hell. Why the fuck would you link psychopathy and asd in this way. It's also highly misogynistic to suggest that the girls being diagnosed in their teens are just over sensitive. I know several diagnosed this way who have other ND family members, it is clearly genetic and they have been masking the hell out of life until the wheels completely fell off. What proof is there that it's not just less diagnosed due to masking - beyond 'her view'. That's hardly scientific proof is it.
I notice she doesn't really say what these 'wide' criteria are that mean we're now apparently diagnosing too many people under the lovely inclusive ASD 'umbrella' - or is she just talking about the emotionally overwrought teenage girls?
I loathe how people are obsessed with the 'explosion' in numbers. There's also been an explosion in numbers of dyslexic children but for some very strange reason no one ever, ever, ever mentions that - or is at all concerned about it. Why is that? Up to 20% of people are now thought to possibly be dyslexic - pretty similar to stats on ASD and ADHD I believe - but absolutely no concerns about that at all for some reason. Weird huh? Even this woman who specialises in ASD and dyslexia doesn't seem to be wringing her hands over that, just that the ASD spectrum is now too big.
The last thing i would say is that there are a lot of things that can cause ADHD like symptoms, including trauma for example, and we need to be careful that kids are getting the right diagnosis so they can get the right treatment there. When it come to Aspergers though there is no treatment. A poorly photocopied booklist was all we were offered by the NHS.