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DameMaud · 21/02/2026 08:46

Brainworm · 21/02/2026 08:04

Many children, parents and clinicians see gender distress as being a primary condition that needs treating as such. Others see gender distress as a symptom of other conditions which, when treated, the gender distress will disappear or diminish. Some, like Cass, suggest that it is primarily a symptom of other conditions but in very rare cases, it can be a primary condition.

The positive element of the Pathways trial was wider data being collected that could provide evidence to support/challenge these differing perspectives.

If the trialing of puberty blockers is stopped, I hope that investment in research will continue so good quality evidence can be used to inform how gender distress is understood and treated.

But none of this helps if the larger societal elephant in the room cannot be named, discussed, and addressed as part of this.

It is still making the mistake of focussing on individual distress without holding it within the larger, holistic context.

A 'how did we get here' exploration (like our thread on here)- full acknowledgement of how we got from tiny numbers of almost exclusively young boys suffering with gender distress to the current cohort. Then, what do we do with that understanding now that the a massive cultural shift and embedding has happened around GI?

The distress children feel will be ongoing as long as the cultural narrative is what it currently is. The culture bound nature of it will continue.

How do we separate managing the distress from the cultural element? How could research address that? Genuinely interested.

DameProfessorIDareSay · 21/02/2026 08:48

tropicaltrance · 21/02/2026 08:45

Without it, questions on safety and efficacy of PBs will never be answered, and kids will just source this stuff through other much less safe means.

This argument doesn't make sense to me. With any other drug we would go after the people supplying it and shut that down. We wouldn't say "let's give spice/ketamine/whatever to children so we can prove once and for all that it harms children and then everyone will of course immediately stop trying to obtain or supply it".

That's not how we deal with any other substance being supplied illicitly or inappropriately.

Exactly. And this trial will do nothing to prevent the illegal supply; anyone not accepted on it will just get the drugs elsewhere.

I think HC has been badly affected by the sob stories she has heard and wants to ‘be kind’, i don’t think it’s fear of TRAs, it’s misplaced sympathy.

nolongersurprised · 21/02/2026 08:49

Once infertility is acknowledged I can’t see how any trial of children is allowed to go ahead. 14 year olds MAY have retention of fertility after blockers and wrong sex hormones but :

  • no one knows
  • fertility will be definitely be reduced

It’s true that adults who have transitioned can sometimes have fertility return after they stop cross sex hormones (if they haven’t removed testicles or ovaries) but there’s been NO research on what happens if children are receive blockers and cross sex hormones at 14 plus.

I think this is it, I really do. Not the end obvs but things are accelerating. Tick tock, Telfer. (And yes, I know she’s not the head of the gender clinic at RCH, but it’s her baby).

BettyBooper · 21/02/2026 08:49

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 21/02/2026 08:39

Indeed.

In fact, we already know from the failed Tavistock experiment that puberty blockers don’t work as a “time to think”.

If you assume that the “time to think” is an extra period of time in which the child and their carers and physicians can determine whether they are one of the 90-95% of gender distressed children who will grow out of the gender distress, then we already know that puberty blockers do not give this extra time. We know this because 90-95% of children who were given them at the Tavistock went on to cross sex hormones, which is not the numbers that would be expected if you left the children unmedicated. There was no evidence that anyone was able to use this supposed extra time to identify the tiny proportion of children who would not outgrow gender distress.

So, it’s not a “time to think” thing either.

Thanks for this.

Honestly, it just boils down to 'these kids want them and therefore we must find a way to give them to them'. Which Cass pretty much admitted this week with the whole 'otherwise they'll get them illegally ' nonsense.

And I'm not blaming the kids for wanting them. I'm blaming the adults who put this ridiculous idea in their heads to start with.

nolongersurprised · 21/02/2026 08:50

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nolongersurprised · 21/02/2026 08:51

Sorry, double post!

Brainworm · 21/02/2026 08:52

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 21/02/2026 08:09

The Pathways trial was only ever going to (poorly) replicate the failed and disastrous trial that was already carried out at the Tavistock. The solution is not to harm more children, but to expend all energies to track down the children that have already been harmed.

The Pathways study has many flaws but it isn’t a replication of the Tavistock/UCL study.
The Tavistock study project wasn’t a trial at all, it was an uncontrolled observational study where every participant received blockers and there was no comparison group.

Pathways, as it stands, is a randomised controlled trial with an immediate‑treatment group, a delayed‑treatment group, and a large external comparison cohort. It uses matched allocation to balance key characteristics across groups.

The Pathways trial was designed to be able to produce causal findings e.g. participants in the PB condition showed no improvement in anxiety or depression scores after a year, while the matched treatment group did show improvement over the same period. The Tavi study could only report what was observed with individual participants.

I agree that important data from people now in their 20s and 30s who took PBs as treatment for gender distress during puberty is valuable and should be collected where possible - but it can’t produce robust evidence such as that obtained through a trial.

I am not in favour of the Pathways trial, I think it is/ was unethical. My point was that it’s important that research is conducted to inform how best to treat young people with the condition or symptoms of gender distress.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 21/02/2026 08:54

tropicaltrance · 21/02/2026 08:45

Without it, questions on safety and efficacy of PBs will never be answered, and kids will just source this stuff through other much less safe means.

This argument doesn't make sense to me. With any other drug we would go after the people supplying it and shut that down. We wouldn't say "let's give spice/ketamine/whatever to children so we can prove once and for all that it harms children and then everyone will of course immediately stop trying to obtain or supply it".

That's not how we deal with any other substance being supplied illicitly or inappropriately.

Agreed, they need to start investigating the 'community' where they're getting the information on how to get their hands on illegal drugs.

Country Lines is a criminal organisation that uses vulnerable kids to move their 'product', the 'Trans' Lines who are feeding vulnerable kids to those who are supplying PB's need to be investigated in the same way.

Start at the top with the suppliers like Webberley.

BiologicalRobot · 21/02/2026 08:54

I'm so pleased this has now been paused in England and was very surprised to see NI had paused it first!

I've not been following this closely but has anyone been actively chasing up all those who went through the Tavistock originally see their outcomes? Has there even been a national campaign asking them to get in contact that I've missed or have all those patients been a figment of our imaginations? Surely that is where you start first before pushing more vulnerable children through another half arsed trial.

RedToothBrush · 21/02/2026 08:54

DameProfessorIDareSay · 21/02/2026 08:14

"But Cass told the BBC last week it was "vital" that the trial for puberty blockers for under-16s went ahead, or "we're going to have ongoing charlatans just handing out inappropriate drugs", pointing to the private sale of the drugs - particularly online."

From the BBC article linked in this thread.

I cannot get behind this argument at all and I am surprised that someone like Hilary Cass is sinking as low as to use it. I know she has spoken to many of the parents and children accessing PBs via people like Webberley and I think she comes from a place of compassion, in that she may think that these children are going to get the drugs anyway so it would be better if they were monitored via the trial. I can understand she may think this justifies the trial.

But thinking it through, would we do this for any other illegal drug? I know they have tried things like ’safe injecting rooms’ in Scotland (I think) for heroin users etc. but suppliers are still prosecuted.

If PBs are banned, then surely shutting off every illegal supply (there can't be that many) would be the best option? The vile people supplying PBs to vulnerable families need to be in jail.

I'm guessing the MRHA are extremists and are weaponising ethics then. Aren't they Hilary?

Sorry you don't recognise that 8 - 14 year olds might lack the capacity to consent and these drugs might have significant side effects to the point that it's deeply unethical to even trial these drugs.

Sorry that you don't recognise that parents getting blockers off the blackmarket will be doing so for prepubescent children - it won't be the children themselves getting the drugs cos they are so young. Sorry that you don't recognise these parents should be prosecuted for abusing their children rather than enabling them with a fucking trial.

I do await your reasoned response qualifying how the MHRA isn't weaponsing but all the people who have the exact same reasoning as the MHRA somehow are. I do look forward to your reasoned response as to why the people you've smeared about this trial for reasons which have been upheld by the MHRA are somehow wrong on single sex spaces and schools too when you've been shown up as wrong on puberty blockers.

Hey Hilary, how IS this working out for you on that fence which isn't in the middle at all but has still given you splinters whilst firmly supporting the abuse of children?

Honest to god, I find it astonishing that she grasped so many of the issues then got to a point where she seems to have given up on the evidence and ethics stuff and veered into woowoo land without realising she was doing it.

No we were never ideologically extreme Hilary. We just saw the inevitable outcomes and harms and went "No this doesn't meet the threshold for safe or ethical conduct and raises a whole pile of safeguarding issues which were already in the open due to the Tavistock scandal which you seem to have read, acknowledged, agreed with and then instantly forgotten"

I just can't fathom what's going on in this woman's head at all. She so very nearly grasped it. Then she floundered and bottled it.

Soontobe60 · 21/02/2026 08:56

NumbersGuy · 21/02/2026 06:39

As I understand it, the '50 suicides of trans kids' is an outright lie,

Thank goodness so many qualified and certified transvestigators are here to protect their pearls from becoming whittled down to nothing from all of the clutching. All of these postings consistently vilify the clinicians, but NEVER the parents who have to give their legal permission if they're under age 16. On top of that, the National Child Mortality Database (surprise surprise), actually noted that out of 647 suicides between April 2019 and March 2025, 107 identified as LGBTQIA+, 46 of whom identified as trans. But of course these numbers can't be correct, since they are based on scientific data parameters.

Let's just go back to just hanging the witches like they did centuries ago, since that was fear mongering without science. Just like abortions being illegal until 1968 - how many women lost their lives because science wasn't recognized as being a legitimate source. In 2023, almost 278,000 were performed, not only saving women's lives but also helping their lives better about not being ready to have an unwanted child. Please just stop going to the doctors and look for the shamans to help promote pseudo science facts. RFK, Jr. would be happy to come to England and straighten out the medical establishment to give you what you want to hear, that people who have no medical background should be in charge of everyone's health (which he doesn't have either). A win-win.

Here come the menz…

EasternStandard · 21/02/2026 08:57

BettyBooper · 21/02/2026 08:49

Thanks for this.

Honestly, it just boils down to 'these kids want them and therefore we must find a way to give them to them'. Which Cass pretty much admitted this week with the whole 'otherwise they'll get them illegally ' nonsense.

And I'm not blaming the kids for wanting them. I'm blaming the adults who put this ridiculous idea in their heads to start with.

Yes it’s adults pushing gender ideology. So painful to watch how badly people have done on this.

nolongersurprised · 21/02/2026 08:59

My point was that it’s important that research is conducted to inform how best to treat young people with the condition or symptoms of gender distress

Yes, but hormonal manipulation resulting in impaired fertility and sexual function in children needs to be removed as an option. Children cannot consent, it can never be ethical.

EricTheHalfASleeve · 21/02/2026 09:03

Anyone here or in the media or politics arguing 'but we need to know what the drugs do' or 'children will buy them illegally' is ignorant of basic medical ethics.

The safety of study participants is more important than any benefit to science or society.

That is fundamental to research ethics.

There are many areas of medicine we don't have much information on. That's not a reason to do badly designed, high risk studies on vulnerable groups.

RoyalCorgi · 21/02/2026 09:05

I just can't fathom what's going on in this woman's head at all. She so very nearly grasped it. Then she floundered and bottled it.

It's a mystery. But I do think this is the beginning of the end for child transitioning, at least in this country. Very few people will want to actually break the law for their child by obtaining drugs illegally. In fact, an important component of parents who have Transhausen's Syndrome, in my view, is the validation they get from authority: the fact that proper medical people with important-sounding titles are taking their child's gender dysphoria seriously, prescribing them drugs and offering them surgery, while at the same time other authoritative figures (teachers, social workers and so on) are going along with the pretence that the child is the opposite sex by using opposite-sex pronouns, the child's new name, the child's desire to use the wrong changing room etc.

Once that stops, once you don't have the validation from either doctors or teachers, then the boast of "Look at me, I have a trans child" becomes much less attractive. Instead it just becomes a nuisance, I imagine. So I think soon if a child starts saying "Mum, I think I'm a girl," the parent will say, "No, you're not, Malcolm - now be a good boy and eat your dinner up." Just like the olden days.

Soontobe60 · 21/02/2026 09:06

nolongersurprised · 21/02/2026 08:59

My point was that it’s important that research is conducted to inform how best to treat young people with the condition or symptoms of gender distress

Yes, but hormonal manipulation resulting in impaired fertility and sexual function in children needs to be removed as an option. Children cannot consent, it can never be ethical.

The first step is to remove their access to the internet, and the next step is to stop schools / parents / Social workers / therapists from taking an affirmation approach to their mental illness.
As many have said on here, if a child was anorexic and believed they were obese so were starving themselves, no one in their right mind would affirm that delusion.

Helleofabore · 21/02/2026 09:06

Brainworm · 21/02/2026 08:52

The Pathways study has many flaws but it isn’t a replication of the Tavistock/UCL study.
The Tavistock study project wasn’t a trial at all, it was an uncontrolled observational study where every participant received blockers and there was no comparison group.

Pathways, as it stands, is a randomised controlled trial with an immediate‑treatment group, a delayed‑treatment group, and a large external comparison cohort. It uses matched allocation to balance key characteristics across groups.

The Pathways trial was designed to be able to produce causal findings e.g. participants in the PB condition showed no improvement in anxiety or depression scores after a year, while the matched treatment group did show improvement over the same period. The Tavi study could only report what was observed with individual participants.

I agree that important data from people now in their 20s and 30s who took PBs as treatment for gender distress during puberty is valuable and should be collected where possible - but it can’t produce robust evidence such as that obtained through a trial.

I am not in favour of the Pathways trial, I think it is/ was unethical. My point was that it’s important that research is conducted to inform how best to treat young people with the condition or symptoms of gender distress.

One of my issues with the trial is that how do you assess the mental health of a child when is having a treatment ‘delayed’ when they have been educated through messaging from support groups, well meaning adults and from peers in that group that if they are delayed in taking those chemicals they will not achieve their dream of changing sex and that their life will be harder for it.

If those children had never come into contact with anyone pushing the PB agenda, there wouldn’t be this confounding issue.

I have other issues with the trial of course but in structuring it in the current political environment it a
will be very hard to filter out the increase in anxiety of those in the delayed group. (Or filter out the euphoria of getting the drugs). I also question how many children will feel like they have to bias their answers and under report poor health and poor outcomes.

BettyBooper · 21/02/2026 09:07

Brainworm · 21/02/2026 08:52

The Pathways study has many flaws but it isn’t a replication of the Tavistock/UCL study.
The Tavistock study project wasn’t a trial at all, it was an uncontrolled observational study where every participant received blockers and there was no comparison group.

Pathways, as it stands, is a randomised controlled trial with an immediate‑treatment group, a delayed‑treatment group, and a large external comparison cohort. It uses matched allocation to balance key characteristics across groups.

The Pathways trial was designed to be able to produce causal findings e.g. participants in the PB condition showed no improvement in anxiety or depression scores after a year, while the matched treatment group did show improvement over the same period. The Tavi study could only report what was observed with individual participants.

I agree that important data from people now in their 20s and 30s who took PBs as treatment for gender distress during puberty is valuable and should be collected where possible - but it can’t produce robust evidence such as that obtained through a trial.

I am not in favour of the Pathways trial, I think it is/ was unethical. My point was that it’s important that research is conducted to inform how best to treat young people with the condition or symptoms of gender distress.

I get your point, but I would have thought treating anxiety and depression with anti depressants would be the way forward. Or even better, no screen time and a lot of exercise outdoors (as suggested by Dr P).

As said above, treating 'gender distress' with PB just boils down to 'because the kids want it'. Society has been suckered into believing that there really is something to treat here above and beyond normal teenage feelings. And that makes things worse for everyone.

Shedmistress · 21/02/2026 09:07

What for the love of god IS the differential diagnosis of 'gender distress'?

How is it screening out all the other distresses or conditions or ailments or experiences?

What IS IT?

RedToothBrush · 21/02/2026 09:07

tropicaltrance · 21/02/2026 08:45

Without it, questions on safety and efficacy of PBs will never be answered, and kids will just source this stuff through other much less safe means.

This argument doesn't make sense to me. With any other drug we would go after the people supplying it and shut that down. We wouldn't say "let's give spice/ketamine/whatever to children so we can prove once and for all that it harms children and then everyone will of course immediately stop trying to obtain or supply it".

That's not how we deal with any other substance being supplied illicitly or inappropriately.

Have you seen what the Fail is reporting today?

It's the run up to the by-election so the Fail is almost certainly out on a smear campaign but none the less, this has been talked about before as potential policy, just not to this extent:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15579401/Green-Party-legalise-drugs-crack-cocaine-heroin-date-rape-chemical-GHB.html

Drugs including crack cocaine and heroin should be legalised for recreational use because they 'enhance human relationships', according to the Green Party's official policy.

Zack Polanski's party plans to create a 'direct partnership' between the Government and South American drug cartels to introduce a 'sustainable supply of coca and cocaine' to Britain, it adds.

Newly unearthed policy proposals show the Greens want to see cocaine drinks brought to the high street and Class A drugs including ecstasy and psychedelics sold at nightclubs and music festivals.

The policy adds that children 'starting in primary school' should be taught how to take drugs safely in Personal, Social and Health Education (PHSE) lessons to 'enhance the safety of all who use drugs'.

The plan to legalise drugs comes despite the policy proposing a simultaneous crackdown on alcohol and tobacco - including heaping more tax on beer and cigarettes to 'reflect the cost of harm caused by alcohol use on society'.

The internal Green policy, seen by the Mail, states that heroin and crack cocaine should be legalised because 'adults should be free to make informed decisions about their own drug consumption'.

So clearly there are a bunch of people within the greens who are at least proposing so pretty wild things with regards to drugs, even if it's not official policy.

I mean what could possibly go wrong with the proposal?

Can you imagine schools dealing with parents in Tunbridge Wells in the run up to that PHSE lesson?! "Today we are going to teach your kids how to shoot up and how to make a crack pipe safely".

It's absolutely hilarious and totally out of touch with reality. But I think it's probably a genuine conversation going on within the greens even if it's not official policy.

Outcry as Green Party say they want to legalise ALL drugs

Zack Polanski's party plans to create a 'direct partnership' between the Government and South American drug cartels to introduce a 'sustainable supply of coca and cocaine' to Britain, it adds.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15579401/Green-Party-legalise-drugs-crack-cocaine-heroin-date-rape-chemical-GHB.html

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 21/02/2026 09:08

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 21/02/2026 08:54

Agreed, they need to start investigating the 'community' where they're getting the information on how to get their hands on illegal drugs.

Country Lines is a criminal organisation that uses vulnerable kids to move their 'product', the 'Trans' Lines who are feeding vulnerable kids to those who are supplying PB's need to be investigated in the same way.

Start at the top with the suppliers like Webberley.

Look at this post. A clearly very very mentally unwell 17 year old boy is being coached and directly messaged on how to get drugs online

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1r9l7m0/im_probably_not_gonna_survive_until_18/

it’s happening every single day. I can’t understand how it’s allowed to happen in plain sight

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 21/02/2026 09:11

@Brainworm:

I am not in favour of the Pathways trial, I think it is/ was unethical. My point was that it’s important that research is conducted to inform how best to treat young people with the condition or symptoms of gender distress.

Thank you for that. I agree with you that good research should be conducted.

My point is and has always been that, from a research point of view, there is not, and has never been, a reason to propose that stopping puberty will alleviate gender distress.

We have historical evidence from all over the world about things that do - the most powerful one being, do nothing (ie, the “watchful waiting” approach that was the gold standard before the Dutch got their hands on things).

So why test this drug as a possible mental health treatment? The only reason it was ever given in the first place was to stop little boys from developing secondary sex characteristics so that they would be more convincing as women. Testing its effectiveness by itself for alleviating gender distress just smacks of trying to justify its use without referring to any of that messy gender reassignment surgery stuff.

Anyway, I think we’re on the same page.

RedToothBrush · 21/02/2026 09:12

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 21/02/2026 09:08

Look at this post. A clearly very very mentally unwell 17 year old boy is being coached and directly messaged on how to get drugs online

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1r9l7m0/im_probably_not_gonna_survive_until_18/

it’s happening every single day. I can’t understand how it’s allowed to happen in plain sight

I've been living as a girl since I was 10, and my body has been slowly mutating and my voice has been distorted and I've slowly got less beautiful and I get treated worse and worse by the public as years go by, theres no point in living if its just gonna keep on getting worse and worse and worse and worse. I need estrogen but it is completely out of reach

Estrogen isn't going to stop us all recognising him as a bloke. He's been sold a catastrophic lie.

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