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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Reasons for not moving right like young men

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Warmlight1 · 23/01/2026 21:21

Are women put off the right because of outright boorishness and right wing female Mps who are promoted withing a very constrained patriarchy and consequently end up not making sense? Is it also to do with the ingressing on women's right by the ultra religious?
Are public services more important to women than men? Was specifically female leadership significant in New Zealand during the pandemic and ultimately safer and was that about gender?
Or something else?
Brexit?
Why is there a difference of direction?

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CassOle · 10/04/2026 21:35

Aah, you have made the classic mistake of assuming that the lanyard class in the NHS actually gave a flying fuck about the rights and needs of the female nurses.

No, they did not. Hence, the tribunals mentioned by Ophelia.

Helleofabore · 10/04/2026 22:40

wasnt it a large cupboard that was offerred to the Nurses from Fife?

The changing room had toilets but it was discussed in the trial how that was unhygienic to change to go onto shift. The alternative was a cupboard, I think.

Rightsraptor · 10/04/2026 23:07

I only worked in 3 London hospitals in the early 2000s, one of which has undergone a huge refurbishment and none of those had anywhere private for staff to change. They had a room with lockers and an open area where you changed. There were a few occasions when I would have really appreciated a shower but, even though there was theoretically one in the refurbished unit, it broke very quickly and someone took to storing her bike in it.

You'd expect to keep your underwear on, probably a T shirt or vest top on under the scrubs top, so not naked in the changing room but I wouldn't want any man seeing me like that

I've read of staff on neonatal units being forbidden to change into scrubs in toilet cubicles because of infection control. So although it might not be written in your contract 'female staff are required to change their clothes in the presence of male staff, should that male person claim to be really female', it's not difficult to see the problems created by this total disregard for female staff. It's Hobson's choice really.

CassOle · 10/04/2026 23:09

One of these cases involved the alternative (for those who didn't want to change in front of a male) of a small room that didn't meet fire safety regulations IIRC.

So, you had a bloke swanning around in the ladies' changing room, and any woman who objected was pushed out and treated like crap.

Carla786 · 10/04/2026 23:27

SionnachRuadh · 24/01/2026 22:29

Damn those Islamophobic Muslims like Zia Yusuf and Laila Cunningham and Nadhim Zahawi...

Hilariously enough, Ben Habib's Advance UK, set up to oppose Reform as being too centrist, is literally led by a Pakistani immigrant.

"White nationalism" is really not a thing in UK politics. The Labour Party and trade union movement subcontracting out their "anti-racist" work to the SWP, in full knowledge of the SWP's long-term rape culture, is a thing. Do you have an issue with that?

Yes, it's ironic Habib, probably one of the most hard-line to the point of seemingly advocating leaving migrants to drown (!) is half-Pakistani. You can certainly criticise these figures but making out it's a straightforward white against black and brown people conflict is a hugely unhelpful simplification.

Carla786 · 10/04/2026 23:30

Gretel346 · 24/01/2026 23:44

Historically, it's the left. Does that mean there aren't isolated instances of bad behaviour? No. But on balance the centre & centre left have a proven historical record because people that gravitate to the left generally believe in equality while those who gravitate to right believe in hierarchy. And that hierarchy is always the same: wealthy, white & male. They will try & pretend the hierarchy is about merit but its always the same demographic who happens to top it.

That they suddenly changed is preposterous.

I'm not a Tory but these statements are demonstrably untrue. If a woman or black or brown person can't top the Tories, how to you explain May, Leadsom, Braverman, Zahawi, Kwarteng, Sunak, Truss, Mordaunt etc?

Carla786 · 10/04/2026 23:34

SionnachRuadh · 24/01/2026 23:12

Yes, right of centre in the UK is almost entirely civnat.

This would be even more obvious if media stopped using Connor Tomlinson as a talking head, but I believe Connor is being quietly cancelled anyway.

Tommy is constantly on the grift, I don't see Advance going anywhere, and Homeland entertainingly imploded last year after Kenny Smith appointed a young lad to be Northern Ireland organiser with a Grindr profile who... well, let's just say if you live in Belfast and your key interest is black cock, I can't fault your optimism, but you might not be a good fit for a party that stands for white nationalism and against sexual deviancy.

Ethnats in the UK are a joke. They might have a bit more heft in the US, but in a country with a population of a third of a billion that doesn't say very much.

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Carla786 · 10/04/2026 23:36

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/01/2026 10:36

I suppose that must depends on how you frame women's rights. Is 'women's rights' purely about the concept of 'equality' as it now tends to be understood - whereby women work alongside men in paid employment and recieve the same pay, and whereby men and women both share the exact same responsibilities, as they arise, in terms of the home and family etc?

Or can 'women's rights' also be framed within an acceptance of some of the innate, general, differences between the sexes such as a recognition that it is women who do the bulk of the childcare etc ( for obvious reasons, certainly when the child very small) and often want to be at home in the early years of a. child's life? If you are more accepting of the strengths families then you could maybe implement policies which support the family and the women within it.

You might also be more accepting of the right of female people to privacy and dignity in public spaces in which they may be undressed or engaged with biological function etc The left tends to want to flatten out or even deny differences between groups of people - in pursuit of 'equality'

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Good post. Overall though, I think privacy is pretty important to men too, even though mixed changing clearly doesn't pose the same risks to them.

Carla786 · 10/04/2026 23:46

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/01/2026 10:54

With many prominent women on the Left ( maybe with the exception of Hillary Clinton in the U.S) and women such as Barbara Castle and Shirley Williams in the U.K - you get the impression they are partly in position just because they are female, whereas you don't get that impression so much with women who are prominent on the right. The rights seems to care more about whether the candidate shares and articulates the same vision and can hold her own than in their sex.

I mean, look at Kemi Badenoch or Condoleeza Rice, for example compared to Angela Raynor or Kamala Harris. They both are far more impressive, steely and able. Maybe because they are women who display more obvious' masculine' characteristics and have leadership qualities.

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Personally I think it's more that incompetent people are being promoted on the left, both men & women. Would you call Starmer a bold leader?

I like Shababa Mahmood. She doesn't seem wet to me. There are other female Labour MPs I like : Sarah Champion for one. Rosie Duffield too. The issue is that these are not the ones at the top.

There are some female Democrats who seem able - Marie Gluesenkamp Perez, Gretchen Whitmer, Elissa Slotkin, & others who make up the so-called 'Mod Squad'. The problem imo is ineffective people like Harris, AOC etc were the ones promoted. Just as Biden was hung on to even when he wasn't fit.

Kemi Badenoch doesn't seem particularly efficient to me, though I may be judging her too soon, she's not had the chance to be in power yet. It's all very well to be 'masculine' and make bold statements,,but there's got to be actual substance there.

I think it's a bit generalising to say Tory women across the board are stronger: would that include Liz Truss? Or Theresa May?

Carla786 · 10/04/2026 23:51

SionnachRuadh · 24/01/2026 21:22

I don't find Kemi as impressive as she finds herself (who does?) but she's clearly a talented woman. Her main problem is that nobody is interested in hearing from the Conservative Party right now.

The thing about tribal leftism among young women is something American pollsters have dug into. Married women are barely more left leaning than their husbands. The Democrat advantage with women comes specifically with unmarried women with no children, who vote Democrat by Putin-style margins.

One might put that down to the abortion issue, but you find a similar thing in the UK, where abortion really doesn't figure as a partisan issue. We're at the point where half of young women seem minded to vote for Zack Polanski, which just leads me to think that female socialisation is quite a drug.

Maybe a belief that Reform are sexist? I don't like Reform and I will only vote them reluctantly if Labour doesn't sort open borders out, crime etc and Tories continue to show few signs of being able to do so (I'm Gen Z FWIW)

But I don't think Reform as a whole are sexist. They may well have some sexist members but it's a bit hard for them to have Cunningham, Pochin, Kemkaran etc in prominent roles & then say that women should be in the kitchen (as some pps here seem to think they will do)

Carla786 · 10/04/2026 23:52

TomPinch · 24/01/2026 18:01

She did indeed. But the real issue is that her government didn't do what she promised it would, she left a big structural deficit in the finances, and - worst of all - swanned off to international acclaim which Kiwis hate. "Be Kind" is now shorthand here for well-meaning incompetence.

Sorry..do you mean Clark or Ardern?

TomPinch · 11/04/2026 00:05

Carla786 · 10/04/2026 23:52

Sorry..do you mean Clark or Ardern?

I mean Ardern.

I'm sure Helen Clark is perfectly nice but fundamentally she's an uncharismatic, unpolished, take-no-shit woman of a type that's quite common here. She faced misogyny too but on the other hand she won 3 general elections. Very keen on human rights but not in a "be kind" way.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 11/04/2026 00:36

PeachyDaisy · 10/04/2026 21:16

So there was no way for people to get changes unless taking their clothes off in front of each other? No cubicles at all? Sorry I just don't buy that, sounds like a HR violation if not a slam-dunk sexual harrassment claim.

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A small women's changing room with clothes hooks, lockers and a bench for DW's department I believe. Not all team members would be changing at the same time, but they wouldn't have a private space and often more than one woman would be changing at the same time.

SionnachRuadh · 11/04/2026 00:57

@Carla786 Why are you once again reviving zombie threads and peppering me with questions on months-old comments? What are you getting out of this?

Carla786 · 11/04/2026 02:33

SionnachRuadh · 11/04/2026 00:57

@Carla786 Why are you once again reviving zombie threads and peppering me with questions on months-old comments? What are you getting out of this?

I apologise, I know it's an older thread but I thought it might be OK to revive as it's late January so more recent.
I understand if you don't want to reply. I didn't think I'd asked you a lot of questions, (as 2 of my quotes were just agreement) but I can see it's annoying to get questions on older ones, I shan't revive again- I thought your comment about younger UK women voting Green in such large numbers was intetesting, that was all.

DeanElderberry · 11/04/2026 09:23

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DeanElderberry · 11/04/2026 09:25

PeachyDaisy · 10/04/2026 21:16

So there was no way for people to get changes unless taking their clothes off in front of each other? No cubicles at all? Sorry I just don't buy that, sounds like a HR violation if not a slam-dunk sexual harrassment claim.

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In the Sandy Peggie case the doctor's complaint was specifically that she would not remove her clothes (which had to be changed after menstrual flooding) in front of him. That was the basis of the legal case. His hurty feelings when a much older woman declined to strip in front of him.

If you haven't read that case, and the Darlington nurses' one (both covered here over many threads, if you need the detailed evidence), don't theorise.

Shortshriftandlethal · 11/04/2026 10:15

Carla786 · 10/04/2026 23:46

Personally I think it's more that incompetent people are being promoted on the left, both men & women. Would you call Starmer a bold leader?

I like Shababa Mahmood. She doesn't seem wet to me. There are other female Labour MPs I like : Sarah Champion for one. Rosie Duffield too. The issue is that these are not the ones at the top.

There are some female Democrats who seem able - Marie Gluesenkamp Perez, Gretchen Whitmer, Elissa Slotkin, & others who make up the so-called 'Mod Squad'. The problem imo is ineffective people like Harris, AOC etc were the ones promoted. Just as Biden was hung on to even when he wasn't fit.

Kemi Badenoch doesn't seem particularly efficient to me, though I may be judging her too soon, she's not had the chance to be in power yet. It's all very well to be 'masculine' and make bold statements,,but there's got to be actual substance there.

I think it's a bit generalising to say Tory women across the board are stronger: would that include Liz Truss? Or Theresa May?

Yes, to Shabana Mahmood - but you suspect her own party will block her progress and thwart her aims.

Kemi Badenoch does have substance in my view, and she is one of the very few who have displayed a really firm grasp of the issue of trans ideology and the negative impacts it is having. Thank goodnes she was the lead of 'Women and Equalities' when she was.

She's delivered some really fantastic performances in the commons on a number of issues going back quite a few years. She delievered a great performance on the issue of slavery reparations put forward by Labour. Did you see that? She's her own person ( even though a little too economically ideological for my taste) and is never afraid to stand up and be counted on issues that really matter to her.

And judging by recent polls she seems to be the most rated leader ( or the least disrespected) amongst the current crop. I'll ve voting Conservative for the first time in my life at any upcoming elections on account of her.

LilyYeCarveSuns · 11/04/2026 11:30

highame · 26/01/2026 08:24

Moving right like young men? Latest evidence shows young men's views haven't shifted much. The biggest shift is young women moving left, to the batty end of ideology. This would back up the trans support and how it grew so rapidly. Women holding most jobs in teaching and EDI jobs.

I think there needs to be a major debate on women being hoodwinked and how easy it was.

Sorry, have gone back to thread title, had read some interesting stuff but can't find. Will try and find links

It does strike me as unexpected that the generation raised after it became received truth in humanities and social sciences that behasvioural sex differences are all socially constructed demonstrates more behavioural differences between the sexes than my generation did.

SionnachRuadh · 11/04/2026 12:46

Carla786 · 11/04/2026 02:33

I apologise, I know it's an older thread but I thought it might be OK to revive as it's late January so more recent.
I understand if you don't want to reply. I didn't think I'd asked you a lot of questions, (as 2 of my quotes were just agreement) but I can see it's annoying to get questions on older ones, I shan't revive again- I thought your comment about younger UK women voting Green in such large numbers was intetesting, that was all.

You say that every time you do it, and then a couple of weeks later you do it again.

I literally do not know what you get out of scouring threads that have been inactive for months and then leaving multiple replies going "Hello! I'd like to revive this dead conversation and have an interesting exchange about this point that you probably don't remember making!"

Others may be fine with it, but I find it highly annoying and a bit creepy.

DeanElderberry · 11/04/2026 12:49

I agree with @SionnachRuadh

1984Now · 11/04/2026 13:25

Carla786 · 10/04/2026 23:51

Maybe a belief that Reform are sexist? I don't like Reform and I will only vote them reluctantly if Labour doesn't sort open borders out, crime etc and Tories continue to show few signs of being able to do so (I'm Gen Z FWIW)

But I don't think Reform as a whole are sexist. They may well have some sexist members but it's a bit hard for them to have Cunningham, Pochin, Kemkaran etc in prominent roles & then say that women should be in the kitchen (as some pps here seem to think they will do)

Polanski's Greens are the most sexist party out there, only rivalled by the Scottish Greens and the SNP.
Any party kowtowing to men LARPing as women is the very definition of weaponised sexism.
The cherry on the cake is the progressive virtue signalling.
Like calling Bernard Manning in the 70s a second wave feminist.

Carla786 · 11/04/2026 13:30

LilyYeCarveSuns · 11/04/2026 11:30

It does strike me as unexpected that the generation raised after it became received truth in humanities and social sciences that behasvioural sex differences are all socially constructed demonstrates more behavioural differences between the sexes than my generation did.

A bit like the Nordic equality paradox where those countries have bigger differences in careers and personalities?

https://www.cato.org/policy-analysis/nordic-glass-ceiling#introduction

https://www.cato.org/policy-analysis/nordic-glass-ceiling#introduction

LilyYeCarveSuns · 11/04/2026 13:56

You're right, a similar curiosity.

Shortshriftandlethal · 11/04/2026 14:24

Perhaps when it is felt that 'equality' has been achieved then people feel free to re-assert or express their actual preferences and differences again?