When there were loads of issues with Bounty it became apparent that despite the hundreds of complaints on MN of some pretty awful experiences, FOI requests found there were no complaints.
This is about how women are invisible to society because authority doesn't work for them and they don't trust authority and feel like they are outside the decision making process and how they feel they are forced to accept things imposed on them.
Exactly.
I'd be unlikley to complain formally - I'd just try and avoid the service if I can at all - and if not hope I have no issues or find another reason to complain.
I did complain about dire maternity care for last pg - but only what we could prove lots of lying - took advice how to do it from a pressure group - went to top - got reassuarnce that meant nothing and penalised with worse care to point it endanaged me and baby life and more bullying - and then futher complaints were managed away - with busy life and newborn we didn't persue though did impact on decion on whether to have another child. Sister complained in differnet area - had same - much worse care. Not sure either complaint could be found if looked for.
DN care was so poor consultant at next hospital encouraged complaint againt previous team as it was medical negligence - medical records lost - know few people that happened to. Dmum refused to complaint about Dad poor care - terrfified it would make situation worse for Dad when no-one was there.
We're near Bristiol and have encounted mixed sex loo fair bit - IL complain loudly but never formally - none of us like them but we in daytime often in group and they usually don't feel unsafe - one that did we didn't go back to they'd been reconfigured. So we all hate them - avoid if really badly laid out but never complain formally.
The really badly laid out and constructed changing village with lots of convitions for voyeurism associated with it women change in the toilets cubicles or don't use the center - they keep complaining numbers using are down but change nothing.
You have to have the confidence to complain and expectation that there would be some change forthcoming and no blow back on complaint.