@NotBadConsidering Consent to sex must be happily, enthusiastically and freely given. Else it isn't consent, and the sex is an act of violence.
I struggle to see why you are so obsessed with a random stranger on the internet.
Maybe because this random stranger has constantly debunked your falsehoods and demolished your nonsense, so you must somehow convince yourself that he is morally inferior, because this would be the perfect excuse for you to ignore all his points, his hard evidence and his difficult question which cause your ideology to crumble?
Of course consent must be freely given, and those who give consent should be able to withdraw it at any moment. It is such a banal question that it is insulting to even ask. Are you satisfied now? Do you want a different spelling? Different formatting? Different choice of words? Or are you happy now?
Will you now answer my questions above, or will you keep dodging them?
“Oooh, yes Sir! Sorry Sir! Don’t punish me Sir!”
Do you realise how such demand for obedience is incredibly creepy?
Pathetic. I demand intellectual honesty. And I demand it of whoever I may be debating with, regardless of the topic and regardless of sex gender genitalia etc of the other debater.
You have shown intellectual dishonesty. And I have called you out for it.
But of course you cannot admit that. You must rephrase it into "man vs woman" as, again, this gives you a convenient excuse to avoid the inconvenient arguments. Noted. Can't say I am surprised.
As for your other two points:
If we made buying sex illegal, we'd be telling the minority of men that buy sex, that what they're doing is very wrong
We'd also, by criminalising buyers, be telling all women and girls that female bodies should not be rented by the hour
The answer is twofold.
If you are asking whether I think that, in abstract, buying and selling sex is immoral and should be eradicated to the extent possible, I am not too sure what to think.
There are women who choose to do it freely. When I dared point this out, many posters lost their s**t and accused me of all kinds of monstrosities.
In general, I think that, if someone does it freely, is not coerced, is aware of the risks and accepts them, we shouldn't forbid it.
BUT I have also said repeatedly that I see the argument for a ban IF it can be proven that such women are a small minority, that most are forced AND IF it can be proven that a ban works and doesn't make things worse.
I said this a gazillion times so I am unsure why I need to repeat it again, but whatever.
The second side of the argument, which seems to trigger you for some reason, is that debating about abstract morality with complete disregard for actual, real-world consequences is flawed and perverse.
Oh, and if you are asking whether banning buying sex sends a clear signal, I disagree. There is no proof that it does. There is no proof that it reduces demand. Just like there are plenty of things which continue to be done even after being made illegal