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What is Riley Gaines hiding? We investigated…

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Brewdug · 27/11/2025 00:26

This podcast appeared in my feed today via an affiliated show… I know it is naive but it’s still hard to believe how blinkered - and unbearably smug the US liberal wing is on this. This is rubbish ( from the ‘Center for Investigative Reporting’, which I now wouldn’t trust to tell me if it was raining), but still enlightening… wondered if anyone else had heard it.

A six month dig to discredit Gaines - we’re not supposed to notice that everyone they’re trying to gotcha in this won’t dignify any of it - that finds her hiding (spoiler alert) nothing?

https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/reveal/id886009669?i=1000738472306

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TheKeatingFive · 27/11/2025 10:17

Legobricksinatub · 27/11/2025 10:13

i think riley gained is attacked because she knows her subject and is articulate. She can talk with authority about it, unlike her critics.

In the same way that JKR is attacked so viciously. She is so self evidently right and reasonable, she must be destroyed.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 27/11/2025 10:20

Always worth remembering how many men get very excited at the idea of perving on women undressing in swimming pool changing rooms.

There were numerous Mumsnet threads about this charmer (link below) - which is where posters understood about the challenges for young elite women swimmers in putting on their swim gear and how this necessitated periods of nudity. On this occasion British Swimming were quick to see the threat and banned him promptly.
The data about indecent exposure and voyeurism in swim changing rooms is alarming. Odd to see it so desperately defended on here. 🤔

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12350741/Parents-raised-concerns-transgender-pool-official-using-womens-changing-room-time-young-girls.html

Greyskybluesky · 27/11/2025 10:26

Justnot · 27/11/2025 10:16

Only a bloke would take over a thread completely like they are the OP - it’s not cricket……

don't mention the cricket.... 😱 triggered

Justnot · 27/11/2025 10:28

Haha thought I’d throw it in there to confuse

Legobricksinatub · 27/11/2025 10:36

Mention of Cricket reminded me of the rowing guidance that TWAW for women’s teams but TWAM for mixed teams. I think they had to row back (see what I did there) from that position pretty quickly if memory serves.

CohensDiamondTeeth · 27/11/2025 10:40

SexRealismBeliefs · 27/11/2025 10:15

I was being tongue in cheek 😬

Oh! The tone went straight over my head sorry😬

Tbf it has happened to so many women already, it was immediately plausible!

SinnerBoy · 27/11/2025 10:40

Howseitgoin · 27/11/2025 06:59

Groovy, please post.

You do realise 'howse it goin' is the preferred greeting amongst Australians? That someone else uses it is hardly a smoking gun.

You're about as Australian as Moctezuma.

NextRinny · 27/11/2025 10:45

Stop moving the goalposts from

"was there or was there not a penis in the changing room"
to

"Was or wasn't the penis in the changing room visible to women, the cunty kind"
to

"Did she or did she not see the penis in the changing room".

just get the penis owner out of the female changing room. There is nothing hard about this.

Greyskybluesky · 27/11/2025 10:48

just get the penis owner out of the female changing room. There is nothing hard about this.

😂

IwouldlikeanewTV · 27/11/2025 10:54

Howseitgoin · 27/11/2025 05:18

Changing in the same room isn't the same as exposing nudity. You have no evidence any one other than Gaines said Lia Thomas exposed herself to the other swimmers.

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And I for one would not like that at all. I do not want to change in the same room as a man. End of.

CohensDiamondTeeth · 27/11/2025 10:57

IwouldlikeanewTV · 27/11/2025 10:54

And I for one would not like that at all. I do not want to change in the same room as a man. End of.

Me either! I don't even care if he has a penis or not, males don't belong in any female single sex space.

Helleofabore · 27/11/2025 11:00

I am at 39 mins now. They have compared her MO as being 'like Charlie Kirk'. And explain how she travels campuses to campaign for female sports to be protected. Plus they mention that she did a podcast with Kirk too and made a point of stating that her complaining that forcing women and girls to be in a changing room with a male person is those women and girls taking part in that male person's fetish is her 'transphobia'.

They allow the Kirk podcast to play a snippet and Kirk then discusses that this is abhorrent etc. Torre doesn't clarify that RG didn't say the things that Kirk says at all. He then muses that the discussion has moved on from unfairness in sport to 'criminality' (referring to male people being in the female changing rooms).

I think that these two podcasters think that women should never have mentioned the changing room situation and that them doing so is hateful.

At 42 mins they move onto Simone Biles. There is discussion about the tweets and that RG has referred to 'predatory men' in relation to male people who are in female changing rooms and female sport.

Now at 46 minutes we get to payment:

"And what you wind up seeing in these documents is that over the last three years from 2023 to 2025, speaker fees for Riley Gains as paid out by various state and local Republican committees have more than octupled. So in 2023, we have Riley Gaines making $3,000 at an appearance in Kentucky. in 2024, we're seeing a $13,929 fee from the Republican Central Committee in Nevada.

And then on uh page 45 of a filing from Harris County Republicans in Texas this past June, $25,000. Again, more than eight times bigger than 2 years earlier, tracking right alongside the sharpening and perfecting of this whole trans inclusion as sexual assault argument from Riley Gaines in dozens upon dozens and dozens of appearances all over Fox News."

Then as a director of the Riley Gaines Center, she is paid a fee of $126,523. The 'center' is there to campaign for the protection of female sports. They have uncovered some of the donors as being right wing funders.

At 50 minutes they then list all the things that I think that they blame Riley Gaines for. Including 'normalising' discussions about protecting female sport.

"She has remade American public policy in her image. The movement that she is the face of works because her story, her storytelling is believed by so many parents and Americans who see this story through her eyes. We've got the NCAA ban, we've got the Olympic ban, we've got these kinds of policy changes that, you know, and this is a key point, could actually maybe be undone in the future pretty easily.

You know, if we get a new president, maybe there's a new executive order, maybe the US Olympic parolympic committee changes its mind. So, the conundrum for Riley Gaines right now is how do we make these policy changes, these transports bans permanent or at least more permanent than Trump?

Mhm. How do you make them apply nationwide so that no trans girl, K12, college, even blue states, New York, California, none of them can play on a girls team. And how do you do that permanently?

Use the courts. A new lawsuit could have a big impact on who can and who can't compete in college sports. Riley Gaines and 15 other female athletes just filed a lawsuit against the NCAA. She says this development was due time and that the NCAA has been served. Gains v NCAA. "

I cannot imagine what all the other female sports campaigners think of this narrative. Nor the 15 other athletes in the court case.

At 58 minutes, Pauly discusses ICONs and dismisses the founders, both elite sportswomen in their own rights as 'Swim moms'. In any case, the issue apparently is that ICONS is now worth over a million dollars and they went from $100K to over $1M in two years. And they are capitalising on the 'gateway drug' that is women's sport - 'gateway drug' to anti-trans radicalisation.

ICONS has also been formed to support women and girls in their court cases, and this was mentioned. However, it was mentioned as being a negative and that those funds are not from just everyday donors as well. It is then discussed that XX-XY has donated. So what?

XX-XY raises money through merchandise etc. It is another female sports campaign group. But apparently, they are noteworthy of being mentioned as donating some of their proceeds (which are raised for the express purpose of campaigning for female sports protections) to ICONS.

This was new for me:

At 1.01 : "They have a lawsuit out there, a whole other one saying that we have the right to misgender people."

But here is the case (this is my addition and only mentioned in passing in the podcast):

https://www.foxnews.com/sports/activist-sportswear-brand-sues-colorado-accuses-state-censoring-its-message

"The women's activist sportswear brand XX-XY Athletics is suing the state of Colorado over a recent state law that the company claims would interfere with its ability to market its message.

The lawsuit takes aim at the state for passing a law called HB25-1312 and amending the Colorado Anti-Discrimination Act, which defines "gender expression" to include "chosen name" and "how an individual chooses to be addressed." The laws state Coloradans have a right to access "public accommodations and advertising" that are free of discrimination on that basis.

The company's lawsuit claims that the state's new legislation would make it illegal for the brand to carry out certain viral marketing campaign techniques it has used since launching last year."

I am giving up now as I have to get to work. But I think that from what I have heard, what has taken 'six months' of investigating amounts to 'No shit, Sherlock'.

Activist sportswear brand sues Colorado, accuses state of censoring its message

XX-XY Athletics challenged Colorado's anti-discrimination law, claiming it infringes on free speech and impacts their stance on trans athletes in women's sports.

https://www.foxnews.com/sports/activist-sportswear-brand-sues-colorado-accuses-state-censoring-its-message

TortillaKitty · 27/11/2025 11:01

ThatBlackCat · 27/11/2025 09:44

It's a good thing as a woman to protect yourself, and warn others that we are conversing with a male.

In fact, if checking like this was a bad thing, this site wouldn't have something like Advanced Search to look up posters' posting history.

Being upset that a woman was forward thinking enough and had enough nous to check what was a really distinctive handle in order to not be sucked into trusting what a man says, rather than being upset that women have to do this in the first place, is gaslighting.

Advanced Search and going out onto other platforms such as Instagram and X to search for a poster’s handle are completely different things. Twisting this doxxing attempt back onto me as “I should be upset that women have to do this in the first place” and I’m gaslighting you - unbelievable.

Helleofabore · 27/11/2025 11:03

SinnerBoy · 27/11/2025 10:40

You're about as Australian as Moctezuma.

Every time that poster says 'this is what it is called, how it is said etc, in Australia', I laugh. I am obviously not only not womaning properly by many of their standards, but am obviously not 'Australian' enough. I think almost every time they refer to an Australianism, I think 'WTAF? No we don't!'

deadpan · 27/11/2025 11:08

Howseitgoin · 27/11/2025 07:18

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Legobricksinatub · 27/11/2025 11:09

They have compared her MO as being 'like Charlie Kirk'.

Thst is almost incitement. I wonder how much of RG increased fee income needs to be spent on security?

Helleofabore · 27/11/2025 11:10

This podcast is about what Riley Gaines is hiding. I don't believe she has 'hidden' anything that they have mentioned. And Madison Pauly has made Riley Gaines the hinge pin of the protection of female sports movement which I believe comes across as Pauly just trying to demonise Riley Gaines. Pauly certainly doesn't come across as being balanced at all and doesn't come across as knowledgeable about the female sports movement at all.

Like the Webberley interviews though, this podcast is not aimed at those who have the background and the knowledge about this specific topic. It will seem convincing in a sensationalist way to those who won't look further to understand what this really is all about.

It is hypocritical really when you consider it. These two people are making money off their work on Riley Gaines, but Riley Gaines is not allowed to make money for her work.

Because Riley Gaines is to be vilified, of course.

Brefugee · 27/11/2025 11:11

Riley Gaines is a conservative/right-wing woman.

That is her right.

What is the issue?

Helleofabore · 27/11/2025 11:18

She makes money from her speaking engagements Bref? And she discusses her feelings of disappointment that the NCAA didn't prioritise her when they chose to give Thomas the 5th place trophy, and that she mentioned how sexual abused women felt by having to change with a male in the changing room.

And she very quickly started speaking at committee hearings to protect female sport at state level.

And 1 athlete, who referred to Riley as a bitch, said that any time that she, personally, was in the change room with Thomas, Thomas was under a towel. Of course, the interviewer did not ask 'and were you in the changing room every time that Thomas got changed'?

But then, Riley gets paid to speak and to campaign. And that ICONS is run by swim moms and one of those has a daughter with sore feelings that Thomas beat her, and ICONS gets donations to support female sports law suits. And one of ICONs donors is XX-XY who seems to only exist to fund campaign for protections for female sports.

Remember, these two podcasters said numerous times that there really is NO issue with male people in female sports and there are so few male people with transgender identities in female sports that women should be focused on other things.

SexRealismBeliefs · 27/11/2025 11:20

NextRinny · 27/11/2025 10:45

Stop moving the goalposts from

"was there or was there not a penis in the changing room"
to

"Was or wasn't the penis in the changing room visible to women, the cunty kind"
to

"Did she or did she not see the penis in the changing room".

just get the penis owner out of the female changing room. There is nothing hard about this.

Likely to be hard - given it’s a man in a room full or naked or nearly naked women

thecalmsea · 27/11/2025 11:26

Ah I see we have reached the laughable level of desperation at the growing shift away from affirming delusional and/or abusive men who think they can be accepted as women, even though they paradoxically seem to hate women.

Nope. It's always been a no here and the great British public are also conttoning on. No penises in women's toilets, sports, changing facilities, prisons, shelters, awards, shortlists. Its over. Move on. Find another cause to attach to.

deadpan · 27/11/2025 11:34

@Howseitgoin You seem to like being pedantic but normally pedants use facts. So your insistence about being correct seems to be what's most important to you.

TortillaKitty · 27/11/2025 11:35

Helleofabore · 27/11/2025 11:10

This podcast is about what Riley Gaines is hiding. I don't believe she has 'hidden' anything that they have mentioned. And Madison Pauly has made Riley Gaines the hinge pin of the protection of female sports movement which I believe comes across as Pauly just trying to demonise Riley Gaines. Pauly certainly doesn't come across as being balanced at all and doesn't come across as knowledgeable about the female sports movement at all.

Like the Webberley interviews though, this podcast is not aimed at those who have the background and the knowledge about this specific topic. It will seem convincing in a sensationalist way to those who won't look further to understand what this really is all about.

It is hypocritical really when you consider it. These two people are making money off their work on Riley Gaines, but Riley Gaines is not allowed to make money for her work.

Because Riley Gaines is to be vilified, of course.

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It is absolutely not hypocritical for journalists to conduct an investigation for a one-time project such as this. Are you against journalism now? Riley Gaines is benefiting for activism not directly related to keeping men out of women’s sport as a career. She is a well-paid pundit and lobbyist and this could perhaps be made clearer. It isn’t altruism that is driving her.

It is fine, BTW, for a piece to be written critiquing someone you think should be admired.

TheKeatingFive · 27/11/2025 11:36

TortillaKitty · 27/11/2025 11:35

It is absolutely not hypocritical for journalists to conduct an investigation for a one-time project such as this. Are you against journalism now? Riley Gaines is benefiting for activism not directly related to keeping men out of women’s sport as a career. She is a well-paid pundit and lobbyist and this could perhaps be made clearer. It isn’t altruism that is driving her.

It is fine, BTW, for a piece to be written critiquing someone you think should be admired.

What do you think is problematic about what she's doing?

GiantTeddyIsTired · 27/11/2025 11:42

TortillaKitty · 27/11/2025 11:35

It is absolutely not hypocritical for journalists to conduct an investigation for a one-time project such as this. Are you against journalism now? Riley Gaines is benefiting for activism not directly related to keeping men out of women’s sport as a career. She is a well-paid pundit and lobbyist and this could perhaps be made clearer. It isn’t altruism that is driving her.

It is fine, BTW, for a piece to be written critiquing someone you think should be admired.

Why does it have to be altruism? I bet those journalists are being paid, the podcasters aren't doing it for free, why can't she make a career out of it?

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