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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
Cassandrazone · 13/10/2025 21:40

GiraffesAtThePark · 13/10/2025 18:32

@Cassandrazone Did you read the link? The man was found guilty so I don’t know why you’re proposing different theories and then bemoaning people for not caring about facts when the facts are already known regarding whether it was sexual assault.

If he did knowingly have sexual contact with a man then it really makes no sense to then go to the police, have a trial and broadcast it. Imagine how embarrassing it’d be to walk into a police station and explain.

Whether he did it knowingly is irrelevant. The complainant was sexually attracted to someone he now claims was a man. So for him to claim he is not sexually attracted to men is, in at least that case, obvious nonsense. As for the law, it wouldn't be the first time the law has covered itself in idiocy.

Cassandrazone · 13/10/2025 21:43

eatfigs · 13/10/2025 17:51

Watkin lied about being on a period so he could deceive his victim into believing he's a woman and engaging in a sexual act.

It's not illegal to procure sex by lying about your name, socioeconomic status, race, marital status, or sexual orientation. I see no credible reason why lying about biology should be treated any differently.

LemonJellyLegs · 13/10/2025 21:59

What an ugly bloke

JanesLittleGirl · 13/10/2025 22:36

Cassandrazone · 13/10/2025 21:43

It's not illegal to procure sex by lying about your name, socioeconomic status, race, marital status, or sexual orientation. I see no credible reason why lying about biology should be treated any differently.

And, in the event that you persuaded someone to engage in a sex act with you when they thought that you were not the sex that you you actually are, do you really believe that any of this would be a good defence in law?

Cassandrazone · 13/10/2025 23:01

JanesLittleGirl · 13/10/2025 22:36

And, in the event that you persuaded someone to engage in a sex act with you when they thought that you were not the sex that you you actually are, do you really believe that any of this would be a good defence in law?

That would depend on the judge, the quality of the defendant's legal representation, and the political context. Which is precisely the point. This is all about political ideology, not about fact.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/10/2025 23:06

This is the law as it stands. You can’t pretend you’re the opposite sex to trick someone into sex as this young man did. Whether you think the law is wrong, it’s still the law. Sex by deception. And yes it does apply to some other forms of deception as well.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/10/2025 23:08

This is not the first case of this nature, but I think it may be the first man as opposed to a woman pretending she was male.

JanesLittleGirl · 13/10/2025 23:14

Cassandrazone · 13/10/2025 23:01

That would depend on the judge, the quality of the defendant's legal representation, and the political context. Which is precisely the point. This is all about political ideology, not about fact.

Actually, it depend on the facts of the case. The whataboutery that you flung around earlier would prove a pretty poor defence.

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 13/10/2025 23:43

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/10/2025 23:08

This is not the first case of this nature, but I think it may be the first man as opposed to a woman pretending she was male.

One case here:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-beds-bucks-herts-66730689

"Mr Rogers was convicted of assault by penetration, two offences of sexual assault and two offences of causing a person to engage in sexual activity without consent."

The "sexual activity without consent" is, I think, what took place before the deception became apparent.

Wayne Rogers

Wayne Rogers convicted on all charges in dress-up attack case

The judge describes Wayne Rogers as a "sexual predator of the worst kind".

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-beds-bucks-herts-66730689

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/10/2025 23:44

Ah, thank you, wasn’t aware of that one.

yourhairiswinterfire · 13/10/2025 23:50

This is all about political ideology, not about fact

The facts are that a man lied to another man about his sex to obtain consent for sexual activity. He lied because he knew the victim wouldn't consent if he knew the truth. That is sexual assault.

You could have shittiest legal team, or the very best in the world defending you, but sexual assault is still unlawful.

SprayWhiteDung · 14/10/2025 00:05

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2025 08:15

He told this guy he was “on his period” - why do these men do this?

He also claimed that it was very obvious that he was a biological male, and that there could be no doubt when a victim gave 'consent'.

Both of these claims obviously cannot be true.

eatfigs · 14/10/2025 01:36

The state of these comments. Even the sensible ones are downvoted by the dozens.

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1o5ikgp/ciara_watkin_has_been_convicted_and_imprisoned/

nauticant · 14/10/2025 07:57

The thing that really caught my attention about this story is this:

The court heard Watkin, of Walton Street, Stockton, has been diagnosed with gender dysphoria and is attracted to heterosexual men.

Think about that sexual orientation for a moment and the entitlement inherent in it.

DeanElderberry · 14/10/2025 09:35

He prefers to have sex with men who would not consent to have sex with him.

Before transwomen existed that was a thing for some gay men, and it was very dangerous (not just for them) because the straight men who had been tricked into sex often reacted with violence, and sometimes carried that violent mindset with them in their interaction with other gay men who would not themselves deceive a potential partner.

It's one of the drivers of violent homophobia.

And transwomen are men, the same is true for them as for any other man.

Education around informed consent has gone to hell.

SirEctor · 14/10/2025 09:45

Someone's taking a leaf out of Butters' book.

FortheloveofPetethePlumber · 14/10/2025 09:45

This is also a group of people who have been systematically messaged about them being more important than others and that there is a caste system that places them at a status above the servant class of other humans; that anyone saying no to them or not enabling them is an enemy (including their parents); that anyone else's boundaries or consent is them being stupid and evil while their own is vitally important and should be accorded special and highly sensitive importance and consideration; that them feeling rejected or annoyed is 'violence' towards them and they entitled to respond as such; and that they are owed service, enablement and that this includes access to and the use of other people's bodies.

Whether to pee next to them, watch them undress, or to have sex with them.

We've seen the messaging to lesbians that they should 'learn to cope' with straight sex as if they are unpaid sex workers, who have no right to expect anything such as enjoyment or mutuality from a sexual encounter with a man who identifies as a woman; they are merely required to not say no or resist. And there is crossover into the incel beliefs of a right to sex. A right to use others' bodies to meet needs with the other person's consent and even their legal rights being appalling violations of that right.

It's going to be about undoing these completely unrealistic and warped expectations and exemption from the social contract, the entitlement, and the complete belief in a right to escape from any responsibility for choices and behaviours that bind everyone else.

BananasFoster · 14/10/2025 10:14

I think it’s also problematic that people don’t look like their photos anymore as they are so altered. So he didn’t look like his image, I’m sure that’s normal for a lot of people now. I see so many images of teenagers who have gone missing temporarily locally and they are so filtered there is no way for people to recognise them.

Datun · 14/10/2025 16:58

Cassandrazone · 13/10/2025 21:40

Whether he did it knowingly is irrelevant. The complainant was sexually attracted to someone he now claims was a man. So for him to claim he is not sexually attracted to men is, in at least that case, obvious nonsense. As for the law, it wouldn't be the first time the law has covered itself in idiocy.

I've seen this before as justification. If a man is attracted to another man in the mistaken belief that he's a woman, the attraction still stands.

It's very creepy and completely disregards consent.

Kuretake · 14/10/2025 17:08

I can see why he (the TIM) may have assumed the other guy knew he was trans. It's extremely obvious.

Anyway the court had all the evidence and he's guilty so that's that for this case.

GiraffesAtThePark · 14/10/2025 18:20

@Kuretake It’s obvious from that photo but his defence was to say he was obviously a man so he likely let his stubble come out, didn’t use make up and like others said a few years can make a difference in males looking more masculine. The judge also addressed this issue saying that the worse photos had been chosen and the he could have been perceived as a woman.

GiraffesAtThePark · 14/10/2025 18:24

Cassandrazone · 13/10/2025 21:43

It's not illegal to procure sex by lying about your name, socioeconomic status, race, marital status, or sexual orientation. I see no credible reason why lying about biology should be treated any differently.

You don’t think there’s a difference in finding out you slept with a bank clerk vs a rich banker and a male vs female? The sex of the person matters when it comes to a person’s sexuality surely? The man deliberately fooled him. It doesn’t say anything about the victim’s sexuality.

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