Even as I start typing I'm not sure what I am going to say or exactly the point of this thread. I just stumbled upon a story whilst looking for something else.
Ellia Green seems to be ethnically Fijian, was born in 1993 in Fiji, and moved with her Polish and English adoptive parents to Australia when she was five. Her adoptive father died when she was young, and her adopting mum died 7 years ago when she was 25. She is in a lesbian relationship and they have a child. She claims to be the dad.
She had what appears to be a very successful (elite) career in women's Rugby Sevens, and some sort of a short career at pro level women's rugby proper.
She then came out as a trans'man' who has not changed her name and uses she/her and they/them pronouns.
Then there's this...
https://www.foxsports.com.au/rugby/rugby-2025-how-former-rugby-sevens-star-ellia-green-rediscovered-his-love-for-the-sport-transition/news-story/bc300a407be6209415139a8daed30467
Taken at face value the story is that a highly talented female rugby player has become a man and is competing against men at rugby.
Why are they not making clear that she has gone from elite level women's, to the New South Wales Suburban league? The suburban league (having googled) is the third level of rugby in NSW, and her team compete (and finish towards the bottom) in the 5th of 6th divisions at the third level. Players have to pay their club a membership fee in order to play.
“Now, when I go up against some of these guys, it’s not that’s not really much different from the power and speed of athletes on the 7s circuit that I played with who are a whole other level.”
The implication is that women can compete with men, but the reality seems to be more that an elite woman can compete near the very bottom of the men's amateur rugby pyramid. And even then "it’s not that’s not really much different" suggests to me that she's not finding it easy.
Then there's the implication that transition was some sort of joyous thing, when it seems clear that she was depressed as a result of her women's rugby career coming to an end and the loss of her mother, and that almost certainly played a part in (what I believe are) forming the mental health co-morbidities that are almost always present when women transition.