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Kelly v Leonardo Employment Tribunal Thread 3

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ickky · 03/10/2025 13:09

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Ms BM Kelly v Leonardo UK Limited Employment Tribunal – hearing Case number: 8001497/2024

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Abbreviations:
C or MK - Claimant, Maria Kelly
NC - Naomi Cunningham, barrister for C
KW - Katy Wedderburn, solicitor for C
R or L - Respondent. Leonardo UK
ST - Susanne Tanner KC, barrister for R
J - Judge
P - Panel member
GC - gender critical
GI - gender identity
AL - Andrew R Letton VP People Shared Services Leonardo - respondent witness

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https://tribunaltweets.substack.com/p/kelly-vs-leonardo-uk-ltd

Thread 1 https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5416903-kelly-v-leonardo-employment-tribunal-29th-september-10am?page=1

Thread 2 https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5420656-kelly-v-leonardo-employment-tribunal-thread-2?page=1

Kelly vs Leonardo UK Ltd

Tribunal will consider workplace toilet provision

https://tribunaltweets.substack.com/p/kelly-vs-leonardo-uk-ltd

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NebulousSupportPostcard · 06/10/2025 14:27

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ThreeWordHarpy · 06/10/2025 14:30

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Not a Scot, but I have a good friend who is who says if a Weegie is calling you a cunt, it’s a sign of affection. If he calls you pal, you’ve offended him greatly and things are warming up.

sassanach · 06/10/2025 14:38

I concur with the PP

I'm also a fan of fannybaws which might be the best insult for this thread as its basically a combo of the two insults.

Easytoconfuse · 06/10/2025 14:47

NebulousSupportPostcard · 06/10/2025 14:24

There will always be a balancing act needed, IMO.

On the one hand it is absolutely important to have robust debate and also to be able back down and change our minds when others bring different and often better perspectives than our own.

On the other hand, it sometimes seems painfully likely that certain posters begin with an attempt to ingratiate themselves and also to model the "oh aren't we all on a lovely learning journey" attitude that they hope we will adopt in order for them to teach us what we should think and how we should respond to the poor beleaguered men on the witness stand in any given case. And that gets a hard no from me.

I love the way NC gives bullshitting short shrift.

AL: We tried to get the right people involved, we were diligent, to get it right
NC: That's the end of a topic, so a good moment for lunch?
J: Agree. We will re-start at 1.05pm

I totally agree. I try to be nice ONCE and it interested me that Leonardo's aren't everyone's favourite firm because he came across as if they were sunshine, rainbows and unicorns farting sparkles. I almost wondered if support fluffy kittens were available when needed.

SorryAuntLydia · 06/10/2025 15:18

MyrtleLion · 05/10/2025 13:27

Andy is Andy L, not Andy R, which was an error by TT in his first session.

With respect to AL and consulting the union; in large employers, trade union reps are elected by the workforce and some will be paid by the company to be full time union reps and provided with a shared office for union use. This is cost-effective because the HR dept can head off any problems by directly talking to the reps. There will be any number of disciplinary and grievance cases ongoing at any time, and full time reps can use the time to consult with and represent individuals about their cases. It's cheaper than losing paid time on a job for a TU rep to represent and consult.

Some reps in the workplace are not paid but are available for staff to talk to. No paid union rep can be directly hired as a rep. They have to be existing employees elected to the post.

Some policy/conditions issues are easily dealt with as the union will already have policies or custom and practice. Others will mean the union has to consult its members. More serious issues such as pay rises and changes to hours will need to be balloted, and there are strict laws about that.

If an HR department can work with the union to avoid strike action or conflict, then it will. For example HR might say we will give paid time off for staff training. The union will agree and inform members and then negotiate for more. Or they will suggest something more weighty like buying out overtime (salaries increased across the board in exchange for no more overtime claims and an expectation that staff will work additional hours if necessary). That kind of thing is to test the water. The reps may say, nope, not happening, in which case the company will maybe wait another year, or they may say, we can ask the members, and negotiations can start.

(The unions are also good at letting management know about shitty managers who are bullying staff, because often the staff won't speak up to the company but will talk to reps.)

This is in the union's interests because otherwise the company could threaten redundancies. And having paid reps to work with the staff often means compulsory redundancies are avoided and managers don't have to make uncomfortable decisions about who's selected.

For AL this means keeping the union happy as much as possible and negotiating about most things.

My question is what is the union's policy on SSS? Sometimes this is agreed nationally (Unison recently decided that TWAW) and sometimes locally. Do the union members at Leonardo agree with SSS and if they don't, where was the consultation and policy made with their members?

I wanted to pick up on this because I seem to recall that only 30% of L’s workforce are actually union members so this influence appears disproportionate.

My experience of a similar company was that the manufacturing staff were all union members and the management/office staff were not. I was an exception but they were singularly useless in helping me with ‘white collar’ issues related to sex discrimination - I had to get my own employment lawyer for that.

Unions are still stuck in the dark ages when it comes to women’s issues so I’m not surprised their influence at L was negative for the female employees.

thewaythatyoudoit · 06/10/2025 16:09

Easytoconfuse says that NC isn't tolerant of bullshit, certainly true. She actually (briefly, to his relief) joined one of Foran's substack live summaries and in the context of JR wittering about how everyone has to be kind, wrote in the Comments box, 'I,however, am not kind'. Thank goodness for her

NebulousSupportPostcard · 06/10/2025 16:21

sassanach · 06/10/2025 14:38

I concur with the PP

I'm also a fan of fannybaws which might be the best insult for this thread as its basically a combo of the two insults.

FANNYBAWS hahaha!

I have heard PAL used menacingly and was v impressed. Though I have the wrong accent sadly.

I once used NED thinking it was a male equivalent of HEN and had to be rescued swiftly by apologetic friends.

Easytoconfuse · 06/10/2025 16:21

thewaythatyoudoit · 06/10/2025 16:09

Easytoconfuse says that NC isn't tolerant of bullshit, certainly true. She actually (briefly, to his relief) joined one of Foran's substack live summaries and in the context of JR wittering about how everyone has to be kind, wrote in the Comments box, 'I,however, am not kind'. Thank goodness for her

I got curious, so I looked up 'be kind' and saw it defined as putting other people's needs before your own. That's lovely for the person who gets their own way, but not so good for the person who's constantly expected to come in second. Like Naomi, I am not prepared to be kind in that way because it strikes me as bullying. After all, if they were kind they'd have put my needs first, wouldn't they?

Waitwhat23 · 06/10/2025 16:23

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You could he's a -

Numpty
Melt
Eejit
Bampot
Tumshie
Roaster
Choob
Dobber

And you could also say he's -

Glaikit

(My, spell check didn't like that much!)

Waitwhat23 · 06/10/2025 16:25

NebulousSupportPostcard · 06/10/2025 16:21

FANNYBAWS hahaha!

I have heard PAL used menacingly and was v impressed. Though I have the wrong accent sadly.

I once used NED thinking it was a male equivalent of HEN and had to be rescued swiftly by apologetic friends.

Oh dear, I can see ned going down quite badly!

Pal is definitely not an endearment. I use it if I think someone's an utter numpty.

thewaythatyoudoit · 06/10/2025 16:28

Easytoconfuse · 06/10/2025 16:21

I got curious, so I looked up 'be kind' and saw it defined as putting other people's needs before your own. That's lovely for the person who gets their own way, but not so good for the person who's constantly expected to come in second. Like Naomi, I am not prepared to be kind in that way because it strikes me as bullying. After all, if they were kind they'd have put my needs first, wouldn't they?

There’s a wonderful Frayn novel where they programme robots like that and then put them on a sinking liferaft in various scenarios. They do fine sacrificing themselves for humans, greater number, etc, but when there’s just the two of them, they get confused and then throw each other off

FortheloveofPetethePlumber · 06/10/2025 16:40

Easytoconfuse · 06/10/2025 16:21

I got curious, so I looked up 'be kind' and saw it defined as putting other people's needs before your own. That's lovely for the person who gets their own way, but not so good for the person who's constantly expected to come in second. Like Naomi, I am not prepared to be kind in that way because it strikes me as bullying. After all, if they were kind they'd have put my needs first, wouldn't they?

'Kindness' in this context is never reciprocal, it's demanded submission. Unequal power. Which is the hallmark of abuse. Women are quite easy to manipulate in this way because they want to be nice, they do care. It stops working when you have someone who sees this as a weakness to use and exploit and demand rather than something to rise up to and join in.

CarefulN0w · 06/10/2025 17:09

@KnottyAutyhope you don’t mind, I’ve sent you a PM about something I wanted to capture.

Apologies for the interruption!

ErrolTheDragon · 06/10/2025 17:37

Easytoconfuse · 06/10/2025 16:21

I got curious, so I looked up 'be kind' and saw it defined as putting other people's needs before your own. That's lovely for the person who gets their own way, but not so good for the person who's constantly expected to come in second. Like Naomi, I am not prepared to be kind in that way because it strikes me as bullying. After all, if they were kind they'd have put my needs first, wouldn't they?

Also, ‘putting other peoples needs before your own’ may be fine if it’s just your own needs which are affected. Your choice, your consent.

But you can’t unilaterally put the needs (or wants) of another group of people ahead of the needs of all members of a group you happen to belong to. That’s not ‘kindness’.

Easytoconfuse · 06/10/2025 19:24

ErrolTheDragon · 06/10/2025 17:37

Also, ‘putting other peoples needs before your own’ may be fine if it’s just your own needs which are affected. Your choice, your consent.

But you can’t unilaterally put the needs (or wants) of another group of people ahead of the needs of all members of a group you happen to belong to. That’s not ‘kindness’.

And that goes double when you're a member of the group that benefits. I find language fascinating and powerful so I tend to ask what people mean when they say something. The common one atm seems to be 'educate yourself' which ties in with the Stonewall 'no debate' In both cases I suspect it means 'how dare you argue with me?' In my experience, if you get someone on a topic that means a lot to them then the problem is getting them to shut up about it so this reaction is very odd...

Bannedontherun · 06/10/2025 21:23

i have just finished reading tribunal tweets substack.

i could not figure out what the defence was other than we are thinking about what process we need to enact in order to follow a process in the future bla bla bla

and NC nails it we will wait for a court to tell us what to do and we can blame them, <phew> sorry ladyboy union its out of our hands.

Saves us a shed load of money, subsequent court action, cost benefit analysis innit?

having said that it is good for our side.

sorry Mk has to go through this utter bollocks.

And i would like to thank her personally.

As for AL @NebulousSupportPostcard he is a yes man, and as you say, as a matter of fact a cunt of the first order. He could have just said er no keep me out of this.

DuesToTheDirt · 06/10/2025 23:24

Bannedontherun · 06/10/2025 21:23

i have just finished reading tribunal tweets substack.

i could not figure out what the defence was other than we are thinking about what process we need to enact in order to follow a process in the future bla bla bla

and NC nails it we will wait for a court to tell us what to do and we can blame them, <phew> sorry ladyboy union its out of our hands.

Saves us a shed load of money, subsequent court action, cost benefit analysis innit?

having said that it is good for our side.

sorry Mk has to go through this utter bollocks.

And i would like to thank her personally.

As for AL @NebulousSupportPostcard he is a yes man, and as you say, as a matter of fact a cunt of the first order. He could have just said er no keep me out of this.

I still don't get it though. The SC ruling is clear, they could just have followed that and skipped the tribunal, and said to the trans lobby that it was out of their hands.

Contemporaneouslyagog · 06/10/2025 23:35

It's similar when your kids don't want to do something with friends so they say their mum won't let them.

Peregrina · 07/10/2025 00:27

I still don't get it though. The SC ruling is clear, they could just have followed that and skipped the tribunal, and said to the trans lobby that it was out of their hands.

I think the point is that this had been going on for a number of years, so the case was probably listed for the ET well before the Supreme Court ruling came along. I imagine that once the ruling came out, they could have entered no defence and let the Tribunal rule on what compensation to offer, if any.

It's been very distressing to see what Maria Kelly has been put through, but from our point of view, it's good to see such behaviour exposed. If they had, for example, tried to settle out of court, we would not have known any of this.

sassanach · 07/10/2025 07:17

Do the respondents witnesses get told who the lawyers are though? Or just that they've to go to tribunal and get questioned?

ThirdDesk · 07/10/2025 08:19

sassanach · 07/10/2025 07:17

Do the respondents witnesses get told who the lawyers are though? Or just that they've to go to tribunal and get questioned?

The whole thing seemed like it was new information to Andy who didn't even appear to have read the claim or bundle from the very tribunal he was the only witness for, nor did he seem to have read any HR industry comms for the last 4 years. For him to know who the Claimant's barrister was and then also Google her beforehand would seem unlikely.

Contemporaneouslyagog · 07/10/2025 08:26

Was he going for plausible deniability ? Better to look a fool than a bully.

sassanach · 07/10/2025 08:48

I saw that, its been rumbling on for a while though hasn't it? Will manly beardy Paddy make an appearance this time?

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