Many people with disabilities need the toilet NOW when they need it, as indeed to many women during meopause, so no, I'm afraid I'm not okay about sharing it with people who don't share and don't understand disability or often believe in it and, and please delete this if it's wrong or controverisal, are on a power trip. I don't think anyone should have to explain that they have a disability and how it affects them, any more than Sandie Peggie and Maria Kelly should have to have done for periods.
There aren't enough disabled loos that have changing facilities for adults or hoists. There haven't been for years and no one listened or cared that this was a barrier to disabled people participating in the world. Now a tiny, tiny group come along and everyone is supposed to worry about them and feel sorry for them and alter everything to suit them.
It's not going to be right to solve the problem by giving back what was taken from women by taking them from the disabled and sharing them with another group. It seems to me that the EHRC, as Akua Reindorf has begun to, needs to jump up and down and scream and take people to court until certain groups have to accept that their rights are not more important than everyone else's.
This isn't aimed at you. It's years and years of frustration and raw anger that the solution to a woman wanting privacy is for her to use a toilet aimed at those with disabilities who CANNOT go anywhere else. Imagine wetting or soiling yourself because you CANNOT use another toilet and a family is using it, who could have gone somewhere else but preferred to use that toilet.
It would be good if there were more toilet provisions but my local council has shut ALL the loos and says that local shops can take up the slack. Except that they don't, and they shut in the evenings.
Remember the determination to cut benefits? The sheer nastiness about education for children with SEND? The 'autism is bad parenting' brigade? Of course the next step will be to try to take the loos too. And to end my little rant with a chilling thought. People with autism have lower life expectancy because they receive poor medical care.
The answer to the question seems to be 'hit the disabled.' It doesn't matter what question is.
As I say, this isn't aimed at you specifically, but I think it's important that each and every disabled person can have their say and be listened to.