I was involved with the union movement just before the Equality Act came into force. The odd TiM showed up and was allowed to go to the women's conferences and committees. Part of being kind. The unions did a lot of defending them when they were fired for being trans. Which was illegal and remains illegal and is the main thrust of the trans rights in the EA2010.
I met one called Claire, a middle-aged man in his 50s with grown children who rejected him. He made a fortune taking companies to tribunal for not hiring him because he was trans. The companies usually settled so it was never tested in court. I assumed he'd had castration surgery, though I don't know that for sure. He used the Ladies. It was uncomfortable because he behaved like a man. But it was just him.
This was probably the way that a lot of organisations worked. It was just one and they weren't harming anyone. And they took a lot of pains to "pass". I knew Claire wasn't a woman but he was trying to fit in. No policy was passed, it just was what it was.
And so it might have continued, even beyond the Equality Act, if Stonewall hadn't massively overreached. The arrogance and determination of the men to be more public, more fetishistic, and to enjoy relish our discomfort.
Claire peaked me but I was a single woman unable to do anything about it, despite raising it with the union. I have met nearly 100 trans-identifying men since then. They rush to the unions and political parties because they are accepting of them. It's similar to a lot of mentally unwell people who gravitate to church and religious groups, because they are accepted.
It took more years in the early 2010s to find others who felt the same. And I've lost a lot of friends who assume I'm homophobic because I refuse to tolerate the T.
Akua Reindorf KC has said it's like the early days of the Race Relations Act when companies were blatantly racist and lost a lot.of tribunals until they realised they had to comply.
We are winning and we are hitting these organisations in their pocket. That's why it will change in the next decade, but there will be more cases and more suffering. But we will prevail.