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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Faith school where women are banned from wearing trousers becomes state funded

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ArabellaSaurus · 27/09/2025 22:37

https://www.secularism.org.uk/news/2025/09/faith-school-which-bans-women-wearing-trousers-becomes-state-funded

'The National Secular Society has expressed alarm that a London faith school which bans women from wearing trousers and penalises families who attend non-kosher restaurants will now be funded by the state.
Nancy Reuben Primary School re-opened as a voluntary aided (VA) state school this month, after operating as an independent school for 26 years. Its decision to join the state sector follows the Government's move to charge VAT on independent school fees.'

'Women may not wear trousers, mini skirts, shorts, low necklines or sleeveless tops
The school's dress code for parents and visitors says men "must have their head covered at all times" and women "must wear skirts of knee length (a maximum of 2" above is acceptable)". It says trousers "may not be worn" by women.
Additionally, women must cover their underarms and may not wear cap sleeves. Women may not wear clothes with necklines lower than "4 fingers from the collar bone" either "in front or back of the garment".
Trousers are permitted for aupairs and nannies but they may not wear mini skirts, shorts, plunging necklines or sleeveless tops.'

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MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 09:38

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 09:36

So, I presume you'd like for the many thousands of Cof E and catholic schools to be closed down? Even though many parents actively like and choose them?
There would be few schools left in the city in which I live if you did this.

I used to be a teacher, and even though i'm not of a particular faith myself, I generally liked and preferred working in catholic schools, particularly. Also you'll find children of other faiths attend in quite large numbers for the same sorts of reasons.

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This is surely hypothetical. Ofc there would need to be a good state system first.

It raises serious questions if secular schools are so much worse than religious ones. Why do you think Catholic/C of E are better? Better at getting good staff etc? Would you like to maybe say what you think gives then the edge?

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 09:41

LoftyRobin · 28/09/2025 09:34

Very much doubt it will enforce rules on visitors and we are constantly talking about these super Muslim schools that are very very new when we've had these illegal Jewish schools and the dodgy legal ones for decades. None of these schools should exist.

Tbf a lot of Muslim schools are not that new. The first were founded in the early 80s and by 2007 there were over 100.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=www.bristol.ac.uk/news/2007/11924560572.html&ved=2ahUKEwiDtMfMh_uPAxVjd0EAHW7JOvUQFnoECBcQAQ&usg=AOvVaw33vxfkU3j6EkkOOvjymMZL

Agree both need focus.

https://www.google.com/url?opi=89978449&rct=j&sa=t&source=web&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bristol.ac.uk%2Fnews%2F2007%2F11924560572.html&usg=AOvVaw33vxfkU3j6EkkOOvjymMZL&ved=2ahUKEwiDtMfMh_uPAxVjd0EAHW7JOvUQFnoECBcQAQ

LoftyRobin · 28/09/2025 09:41

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 09:36

So, I presume you'd like for the many thousands of Cof E and catholic schools to be closed down? Even though many parents actively like and choose them?
There would be few schools left in the city in which I live if you did this.

I used to be a teacher, and even though i'm not of a particular faith myself, I generally liked and preferred working in catholic schools, particularly. Also you'll find children of other faiths attend in quite large numbers for the same sorts of reasons.

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Thats not the case in Jewish schools. In fact, they try to stop Jewish kids from attending if they don't see them as Jewish.

https://app.croneri.co.uk/law-and-guidance/case-reports/r-application-e-v-governing-body-jfs-and-admissions-appeal-panel-jfs?product=183

https://www.jta.org/2008/02/12/default/jewish-school-accused-on-admissions

Jewish school accused on admissions - Jewish Telegraphic Agency

A prestigious Jewish school in London was accused of discrimination for refusing to accept the daughter of a convert.

https://www.jta.org/2008/02/12/default/jewish-school-accused-on-admissions

CatchingtheCat · 28/09/2025 09:42

LoftyRobin · 28/09/2025 09:19

They do it because they want to. Not because there is a school rule saying they have to. Youre talking about peer pressure vs a rule stating that you or your mum cant a short skirt.

They don’t want to wear an uncomfortably short skirt, they want to fit in. Can you really not tell the difference?

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 09:44

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 09:38

This is surely hypothetical. Ofc there would need to be a good state system first.

It raises serious questions if secular schools are so much worse than religious ones. Why do you think Catholic/C of E are better? Better at getting good staff etc? Would you like to maybe say what you think gives then the edge?

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Usually, it is the strong ethos and clear focus on the faith that brings the community together. I've always enjoyed cathoic schools for this reason, and the rhythm of the year with its round of feast days and festivals is very enjoyable too. It all seeks to create a strong moral framework for life.

Secular schools attempt to do this too...but it tends to be far more 'preachy', ironically and pretentious and forced. I've been in whole school assemblies such as this - and I honestly prefer the clarity and simplicity of an overtly faith based one more.

Secularism also tries to instil its own versions of morality onto people - with strong ideas about what is right and wrong.

deadpan · 28/09/2025 09:46

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 09:20

Presumably they're not asking you to follow a strict dress code?

I'm Christian myself, I'm not intimidated by religion (and I doubt pps are) but I am however offended by people using any religion as a shield for sexism or other stuff like poor education. This particular case seems OK though

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Any school uniform is a strict dress code, and the rules for adults sound like they're simply asking for modest clothing.
You'd be surprised how many people are against religion and think any mention of it is shoving it in their faces.

Pharazon · 28/09/2025 09:49

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 08:59

Most schools have uniform requirements. I'm imagining people who are not supportive of the school ethos would not choose to send their children there.

For parents and visitors??

ArabellaSaurus · 28/09/2025 09:50

Leoari · 28/09/2025 00:12

So Jewish orthodox school....enforces Jewish orthodox dress code?! I actually don't agree with government funded religious schools at all but if the government are funding Catholic, CoE and Muslim schools which all have "rules" I don't agree with, I'm not sure what the difference is, are you are only objecting to Jewish tradition?

Not sure who your post is addressed to. I posted for discussion. The National Secular society campaigns against all faith schools, and I've posted before about schools of other faiths that have secist practises.

*sexist, although that could almost be 'sectist'.

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LoftyRobin · 28/09/2025 09:55

CatchingtheCat · 28/09/2025 09:42

They don’t want to wear an uncomfortably short skirt, they want to fit in. Can you really not tell the difference?

Yes and thats peer pressure. Not a school rule!

CurlewKate · 28/09/2025 09:59

I’m an atheist. I am not intimidated by or scared of or (insert negative emotion of choice) by religion. I just don’t think tax money should go towards supporting religion. Everything tax funded should be entirely secular.

ArabellaSaurus · 28/09/2025 10:01

Soontobe60 · 28/09/2025 08:10

Highlighting the uniform requirements of a religious school could be argued to be discriminatory as the vast majority of state funded schools in this country have uniforms that are sex based and could be seen to disadvantage girls.
If we’re going to argue against strict uniforms, please include all schools, not just faith ones.

Its worth discussion! Trousers can be tricky; its hard to find comfortable trousers to suit different body shapes. And trousers can be too hot in summer.

Personally I hate uniform altogether, but schools have become heavily invested in controlling what children wear in recent years.

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Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:03

Pharazon · 28/09/2025 09:49

For parents and visitors??

It's an orthodox jewish school. The parents will be orthodox themselves, I imagine.

It is obviously a school in an area with a large jewish population - hence the demand for such a school.

LoftyRobin · 28/09/2025 10:06

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:03

It's an orthodox jewish school. The parents will be orthodox themselves, I imagine.

It is obviously a school in an area with a large jewish population - hence the demand for such a school.

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What about people like inspectors? They've already had to speak about au pairs because the community see the value in hiring non-Jewish "help". They dont seem to imagine OFSTED or the LEA might want to come and inspect or they're saying if they do, they will be inspecting the inspectors.

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:06

ArabellaSaurus · 28/09/2025 10:01

Its worth discussion! Trousers can be tricky; its hard to find comfortable trousers to suit different body shapes. And trousers can be too hot in summer.

Personally I hate uniform altogether, but schools have become heavily invested in controlling what children wear in recent years.

Personally, I like uniform in a school context. It equalises and unifies the children and helps to focus the mind on what they are there for. There is often a motto and a badge as well - which emphasise values and purpose.

ArabellaSaurus · 28/09/2025 10:08

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:06

Personally, I like uniform in a school context. It equalises and unifies the children and helps to focus the mind on what they are there for. There is often a motto and a badge as well - which emphasise values and purpose.

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I know, there are arguments like this. Im just not wholly convinced, though. The environmental load of all that polycotton also bothers me.

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Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:08

CurlewKate · 28/09/2025 09:59

I’m an atheist. I am not intimidated by or scared of or (insert negative emotion of choice) by religion. I just don’t think tax money should go towards supporting religion. Everything tax funded should be entirely secular.

That is a very strong 'should'. Atheism is also very fixed and certain in its moral judgements and standards.

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 10:11

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 09:44

Usually, it is the strong ethos and clear focus on the faith that brings the community together. I've always enjoyed cathoic schools for this reason, and the rhythm of the year with its round of feast days and festivals is very enjoyable too. It all seeks to create a strong moral framework for life.

Secular schools attempt to do this too...but it tends to be far more 'preachy', ironically and pretentious and forced. I've been in whole school assemblies such as this - and I honestly prefer the clarity and simplicity of an overtly faith based one more.

Secularism also tries to instil its own versions of morality onto people - with strong ideas about what is right and wrong.

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Thank you, very interesting. Curious- roughly how often do feast days and festivals happen in Catholic schools? (I was raised Anglican myself, so not familiar)

I can see what you mean about pretentious secular assemblies. I don't think it HAS to be that way though. My school was secular & we had interesting assemblies, not especially preachy (tho it was C of E founded & we sang hymns every morning, which most people loved, including those of other faiths)

ArabellaSaurus · 28/09/2025 10:11

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:08

That is a very strong 'should'. Atheism is also very fixed and certain in its moral judgements and standards.

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Which is why I'd suggest a tolerant and pragmatic secular approach would be best. All religions and non religious given equal respect.

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Moglet4 · 28/09/2025 10:12

Stichintime · 27/09/2025 23:35

I really don't see the problem. If you work or visit a religious school, you expect to follow the rules and customs. Secular society shouldn't expect to enter and not do whats required. Some Church and Islamic schools are also L.A schools, and I don't think it causes major problems!

It is a problem when it is funded by the state.

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 10:13

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:08

That is a very strong 'should'. Atheism is also very fixed and certain in its moral judgements and standards.

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It's not necessarily only an atheist view though. France doesn't fund religious schools, there's still plenty of Catholics and others there- their laicite principles don't equal state-imposed atheism.

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 10:16

deadpan · 28/09/2025 09:46

Any school uniform is a strict dress code, and the rules for adults sound like they're simply asking for modest clothing.
You'd be surprised how many people are against religion and think any mention of it is shoving it in their faces.

There's a difference between school dress codes and the kind of rules Hasidic women and (rarer, but some, esp in YS) Christian women have to follow.

I know some people are like that. I don't think people on this thread are though. Seem like mainly reasonable points to me.

ArabellaSaurus · 28/09/2025 10:16

LoftyRobin · 28/09/2025 09:13

Because we are a country with set values and many aspects of their lifestyle are simply not compatible with those values. We just choose to ignore it when it comes from some communities.

Thats interesting.

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MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 10:18

CurlewKate · 28/09/2025 09:59

I’m an atheist. I am not intimidated by or scared of or (insert negative emotion of choice) by religion. I just don’t think tax money should go towards supporting religion. Everything tax funded should be entirely secular.

Exactly, it's weird for people to imply that people must be intimidated or offended by any religion at all when most are just raising valid questions about children brought up in very strict environments with mainly children who believe the same.

deadpan · 28/09/2025 10:23

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 10:16

There's a difference between school dress codes and the kind of rules Hasidic women and (rarer, but some, esp in YS) Christian women have to follow.

I know some people are like that. I don't think people on this thread are though. Seem like mainly reasonable points to me.

I didn't imply that I was referring to anyone in this chat. OP's post was what I replied to, not a general discussion about how some religions oppress women.

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:23

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 10:11

Thank you, very interesting. Curious- roughly how often do feast days and festivals happen in Catholic schools? (I was raised Anglican myself, so not familiar)

I can see what you mean about pretentious secular assemblies. I don't think it HAS to be that way though. My school was secular & we had interesting assemblies, not especially preachy (tho it was C of E founded & we sang hymns every morning, which most people loved, including those of other faiths)

I used to teach in a catholic secondary school in Gloucester - one of my favourite schools. it had a chapel at the heart of the school campus and a big 'barn' which was used for festivities and Saints days - which seemed quite often to me ( I honestly cannot recall the names and precise numbers of all of them). The 'barn' occasions were really joyous and uplifting. The chapel was my favourite space to sit when I needed some time alone.

When you apply to teach in a catholic school you have to show you understand the ethos and are supportive of it. I tended to ve very good at that...because i do have a past, personal experience of Christian faith -even though i no longer identify myself in that way.

I went to a C of E girls school too......loved it. I didn't mind the hymn singing and the prayers at all. A Cof E school is not secular though. We also had a few Muslim and Jewish girls.