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Faith school where women are banned from wearing trousers becomes state funded

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ArabellaSaurus · 27/09/2025 22:37

https://www.secularism.org.uk/news/2025/09/faith-school-which-bans-women-wearing-trousers-becomes-state-funded

'The National Secular Society has expressed alarm that a London faith school which bans women from wearing trousers and penalises families who attend non-kosher restaurants will now be funded by the state.
Nancy Reuben Primary School re-opened as a voluntary aided (VA) state school this month, after operating as an independent school for 26 years. Its decision to join the state sector follows the Government's move to charge VAT on independent school fees.'

'Women may not wear trousers, mini skirts, shorts, low necklines or sleeveless tops
The school's dress code for parents and visitors says men "must have their head covered at all times" and women "must wear skirts of knee length (a maximum of 2" above is acceptable)". It says trousers "may not be worn" by women.
Additionally, women must cover their underarms and may not wear cap sleeves. Women may not wear clothes with necklines lower than "4 fingers from the collar bone" either "in front or back of the garment".
Trousers are permitted for aupairs and nannies but they may not wear mini skirts, shorts, plunging necklines or sleeveless tops.'

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sashh · 28/09/2025 10:24

deadpan · 28/09/2025 04:57

I don't see the problem, it's a school for Jewish kids and they and their families will be completely used to these guidelines. If you aren't Jewish you wouldn't chose this school anyway so it won't affect you. If you don't want to wear modest clothing to work then don't apply for a job here. I don't understand or agree with the trouser thing but again if it bothered you that much you wouldn't send your kids there.
My daughter went to a secondary school which wasn't affiliated to any religion and their rules for sixth form were no vests or off the shoulder tops. A lot of sixth forms specify suits these days which is completely outdated.
It isn't as though it's a campaign to get all schools to follow suit.

You might be surprised at who attends. There is a Jewish school in Birmingham where 2/3 of the pupils are Muslim. The girls have to wear skirts to school.

I don't agree with state faith schools and I am concerned not just about strict dress codes but what is actually taught.

Jujujudo · 28/09/2025 10:25

LoftyRobin · 28/09/2025 09:13

Because we are a country with set values and many aspects of their lifestyle are simply not compatible with those values. We just choose to ignore it when it comes from some communities.

Numbers matter. The amount of Orthodox Jewish schools with rules like this are few. There are so little Jews in the uk anyway, that’s why they “get away with it”. And they’re not white. Jews aren’t white. There are many more Muslim faith schools which is why it seems to you that this is discussed while the other is “ignored”. Do you walk around London, Manchester, Luton, Birmingham and see large numbers of Orthodox Jews? Go look up how many schools like this exist in the uk. Then you’ll understand why it’s largely ignored comparatively. No need to hide behind thinly veiled racism, implying that the Jews get away with things because they’re (insert false trope)… we see you, nothing new, we get it.

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:26

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 10:13

It's not necessarily only an atheist view though. France doesn't fund religious schools, there's still plenty of Catholics and others there- their laicite principles don't equal state-imposed atheism.

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Yes, but atheism is its own kind of religion with very strict 'shoulds' and 'should nots'

sashh · 28/09/2025 10:29

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:26

Yes, but atheism is its own kind of religion with very strict 'shoulds' and 'should nots'

I'll bite.

So what are the shoulds and should nots of atheism>

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:31

LoftyRobin · 28/09/2025 09:41

The one Jewish faith school in my city is attended by children of all faiths, so long as they are supportive of its Jewish ethos. This is standards for all faith schools.

Your issue seems to be with jews and Judaism beyond any other consideration, even though they form only a very tiny percentage of the population?

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:35

sashh · 28/09/2025 10:29

I'll bite.

So what are the shoulds and should nots of atheism>

You tell me!

I don't label myself in such a way...so I'm not sure what the strictures are. But people like Richard Dworkins are very dogmatic and rigid in their pronouncements. Atheists are not agnostic, are they.....they are firm in their beliefs. To my mind, any set of beliefs which is firmly adhered to and is inflexible is religious in its nature.

ArabellaSaurus · 28/09/2025 10:36

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:23

I used to teach in a catholic secondary school in Gloucester - one of my favourite schools. it had a chapel at the heart of the school campus and a big 'barn' which was used for festivities and Saints days - which seemed quite often to me ( I honestly cannot recall the names and precise numbers of all of them). The 'barn' occasions were really joyous and uplifting. The chapel was my favourite space to sit when I needed some time alone.

When you apply to teach in a catholic school you have to show you understand the ethos and are supportive of it. I tended to ve very good at that...because i do have a past, personal experience of Christian faith -even though i no longer identify myself in that way.

I went to a C of E girls school too......loved it. I didn't mind the hymn singing and the prayers at all. A Cof E school is not secular though. We also had a few Muslim and Jewish girls.

A teacher friend (raised Catholic) was refused a post in Catholic school because the head didnt feel her faith was strong enough. So at least some.Catholic schools require a committed Catholic faith to work there.

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Jujujudo · 28/09/2025 10:37

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:31

The one Jewish faith school in my city is attended by children of all faiths, so long as they are supportive of its Jewish ethos. This is standards for all faith schools.

Your issue seems to be with jews and Judaism beyond any other consideration, even though they form only a very tiny percentage of the population?

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Oh I’m glad it’s not just me who noticed!

LoftyRobin · 28/09/2025 10:38

Jujujudo · 28/09/2025 10:25

Numbers matter. The amount of Orthodox Jewish schools with rules like this are few. There are so little Jews in the uk anyway, that’s why they “get away with it”. And they’re not white. Jews aren’t white. There are many more Muslim faith schools which is why it seems to you that this is discussed while the other is “ignored”. Do you walk around London, Manchester, Luton, Birmingham and see large numbers of Orthodox Jews? Go look up how many schools like this exist in the uk. Then you’ll understand why it’s largely ignored comparatively. No need to hide behind thinly veiled racism, implying that the Jews get away with things because they’re (insert false trope)… we see you, nothing new, we get it.

They tick white on the forms. White and Jewish.

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:39

ArabellaSaurus · 28/09/2025 10:36

A teacher friend (raised Catholic) was refused a post in Catholic school because the head didnt feel her faith was strong enough. So at least some.Catholic schools require a committed Catholic faith to work there.

As I say, you are asked questions at interview, especially if you are not a baptised roman catholic, such as myself. I was very good at responding because I essentially understand the value of a strong faith in one's life, and the role it serves in creating a unified community.

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:40

LoftyRobin · 28/09/2025 10:38

They tick white on the forms. White and Jewish.

Which forms?

CurlewKate · 28/09/2025 10:47

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:08

That is a very strong 'should'. Atheism is also very fixed and certain in its moral judgements and standards.

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I very clearly said secular” not “atheist”. They are very different things. Atheism is nothing to do with moral judgements, by the way.

LoftyRobin · 28/09/2025 10:48

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:40

Which forms?

Any form that asks for such personal details.

TheignT · 28/09/2025 10:49

MaxieRose · 28/09/2025 09:26

I think it’s a real scandal that any faith school is state funded in the first place. When my kids were small our closet primaries were CofE and Catholic. Very nice schools but selective. The game was to start attending church when they were born to get them in. I refused to do this and my oldest was allocated a school in the other side of town, despite the schools being something like 95% council funded.
Anyway, aside from that, the fact that any school can mandate what people wear to this degree feels like a regressive and isolationist move. We seem to be heading more and more to a divided society, with communities able to separate and never mix, and away from the idea of an integrated one.
My grandfather grew up in a Jewish ghetto, his father was a Rabbi. Not Frum but normal orthodox.
He spoke no English when he started school but went, as all the neighbourhood kids did, to the local schools, learned English and lived normally in a mixed community (Temple on Saturdays etc).
I think he would be really surprised if still alive that we seem to have rolled backwards.

The rolling back thing is interesting. I went to grammar school in the 60s. The Rabbi and Imam came on Fridays, us Catholic girls had re with a nun who was a retired teacher and priest came at the end of each half term and we had Mass in the hall. It was very integrated and we all wore school uniform, no problem. J now see girls who might be the granddaughters of my old school peers in full human, it confuses me.

I'm not sure about the Jewish community but when I was a child there were no Jewish schools but there are now.

I wish my old school was a model for the country.

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 10:49

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:23

I used to teach in a catholic secondary school in Gloucester - one of my favourite schools. it had a chapel at the heart of the school campus and a big 'barn' which was used for festivities and Saints days - which seemed quite often to me ( I honestly cannot recall the names and precise numbers of all of them). The 'barn' occasions were really joyous and uplifting. The chapel was my favourite space to sit when I needed some time alone.

When you apply to teach in a catholic school you have to show you understand the ethos and are supportive of it. I tended to ve very good at that...because i do have a past, personal experience of Christian faith -even though i no longer identify myself in that way.

I went to a C of E girls school too......loved it. I didn't mind the hymn singing and the prayers at all. A Cof E school is not secular though. We also had a few Muslim and Jewish girls.

That sounds lovely. Especially the festivities..
sadly most city schools wouldn't have that barn-type space but maybe they should!

I'm not sure if you'd call my school officially C of E though- we had hymns, a chaplain available to talk (though he very rarely gave assemblies) & communion services in the library once a month for those who wanted to go. But the assemblies had no prayers & we it didn't affect the curriculum at all. Or maybe that is C of E, I'm no expert! We had a boys' version which took religion much more seriously, own chapel etc. Most of our intake was non- or only vaguely religious, there wasn't any requirement to be Christian or church going etc

I definitely think some element of religion is good in schools. Hymns etc. I think you can build community in other ways but I can see how a full-on faith school makes it easier.

Makes sense that Muslim & Jewish girls would be OK with C of E. I've read Muslim students are often keen on Catholic schools if a Muslim one is unavailable.

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 10:50

sashh · 28/09/2025 10:24

You might be surprised at who attends. There is a Jewish school in Birmingham where 2/3 of the pupils are Muslim. The girls have to wear skirts to school.

I don't agree with state faith schools and I am concerned not just about strict dress codes but what is actually taught.

A Jewish school where most pupils are Muslim? Isn't the whole point of a faith school that most follow the religion? I suppose not enough Jews there to fill it?

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 10:53

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:26

Yes, but atheism is its own kind of religion with very strict 'shoulds' and 'should nots'

Hmm...I don't think that's accurate : how can a lack of belief be a religion?

There's no unified religion where everyone reads the holy books of Dawkins and genuflects to Hitchens etc Yes, there are weirdos like on r/atheism who almost make a cult of it, but nost atheists simply don't believe in a deity.

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 10:56

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:31

The one Jewish faith school in my city is attended by children of all faiths, so long as they are supportive of its Jewish ethos. This is standards for all faith schools.

Your issue seems to be with jews and Judaism beyond any other consideration, even though they form only a very tiny percentage of the population?

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Hang on, so would this apply to very strict Orthodox ones too? Or nit as they're mostly private?

TheignT · 28/09/2025 10:56

ArabellaSaurus · 28/09/2025 10:36

A teacher friend (raised Catholic) was refused a post in Catholic school because the head didnt feel her faith was strong enough. So at least some.Catholic schools require a committed Catholic faith to work there.

Again I think we go backwards. I remember a young newly qualified teacher who had a baby when she wasn't married in the 70s. She applied to a very good Catholic school, we all thought she had no chance but she got the job and I heard the school was very supportive. Tolerance seems a lost art.

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 10:58

Shortshriftandlethal · 28/09/2025 10:35

You tell me!

I don't label myself in such a way...so I'm not sure what the strictures are. But people like Richard Dworkins are very dogmatic and rigid in their pronouncements. Atheists are not agnostic, are they.....they are firm in their beliefs. To my mind, any set of beliefs which is firmly adhered to and is inflexible is religious in its nature.

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I see what you mean - but Dawkins is a particular type of person, someone whose career is built around atheism is hardly a representative atheist. Plenty of atheists might be open to changing their mind but on balance decide that they don't believe in a deity based on whatever evidence they've judged from at that point.

TheignT · 28/09/2025 10:58

TheignT · 28/09/2025 10:49

The rolling back thing is interesting. I went to grammar school in the 60s. The Rabbi and Imam came on Fridays, us Catholic girls had re with a nun who was a retired teacher and priest came at the end of each half term and we had Mass in the hall. It was very integrated and we all wore school uniform, no problem. J now see girls who might be the granddaughters of my old school peers in full human, it confuses me.

I'm not sure about the Jewish community but when I was a child there were no Jewish schools but there are now.

I wish my old school was a model for the country.

Not sure how autocorrect turned hijab into human. That oroperly mucked up my post.

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 11:01

Jujujudo · 28/09/2025 10:25

Numbers matter. The amount of Orthodox Jewish schools with rules like this are few. There are so little Jews in the uk anyway, that’s why they “get away with it”. And they’re not white. Jews aren’t white. There are many more Muslim faith schools which is why it seems to you that this is discussed while the other is “ignored”. Do you walk around London, Manchester, Luton, Birmingham and see large numbers of Orthodox Jews? Go look up how many schools like this exist in the uk. Then you’ll understand why it’s largely ignored comparatively. No need to hide behind thinly veiled racism, implying that the Jews get away with things because they’re (insert false trope)… we see you, nothing new, we get it.

I don't think a small number should be ignored where there ARE genuine issues like poor English into teenage years etc.

I do agree that there's more focus on Muslim schools bc of the numbers, plus issues like Luftur Rahman-style manoeuvres, and even indoctrination into potential extremism in the worst cases.

Shineonyoucrazy · 28/09/2025 11:02

@Leoari What on earth makes you think this poster would only have these views about Jewish schools?

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 11:02

TheignT · 28/09/2025 10:58

Not sure how autocorrect turned hijab into human. That oroperly mucked up my post.

Wait, that's a great post. What do you mean by full hijab? I thought hijab was basically headscarf- do you mean more than that? At a young age?

Aitchemarsey · 28/09/2025 11:04

MusettasWaltz · 28/09/2025 10:56

Hang on, so would this apply to very strict Orthodox ones too? Or nit as they're mostly private?

All state faith schools prioritise those of that faith, but will let in other pupils depending on numbers. Just like any school will have a list of priorities, usually to do with catchment, siblings, looked after children etc, but other kids can be admitted if there's space.

Private schools can admit who they like.

Jewish schools are perhaps a bit different as Jewishness is more to do with practice and community membership, as well as family background, rather than individual belief. So schools will want details of synagogue attendance and home practice, if they are trying to prioritise places, just like oversubscribed Catholic schools will want to know how often kids attend Mass etc. And some denominations of Judaism have broader definitions of who is Jewish than others- this is where JFS got in hot water a couple of decades ago.