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Trans row threatens to overshadow Lib Dem conference

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IwantToRetire · 17/09/2025 20:38

Sir Ed Davey faces activist revolt over party rules that allow biological men to take women’s posts

The current rules allow those who “self-identify as women” to stand for party posts set aside for women, which the activists say dilutes the chance that biological women can reach the top of the party.

The vote will be put before conference on Saturday, but it is understood that trans rights activists will try to get it cancelled to avoid embarrassment. This is despite a YouGov poll showing that three-quarters of Lib Dem members do not support the party’s stance on allowing gender self-ID.

Full article at https://www.telegraph.co.uk/politics/2025/09/17/trans-row-threatens-to-overshadow-lib-dem-conference/

Also at https://archive.is/hykSr

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DworkinWasRight · 22/09/2025 19:18

ItsCoolForCats · 22/09/2025 18:58

Wendy Chamberlain was also asked this on the Nicky Campbell show on 5 Live today, and she talked shite then too.

It is a gotcha question, but journalists are going to keep asking politicians this because they make themselves look like idiots every time.

It’s only a gotcha question if you’re an idiot or a coward. If you’re a normal person it’s completely straightforward.

ItsCoolForCats · 22/09/2025 19:38

DworkinWasRight · 22/09/2025 19:18

It’s only a gotcha question if you’re an idiot or a coward. If you’re a normal person it’s completely straightforward.

Wel exactly. But journalists will keep asking it to the politicians who they know will give a ridiculous answer.

IwantToRetire · 22/09/2025 20:44

Are the Lib Dems Britain’s most hypocritical party?
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/09/22/ed-davey-liberal-democrtas-division/

And https://archive.is/PlTtm

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GallantKumquat · 22/09/2025 22:18

ItsCoolForCats · 22/09/2025 18:58

Wendy Chamberlain was also asked this on the Nicky Campbell show on 5 Live today, and she talked shite then too.

It is a gotcha question, but journalists are going to keep asking politicians this because they make themselves look like idiots every time.

It is a gotcha question. But the thing is - it exposes them as politicians that obviously don't mean what they say and are willing to make themselves look foolish on national broadcast for inscrutable reasons rather than base their views on reality. And it's highly amusing click bait that generate views and ratings! Why do a boring, hour long, in depth interview to determine whether someone's policies are coherent and practicable enough for them to lead when you can demonstrate their unfitness in a few minutes?

Slothtoes · 22/09/2025 22:34

EdithStourton · 22/09/2025 09:06

I think midwits come from any social class, but the MC have the confidence to make more noise.

Picking up on what your DH found...
I have lived most of my life in the same fairly rural area. I'm very involved in local life and I know a lot of people from a wide range of backgrounds. I'm also on several countryside pages on FB.

And people are pissed off. They try to obey the law (other than speed restrictions, and the odd bit of planning...) and they look at the failure to control blatant illegal immigration with utter bewilderment. They make a connection with rising population (largely fuelled by immigration) and the housing shortage, hence their kids not being able to buy a place and move out, and hence the sheer number of families living in static caravans while building a house in what was their parents' large side garden (surprisingly common down the back lanes where I live). Most of them have no issue with individual immigrants - the bloke who runs the takeaway in the former village pub and has a lock-in on a Tuesday night is everybody's mate. They have an issue with illegality, and the sheer unmanageable scale of the current inflow of people.

They are feeling squeezed, too, by years of being undercut in their trades by Pawel from Poland. Pawel, even if he has a wife and kids, is still willing to live in cramped accommodation and save like buggery for a few years, because when he moves back to Poland, the £££ he (and his wife) has saved will buy him (them) an actual house more or less outright in his home village. Whereas if they live in the same circumstances (and often do), they might make it to a small 3-bed with a tiny garden and a massive mortgage. Meanwhile Pawel, mortgage free, is planting his orchard - and they're FB friends with their old mate Pawel, and see what he's doing.

They also see their country changing around them in ways they did not vote for and which were never brought up for discussion in the public sphere. Rural people are VERY pissed off with the rate of development in the countryside - I have had so many conversations in which we all mourn the loss of good arable land to housing, road building, electricity sub-stations, industrial units and the like.

There is a feeling of powerlessness and complete disconnection from the political process. And I genuinely worry that if our (smug, remote, up itself) political class doesn't clue on bloody fast, shit will go down. When, where or how I don't know, but it won't be pretty.

And these are not bad people. They are pissed off-people. Pissed off because wages have been held down, because their kids can't afford decent accommodation, because a fucking massive housing estate is being glued onto the edge of their village so the school is now overcrowded...

Where do we go from here?

I think what you say about the current mood on rural communities is important especially because the Lib Dems have been the traditional alternative to the Tories in lots of country places. Labour have never stood a chance of winning in these constituencies.
I am very worried that Reform will simply hoover up a lot of these voters who feel a massive disconnect with the Tories (and Labour) and see gender woo overcoming the Lib Dems.

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 22/09/2025 23:15

Slothtoes · 22/09/2025 22:34

I think what you say about the current mood on rural communities is important especially because the Lib Dems have been the traditional alternative to the Tories in lots of country places. Labour have never stood a chance of winning in these constituencies.
I am very worried that Reform will simply hoover up a lot of these voters who feel a massive disconnect with the Tories (and Labour) and see gender woo overcoming the Lib Dems.

They make a connection with rising population (largely fuelled by immigration)

From 2004 to 2023, 65% of population growth is the result of net migration
Since 2020 almost all population growth is due to net migration

FWR not the place for it but, like trans, another example of something that we can't have a sensible discussion about.

IwantToRetire · 22/09/2025 23:30

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 22/09/2025 23:15

They make a connection with rising population (largely fuelled by immigration)

From 2004 to 2023, 65% of population growth is the result of net migration
Since 2020 almost all population growth is due to net migration

FWR not the place for it but, like trans, another example of something that we can't have a sensible discussion about.

We also cant have a sensible discussion about it as most people pick and just the facile media for the "truth" that suits their existing views.

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Apollo441 · 22/09/2025 23:37

Local Libdem came around tonight asking if there was anything I'd like to raise with the councillors. I asked if a woman could have a penis. The old guy sighed nodded and left without a word. I suspect it wasn't the first time he'd been asked this evening. Let's hope he feeds back up the chain.

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 22/09/2025 23:37

IwantToRetire · 22/09/2025 23:30

We also cant have a sensible discussion about it as most people pick and just the facile media for the "truth" that suits their existing views.

It is difficult to know what the true figures are - the ones quoted above are from the ONS, so hopefully well informed.

Equally, I'm not sure what other source could be used to corroborate

IwantToRetire · 23/09/2025 02:05

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 22/09/2025 23:37

It is difficult to know what the true figures are - the ones quoted above are from the ONS, so hopefully well informed.

Equally, I'm not sure what other source could be used to corroborate

I wasn't doubting your figures.

I was pointing out that we no longer live in a world where "official" sources are accepted for being that.

We live in a world of alternative facts, ie facts that suit what we think.

So the Trump can say that panadol use in pregnancy causes autism, and why there has been an increase in it, because the Amish have no autism and they dont use modern medicine.

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SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 23/09/2025 09:19

IwantToRetire · 23/09/2025 02:05

I wasn't doubting your figures.

I was pointing out that we no longer live in a world where "official" sources are accepted for being that.

We live in a world of alternative facts, ie facts that suit what we think.

So the Trump can say that panadol use in pregnancy causes autism, and why there has been an increase in it, because the Amish have no autism and they dont use modern medicine.

We live in a world of alternative facts, ie facts that suit what we think.

Agreed. For me, the moment that public figures started talking about 'my truth' and 'my lived experience' marked a turning point in the retreat from factual decision making

fromorbit · 23/09/2025 09:20

The pro-men Liberal women's group big sexist conference banner "transphobia isn't Feminist" has been called out by JKR

J.K. Rowling
Feminism fought for women's sex-based rights. Pretending males can also be female erases sex-based rights. Calling women and girls 'transphobic' for wanting sex-based rights is misogyny. #LibDemMisogyny
https://x.com/jk_rowling/status/1970176106478141812

J.K. Rowling (@jk_rowling) on X

Feminism fought for women's sex-based rights. Pretending males can also be female erases sex-based rights. Calling women and girls 'transphobic' for wanting sex-based rights is misogyny. #LibDemMisogyny

https://x.com/jk_rowling/status/1970176106478141812

somethingnewandexciting · 23/09/2025 09:58

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cy0vvle9w7zo
Has this been posted? Didn't want to start a new thread but honestly, I despair! I have voted for LD in the past but can't vote for this.
I was just getting excited as Davey was suggesting US scientists come here, moving towards ID cards and finally being heard on BBC over Farage thanks to the Beeb being taken to court by Cardiff about impartiality. Then this. WTAF LD.

somethingnewandexciting · 23/09/2025 10:06

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 22/09/2025 23:37

It is difficult to know what the true figures are - the ones quoted above are from the ONS, so hopefully well informed.

Equally, I'm not sure what other source could be used to corroborate

I was worrying about this recently too as there have been a few news stories where they've made statistical errors; one example being that they were using data from companies who self reported only salaries for women, resulting in us not realising the pay gap was underestimated for two decades https://www.theguardian.com/world/2025/aug/25/uk-gender-pay-gap-underestimated-for-two-decades-report-says

And https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/mar/21/troubled-uk-statistics-agency-warns-of-errors-in-its-growth-figures

I think we are going to have to be very careful that this mistakes don't spiral into mistrust of these organisations (I'm already wondering what else they've affected - things we've long suspected aren't working because they don't have adequate resources), or design some further oversight team or something.

UK gender pay gap underestimated for two decades, report says

Findings suggest since 2004 ONS failed to properly account for fact it received more data from larger employers

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2025/aug/25/uk-gender-pay-gap-underestimated-for-two-decades-report-says

EdithStourton · 23/09/2025 10:19

Slothtoes · 22/09/2025 22:34

I think what you say about the current mood on rural communities is important especially because the Lib Dems have been the traditional alternative to the Tories in lots of country places. Labour have never stood a chance of winning in these constituencies.
I am very worried that Reform will simply hoover up a lot of these voters who feel a massive disconnect with the Tories (and Labour) and see gender woo overcoming the Lib Dems.

I would agree: a lot of the non-Tory vote around here has traditionally gone LibDem, which is reflected in the make-up of the district council. I even voted for them last time around, after personal assurances from the two candidates that they thought gender-woo was bollocks (well, they phrased it more politely than that...)

And Reform is massively gaining ground. I have seen a lot of flags up, which is another clue.

I found myself a few months ago explaining to a very old friend, LibDem to her core, why Farage had won in Clacton. Nobody had listened, I told her. They were caught up with gender woo while banning discussions on immigration => house prices => massive housebuilding. She did seem to take the point.

Also, a personal whinge of mine: the political class, in all its ramifications from the very top to small quangos, does NOT understand the countryside at all. For example, I recently answered a survey about the Countryside Code. It asked me what category of respondent I was. There were various categories for visitors to the countryside, but not a single one that I could tick as someone who lives in the countryside and walks in it almost every day of the year. I was quite cross and made a comment in the open text box at the end.

Feed that level of utter cluelessness up the line and you start to understand why nobody in Westminster seems to understand how people feel about the land.

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 23/09/2025 11:06

somethingnewandexciting · 23/09/2025 10:06

I was worrying about this recently too as there have been a few news stories where they've made statistical errors; one example being that they were using data from companies who self reported only salaries for women, resulting in us not realising the pay gap was underestimated for two decades https://www.theguardian.com/world/2025/aug/25/uk-gender-pay-gap-underestimated-for-two-decades-report-says

And https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/mar/21/troubled-uk-statistics-agency-warns-of-errors-in-its-growth-figures

I think we are going to have to be very careful that this mistakes don't spiral into mistrust of these organisations (I'm already wondering what else they've affected - things we've long suspected aren't working because they don't have adequate resources), or design some further oversight team or something.

I have not looked into the calculation of gender pay gap before.

Are you aware of a definitive method for calculation?

ThreeWordHarpy · 23/09/2025 15:57

EdithStourton · 22/09/2025 09:06

I think midwits come from any social class, but the MC have the confidence to make more noise.

Picking up on what your DH found...
I have lived most of my life in the same fairly rural area. I'm very involved in local life and I know a lot of people from a wide range of backgrounds. I'm also on several countryside pages on FB.

And people are pissed off. They try to obey the law (other than speed restrictions, and the odd bit of planning...) and they look at the failure to control blatant illegal immigration with utter bewilderment. They make a connection with rising population (largely fuelled by immigration) and the housing shortage, hence their kids not being able to buy a place and move out, and hence the sheer number of families living in static caravans while building a house in what was their parents' large side garden (surprisingly common down the back lanes where I live). Most of them have no issue with individual immigrants - the bloke who runs the takeaway in the former village pub and has a lock-in on a Tuesday night is everybody's mate. They have an issue with illegality, and the sheer unmanageable scale of the current inflow of people.

They are feeling squeezed, too, by years of being undercut in their trades by Pawel from Poland. Pawel, even if he has a wife and kids, is still willing to live in cramped accommodation and save like buggery for a few years, because when he moves back to Poland, the £££ he (and his wife) has saved will buy him (them) an actual house more or less outright in his home village. Whereas if they live in the same circumstances (and often do), they might make it to a small 3-bed with a tiny garden and a massive mortgage. Meanwhile Pawel, mortgage free, is planting his orchard - and they're FB friends with their old mate Pawel, and see what he's doing.

They also see their country changing around them in ways they did not vote for and which were never brought up for discussion in the public sphere. Rural people are VERY pissed off with the rate of development in the countryside - I have had so many conversations in which we all mourn the loss of good arable land to housing, road building, electricity sub-stations, industrial units and the like.

There is a feeling of powerlessness and complete disconnection from the political process. And I genuinely worry that if our (smug, remote, up itself) political class doesn't clue on bloody fast, shit will go down. When, where or how I don't know, but it won't be pretty.

And these are not bad people. They are pissed off-people. Pissed off because wages have been held down, because their kids can't afford decent accommodation, because a fucking massive housing estate is being glued onto the edge of their village so the school is now overcrowded...

Where do we go from here?

This ties in with my experience too - I’m a bit more urban but spend a lot of time rurally. There’s huge swathes of the country that are going to vote for Reform at the next general election and the mainstream parties are utterly clueless as to why and/or what to do about it.

I think the only way Reform won’t win the GE is if the mainstream parties collaborate in key constituencies and run a single, centrist ABF (anyone but Farage) candidate in opposition to Reform. But Farage is steaming ahead and every now and then will come up with something that even I (old fashioned socialist leftie) will admit he has a point. Of course, this shows his total absence of core values outside anti-immigration, and his willingness to support any popular policy that will get him the vote.

I don’t know whether to be more concerned about the actual policies or the total lack of any credibility of Reform politicians outside Tice and Jenkins - both of whom represent rural areas perfectly described by Edith. We’ve only got to look at the USA to see the chaos that a populist AND incompetent government can cause.

BundleBoogie · 23/09/2025 16:39

There was a motion that I wasn't part of to move on to next business but, given we debated these very issues just a few months ago, I think it's quite reasonable to say we're the only party engaging with these issues."

Ed Davey from the BBC report posted by @somethingnewandexciting

Are the LDs really engaging with these issues? I don’t remember a debate from the LDs - was he referring to a court case?

You’d think that if they actually were engaging with the issues they would have updated their policies to be lawful and not voted down discussion about but but what do I know?

Mollyollydolly · 23/09/2025 16:51

"There aren't many things guaranteed in life. But if the BBC is interviewing a Lib Dem member called 'Rebecca', who's wearing an 'Elect More Women' t-shirt, the chances that he's a man is 100%"

Watch the clip from Politics Live, it'll give you a laugh if nothing else.

x.com/ripx4nutmeg/status/1970463459335926057

JamieCannister · 23/09/2025 17:42

ThreeWordHarpy · 23/09/2025 15:57

This ties in with my experience too - I’m a bit more urban but spend a lot of time rurally. There’s huge swathes of the country that are going to vote for Reform at the next general election and the mainstream parties are utterly clueless as to why and/or what to do about it.

I think the only way Reform won’t win the GE is if the mainstream parties collaborate in key constituencies and run a single, centrist ABF (anyone but Farage) candidate in opposition to Reform. But Farage is steaming ahead and every now and then will come up with something that even I (old fashioned socialist leftie) will admit he has a point. Of course, this shows his total absence of core values outside anti-immigration, and his willingness to support any popular policy that will get him the vote.

I don’t know whether to be more concerned about the actual policies or the total lack of any credibility of Reform politicians outside Tice and Jenkins - both of whom represent rural areas perfectly described by Edith. We’ve only got to look at the USA to see the chaos that a populist AND incompetent government can cause.

100% spot on

IwantToRetire · 23/09/2025 17:51

Farage is steaming ahead

Only because the media is giving him an easy ride.

If they had ridiculed him from the start, he would just be a comedy act.

It is the media treating him as normal that is the problem.

But does illustrate (as happened in the US with Trump) is that if you constantly hear someone talking bollocks then the bollocks no longer seems bollocks.

Like the net migration figures.

The other side of that figue is not the immigrantion, but that we, ie the UK as a whole, isn't having enough children (in terms of economic futures).

So if we dont want to have children we need other people to fill the gaps.

The worry is that too many people just take sound bits of tv, and dont bother to engage their brains.

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JamieCannister · 23/09/2025 18:09

IwantToRetire · 23/09/2025 17:51

Farage is steaming ahead

Only because the media is giving him an easy ride.

If they had ridiculed him from the start, he would just be a comedy act.

It is the media treating him as normal that is the problem.

But does illustrate (as happened in the US with Trump) is that if you constantly hear someone talking bollocks then the bollocks no longer seems bollocks.

Like the net migration figures.

The other side of that figue is not the immigrantion, but that we, ie the UK as a whole, isn't having enough children (in terms of economic futures).

So if we dont want to have children we need other people to fill the gaps.

The worry is that too many people just take sound bits of tv, and dont bother to engage their brains.

I disagree.

For one, lots of people don't trust the MSM, not least reform voters. I don't believe that pointing out that best case is that he has honest intentions but is an incompetent grifter and puppet for Trump would have any impact.

As someone who has never voted to a party for the right of the Lib Dems, and more often voted labour, I can certainly see that there are a lot of people out there like me.

Not impressed with labour at all, not least their failure to be even vaguely centre left in economic terms, their hatred of free speech and their TQ+ / woke elements which have far too much power.

Tories - useless by their own standards, and I don't like their standards.

Lib Dem, greens - Total woke / TQ+ nonsense.

As someone who is left wing my choice is really "vote Reform because at least they seem to be quite anti TQ+ / woke, and they might actually try to do a tiny bit to address excessive immigration and islamism" or "don't vote because they are all totally appalling".

Also, in terms of population / economic growth. On the one hand you are right, we need immigration to boost the economy and do jobs we need doing. On the other hand it is blatantly completely unsustainable and anti- what the British population want to continue with the pyramid scheme we currently have, whereby government debt rises, productivity stagnates, and we have to increase the population to pay the increasing debt and look after the elderly (just like in 50 years the same thing will still be happening). People - even if they can;t express it clearly - understand that this is an issue.

IwantToRetire · 23/09/2025 18:16

JamieCannister · 23/09/2025 18:09

I disagree.

For one, lots of people don't trust the MSM, not least reform voters. I don't believe that pointing out that best case is that he has honest intentions but is an incompetent grifter and puppet for Trump would have any impact.

As someone who has never voted to a party for the right of the Lib Dems, and more often voted labour, I can certainly see that there are a lot of people out there like me.

Not impressed with labour at all, not least their failure to be even vaguely centre left in economic terms, their hatred of free speech and their TQ+ / woke elements which have far too much power.

Tories - useless by their own standards, and I don't like their standards.

Lib Dem, greens - Total woke / TQ+ nonsense.

As someone who is left wing my choice is really "vote Reform because at least they seem to be quite anti TQ+ / woke, and they might actually try to do a tiny bit to address excessive immigration and islamism" or "don't vote because they are all totally appalling".

Also, in terms of population / economic growth. On the one hand you are right, we need immigration to boost the economy and do jobs we need doing. On the other hand it is blatantly completely unsustainable and anti- what the British population want to continue with the pyramid scheme we currently have, whereby government debt rises, productivity stagnates, and we have to increase the population to pay the increasing debt and look after the elderly (just like in 50 years the same thing will still be happening). People - even if they can;t express it clearly - understand that this is an issue.

Everything you say maybe true but what rational person would then think Reform has the answers.

Just so daft and counter intuitive.

That's why it is dangerous that Farage is treated by MSM as though he is "normal".

Even if it means thatas you are queuing at the supermarket check out and see some headline.

We all know that the MSM (papers and tv) can absolutely destroy someone.

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IwantToRetire · 23/09/2025 18:20

By some chance I happened to hear part of Ed Davey's conference speech. And if they weren't being such idiots over TWAW I would vote for them based on that speech.

Its the speech the Starmer should have made, instead of all that island of strangers nonsense.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cjedy22e0yqt

Don't let Farage turn UK into Trump's America, Davey tells Lib Dem conference - live updates

The Lib Dem leader claims under Nigel Farage's plans there would be no NHS and gun laws would be "rolled back".

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cjedy22e0yqt

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ThreeWordHarpy · 23/09/2025 19:17

IwantToRetire · 23/09/2025 18:16

Everything you say maybe true but what rational person would then think Reform has the answers.

Just so daft and counter intuitive.

That's why it is dangerous that Farage is treated by MSM as though he is "normal".

Even if it means thatas you are queuing at the supermarket check out and see some headline.

We all know that the MSM (papers and tv) can absolutely destroy someone.

Farage has been mocked and maligned in MSM for decades now. It only makes him more popular amongst his supporters. (See also: Trump). His party is getting lots of votes, therefore the press has to take him seriously. I would argue they should be taking him more seriously than they currently are, properly pulling apart all his policy statements to show just how unworkable they are.

The problem with using language such as “engaging brains”, “rational”, “daft” is that it is not actually engaging with the people who are disenfranchised and disillusioned with mainstream politics, especially those described so well by Edith. And in many situations it is counter-productive to effectively call someone ill informed and stupid if you’re trying to persuade someone to your point of view.