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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Hundreds of firms warn new guidance on single sex spaces is ‘unworkable’ and would cause ‘significant economic harm’

372 replies

IwantToRetire · 16/09/2025 18:31

More than 650 organisations have urged Bridget Phillipson to ‘take immediate action to prevent these proposals from moving forward’

“We, the undersigned businesses and organisations, are writing to express our deep concern at proposals seeking to enforce blanket, mandatory exclusion of trans people from gendered spaces and services.

“The proposals made in the EHRC’s draft Code of Practice under the Equality Act would have serious and far-reaching consequences for UK businesses, our employees, and our customers.

“Many of us have spent years building inclusive environments where all customers and staff feel safe and welcome. These proposals would tell us to act in ways that directly contradict those commitments; undermining trust, damaging reputations, and risking the loss of valued staff and customers.”

They also express concern that the proposals would put them at “constant risk of complaints and litigation from multiple directions”, as well as forcing “business staff into the unacceptable role of ‘gender police’”.

“Such practices are not only deeply invasive, but likely impossible to implement without breaching Article 8 of The Human Rights Act, which protects rights to privacy, and risking discriminating against valued trans customers and colleagues”

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/supreme-court-trans-single-sex-spaces-b2826924.html

So women's rights are less important than commercial compliance.

Hundreds of firms warn new draft guidance on single sex spaces is ‘unworkable’

Exclusive: More than 650 organisations have urged Bridget Phillipson to ‘take immediate action to prevent these proposals from moving forward’

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/supreme-court-trans-single-sex-spaces-b2826924.html

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Soontobe60 · 16/09/2025 20:15

How much does it cost to print off two A4 sheets one saying Male the other Female?

MarieDeGournay · 16/09/2025 20:15

vegetarianlouise · 16/09/2025 19:57

Too expensive, not enough space and people not really caring (besides the British women on mumsnet who seem to think it's a pretty big f-cking deal).

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You're right, it's too expensive to add a unisex toilet to the existing men's, women's and disabled toilets.

So why bother? Men's + women's + accessible disabled = 100% of the population catered for.

What's the justification for a 'too expensive' addition to facilitate about 0.2% of the population.

Queen0fTheNorth · 16/09/2025 20:15

vegetarianlouise · 16/09/2025 20:04

I was just making a point that unisex bathrooms are starting to be the law in many European countries, that I come from one where this is happening, that as a woman i feel perfectly comfortable and i haven't heard of any backlash. Feel free to have a different opinion.

Europe can do whatever it pleases. Makes not a jot of difference to us. This is Terf island, we do things differently here.

Mochudubh · 16/09/2025 20:15

Hmm! I visit Spain a couple of times a year so I'm aware my experience can't compare with someone who lives there but since we're talking anecdotally, I don't think mixed sex facilities are all that common. Where I visit, a small city near, but not in, a popular resort area, all venues except maybe the very smallest bars have designated male and female toilets.

Thinking back to my last visit I think the opposite is true, even tiny almost "hole in the wall" type places where I was prepared for there to be one toilet but was pleasantly surprised that they'd managed to fit 2 in for Male & Female. I genuinely can't think of a place that only had one loo, even in places I'd expect that if they were in UK.

Maybe Louise lives in a more pro regressive part of Spain.

@Queen0fTheNorth

While I was typing you posted this above.

Europe can do whatever it pleases. Makes not a jot of difference to us. This is Terf island, we do things differently here.

100% The whole burble about Spain is meaningless.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 16/09/2025 20:16

IwantToRetire · 16/09/2025 20:13

we do need a good laugh emoji reaction.

Thanks for delving deep!

Grin

trans in the city and global butterflies are on the list you'll be astonished to learn

aren't they all chaps anyway? no need for ladies loo there...

Catiette · 16/09/2025 20:18

Good to see that this place is on the list. Always most reassuring to know that when a male follows your 7-year-old daughter into the ladies' that there's no need to worry - it's because the business has inclusive values and is averse to safe-guarding-related "policing" of sexed spaces.

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TriesNotToBeCynical · 16/09/2025 20:19

Thingybob · 16/09/2025 19:38

Wouldn't that take years?

Surely everyone would still have to adhere to the law as it currently is in the meantime.

I don't think Starmer is stupid enough to do it. But if framed as an emergency response to an Awful Calamity it could actually be done just as quickly as they want.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 16/09/2025 20:19

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 16/09/2025 20:16

trans in the city and global butterflies are on the list you'll be astonished to learn

aren't they all chaps anyway? no need for ladies loo there...

464. Fukthekclockhairstudio

I've been looking for a new hairdresser, they sound reliable and like they won't cut my fringe too short, don't they?

IwantToRetire · 16/09/2025 20:20

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 16/09/2025 20:16

trans in the city and global butterflies are on the list you'll be astonished to learn

aren't they all chaps anyway? no need for ladies loo there...

Thanks for reading through. All that pink and blue just put me off.

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WallaceinAnderland · 16/09/2025 20:20

We, the undersigned businesses and organisations, are writing to express our deep concern at proposals seeking to enforce blanket, mandatory exclusion of trans people from gendered spaces and services.

Do they know something we don't? Where is the exclusion from gendered spaces and services?

InfoSecInTheCity · 16/09/2025 20:20

I don’t really understand either of the arguments that the signers of this letter are making.

  • Too expensive to change it back. From what I can make out the majority of these companies have just replaced the sign on the door of the womens toilet (never the mens for some unknown reason). Not exactly a massive expense,
  • Policing it. Is any woman expecting businesses to put a guard on the door to check sex at entry? I’ve never encountered that expectation amongst any of the women I have seen or heard discussion this topic. The expectation is simply that there will be accurate signage and that if a report is made to staff that someone is in the wrong facility that the staff member will address the issue at that point. Now it should be expected that this would be a rare event and something that would be treated seriously as a concerning violation, because the signage will clearly state the space is for women only and there is a common understanding of what that means so any male breaching that is clearly behaving in a way that should cause alarm. We know from all the people who tell us, that Trans Women are gentle, caring, unassuming sorts who would never ever want to act in such a way as to cause distress to another human being so they will clearly adhere to the rules and respect the boundaries that have been made clear to them. Or are the businesses who signed this letter expecting something different?
RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 16/09/2025 20:21

outofdate · 16/09/2025 20:06

Absolute rubbish ‘Louise’ or more likely Louis.
I travel extensively in Spain and rarely have I seen ‘one big bathroom’
Single sex toilets are still everywhere though admittedly the pictures on the doors can sometimes be tricky to decipher.
I suggest you do a bit of travelling in your own country!

we went to a cuban style restaurant in this country and the toilets were marked senor and senorita

son in law only realised is was in the wrong one when he came face to face with me 😀

AnSolas · 16/09/2025 20:21

Another2Cats · 16/09/2025 20:01

Not as such in the article. It just says "...and hundreds of small cafes and pubs".

The only two noteworthy names appear to be Ben & Jerry's Ice Cream and Lush. Both of these companies are rather outspoken on various topics, not just this one.

The only quote was from "KIN Sustainable Homes".

Alex Whitcroft, the director of housing developer KIN, told The Independent: “It’s incredibly frustrating for a small construction sector business like us which uses shared office space and has staff visiting sites with gendered facilities."

“We don’t want to enforce trans exclusion on staff or clients and communities we work with. The proposals are completely unworkable, especially for [small businesses] like us and leave us carrying significant admin cost and risk.”
“We don’t have any desire to implement this and hope the government speaks up and defends small businesses on this”, they added.
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Interestingly, this Alex Whitcroft, director, updated their details on the Companies House register earlier this year. He had previously been "Mr Alexander Stuart Whitcroft" but is now "Mx Alex River Whitcroft"

Hmmm, I wonder if this is in any way connected?

This appears to be KIN Ltd (formerly KIN Architects Ltd), of whom Alexander/Alex is a director. There are four employees including directors, although the year before there were only two employees so it does look like they are expanding (from two people to four).
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"a small ... business like us which uses shared office space"

So, they're using shared office space and they seem to be complaining that the office space provider might be wanting to actually follow the law!

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The construction industry famous for providing toilets and drying rooms on small build sites.

Lovely to see another possible non-law abiding company in an industry which tops the biggest killer of employees in the UK each year.

BundleBoogie · 16/09/2025 20:22

vegetarianlouise · 16/09/2025 19:19

I didn't make that choice, my goverment made it, I'm perfectly fine with it and the public too. It hasn't been an issue in Spain so far. It's ok that as a British person you disagree with it. I believe there's a cultural element to
it, spaniards we are pretty relaxed in general.

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You don’t speak for all women in Spain.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 16/09/2025 20:23

IwantToRetire · 16/09/2025 20:20

Thanks for reading through. All that pink and blue just put me off.

dunno what happened to 577

577. [Removed from published version]

got shy or suddenly realised they were making themselves look like woman hating morons?

Catiette · 16/09/2025 20:24
  1. The New Feminist

Ain't that the truth?

Ddakji · 16/09/2025 20:25

Does anyone have the list of organisations that signed this letter? I can’t see it in the article linked to.

Catiette · 16/09/2025 20:25

Some of these are marvellous. I love our British creativity and subversive, surreal use of language.

  1. Butch Salads
  2. Hells Bells FC
MarieDeGournay · 16/09/2025 20:26

AnSolas · 16/09/2025 20:21

The construction industry famous for providing toilets and drying rooms on small build sites.

Lovely to see another possible non-law abiding company in an industry which tops the biggest killer of employees in the UK each year.

And also the construction industry which is subject to Building Regs which require single-sex toilets in the first place, with unisex provision as an optional extra, or where there's insufficient space.

Are "KIN Sustainable Homes" going to build structures that comply with Building Regs?

Another2Cats · 16/09/2025 20:26

TheignT · 16/09/2025 20:14

I've worked in an Elizabethan building and a Victorian building where there was one toilet so both sexes had to use it. Listed buildings with no ability to change it. Would that be a case where the rules wouldn't apply. I loved working in the Victorian building and not sure what else they can do.

The rules still apply there. What the rules actually say (you mentioned working so I presume that these are toilets that the employees use?) is that where, for example, there is only one toilet then that is fine as long as it is in a separate room which can be locked from the inside.

If each toilet is in a separate lockable room (with a hand basin) then it doesn't have to be male or female, anybody can use it.

vegetarianlouise · 16/09/2025 20:26

BundleBoogie · 16/09/2025 20:22

You don’t speak for all women in Spain.

(edited: sorry doble posted)

vegetarianlouise · 16/09/2025 20:26

BundleBoogie · 16/09/2025 20:22

You don’t speak for all women in Spain.

And thank god for that, but I've never heard any debate about it (in real life, forums or media), while I see plenty of debate about this issue in the UK. Different cultures different attitudes? Probably.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 16/09/2025 20:27

https://www.transsolidarityalliance.com/_files/ugd/bcf2fc_440a2269fc25416aa4f0f89a262b19a7.pdf

well that's a list of tattoo parlours, mobile hairdressers and queer collectives who won't be getting my business thankyousoverymuch

https://www.transsolidarityalliance.com/_files/ugd/bcf2fc_440a2269fc25416aa4f0f89a262b19a7.pdf

Mochudubh · 16/09/2025 20:29

Re above, I have just thought of one bar that has only one toilet. It also happens to be one of the few that is wheelchair accessible so maybe that's the payoff in small venues - Sex-segregated v Accessible provision. If that's the choice, I'd rather go for mixed-sex and accessible but that's one area where I think Europe generally are actually behind the UK.

EyesOpening · 16/09/2025 20:29

Ddakji · 16/09/2025 20:25

Does anyone have the list of organisations that signed this letter? I can’t see it in the article linked to.

There's a link in OP's fourth post