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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Hundreds of firms warn new guidance on single sex spaces is ‘unworkable’ and would cause ‘significant economic harm’

372 replies

IwantToRetire · 16/09/2025 18:31

More than 650 organisations have urged Bridget Phillipson to ‘take immediate action to prevent these proposals from moving forward’

“We, the undersigned businesses and organisations, are writing to express our deep concern at proposals seeking to enforce blanket, mandatory exclusion of trans people from gendered spaces and services.

“The proposals made in the EHRC’s draft Code of Practice under the Equality Act would have serious and far-reaching consequences for UK businesses, our employees, and our customers.

“Many of us have spent years building inclusive environments where all customers and staff feel safe and welcome. These proposals would tell us to act in ways that directly contradict those commitments; undermining trust, damaging reputations, and risking the loss of valued staff and customers.”

They also express concern that the proposals would put them at “constant risk of complaints and litigation from multiple directions”, as well as forcing “business staff into the unacceptable role of ‘gender police’”.

“Such practices are not only deeply invasive, but likely impossible to implement without breaching Article 8 of The Human Rights Act, which protects rights to privacy, and risking discriminating against valued trans customers and colleagues”

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/supreme-court-trans-single-sex-spaces-b2826924.html

So women's rights are less important than commercial compliance.

Hundreds of firms warn new draft guidance on single sex spaces is ‘unworkable’

Exclusive: More than 650 organisations have urged Bridget Phillipson to ‘take immediate action to prevent these proposals from moving forward’

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/supreme-court-trans-single-sex-spaces-b2826924.html

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AnSolas · 18/09/2025 13:39

SternJoyousBeev2 · 18/09/2025 13:28

I suspect “FFS, just let them have what they want otherwise they become even bigger pains in the arse and we just want to make a profit running our business without these distractions” also plays a part.

There is that.

There was a utube short doing the rounds a few months ago with a woman saying she would never employ pronoun CV people as they would disrupt her businesses and cost her money to manage.

The "pronoun noise" in the US tech industry is a warning to any big business whos senior management want to beat their market and earn big salary/bonus rewards.

The fact that unions are so rabbid about it will imo make it more unappealing going forward.

SerendipityJane · 18/09/2025 13:41

Shedmistress · 18/09/2025 12:52

Do they? Who prosecutes them? How do they find out about it? How many businesses who have been breaking the law on single sex spaces have actually been prosecuted?

Yes. Laws that aren't enforced aren't laws at all.

Like rights that can't be upheld without using a legal system denied the subject.

HardyNavyBear · 18/09/2025 15:01

vegetarianlouise · 16/09/2025 18:56

Hi, Spaniard here (living in the UK) for a while. Our laws regarding bathrooms in public spaces changed. couple of years ago. Nowadays it's all ONE big bathroom with lots of closed toilets, the old fashioned model of two bathrooms (one for men and another for women) is gone fir good. Mens urinals are gone too (now they need to pee in a toilet). Obviously not all businesses/bars in spain have changed their bathrooms into one, many of them still keep the old two bathroom model.

Did the earth shake? No.Are we outraged at this? Not the slightest, we have more important things to worry.

signed: a spaniard totally fine with sharing a bathroom with guys.

Your dismissiveness of how the majority of girls and women feel about wanting safety, dignity and privacy in public toilets is noted. It almost has a male ring to it. You are someone who clearly has never been subjected to male violence or perversion. You are welcome to your opinion but your opinion is just that your opinion. Spain is not the UK. And I suspect that given 5-10 years Spanish women will be crying foul that there are no longer any SSS.

HardyNavyBear · 18/09/2025 15:09

vegetarianlouise · 16/09/2025 19:26

Sweden, Denmark and Scandinavia are also adopting the "unisex public bathrooms" policy so it's not only spain.

Great, I will check those countries off my list to visit.

HardyNavyBear · 18/09/2025 15:21

Someone needs to develop an app or website for women that lists every organisation that is anti-women’s rights. That way we can be more intentional when we decide to patronise a business or organisation and only support pro-women entities.

HardyNavyBear · 18/09/2025 15:31

Theswiveleyeballsinthesky · 16/09/2025 20:03

lol your mask is so thin

do you want to add in that we're "old" and pearl clutchers" and now to save time?

any comment on the male prisoner claiming to be a woman in Spain who got an inmate pregnant? Or do those boring unfree women not count in comparison to how fun & cool you are with it all?

And to be clear, prisoners cannot give informed consent so impregnating the woman was technically rape.

Mapletree1985 · 18/09/2025 15:58

IwantToRetire · 16/09/2025 18:31

More than 650 organisations have urged Bridget Phillipson to ‘take immediate action to prevent these proposals from moving forward’

“We, the undersigned businesses and organisations, are writing to express our deep concern at proposals seeking to enforce blanket, mandatory exclusion of trans people from gendered spaces and services.

“The proposals made in the EHRC’s draft Code of Practice under the Equality Act would have serious and far-reaching consequences for UK businesses, our employees, and our customers.

“Many of us have spent years building inclusive environments where all customers and staff feel safe and welcome. These proposals would tell us to act in ways that directly contradict those commitments; undermining trust, damaging reputations, and risking the loss of valued staff and customers.”

They also express concern that the proposals would put them at “constant risk of complaints and litigation from multiple directions”, as well as forcing “business staff into the unacceptable role of ‘gender police’”.

“Such practices are not only deeply invasive, but likely impossible to implement without breaching Article 8 of The Human Rights Act, which protects rights to privacy, and risking discriminating against valued trans customers and colleagues”

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/supreme-court-trans-single-sex-spaces-b2826924.html

So women's rights are less important than commercial compliance.

I thought trans people were only a tiny, tiny, tiny percentage of the population, really not worth worrying our pretty heads about, which was why we didn't need to clarify that sex in law means biological sex - practically nobody would be affected. That was one of the arguments the TRAs put forward. Yet now it seems they're so essential to the economy that making them sad will lead to economic ruin.

MarieDeGournay · 18/09/2025 17:16

Mapletree1985 · 18/09/2025 15:58

I thought trans people were only a tiny, tiny, tiny percentage of the population, really not worth worrying our pretty heads about, which was why we didn't need to clarify that sex in law means biological sex - practically nobody would be affected. That was one of the arguments the TRAs put forward. Yet now it seems they're so essential to the economy that making them sad will lead to economic ruin.

I noticed that too - they are simultaneously a tiny tiny percentage of the population AND entitled to extensive, disruptive and expensive alternations to every single public building in the nation....

RobinEllacotStrike · 18/09/2025 17:26

HardyNavyBear · 18/09/2025 15:09

Great, I will check those countries off my list to visit.

All countries with devestatingly low birthrates despite high levels of reported "gender parity".

I wonder why?
Will anyone ever join the dots?

BunfightBetty · 18/09/2025 17:27

RobinEllacotStrike · 18/09/2025 17:26

All countries with devestatingly low birthrates despite high levels of reported "gender parity".

I wonder why?
Will anyone ever join the dots?

Not unless it's to the advantage of men, I wouldn't have thought.

HardyNavyBear · 18/09/2025 17:29

MyPinkTraybake · 17/09/2025 09:04

I think the issue we are in an economic crisis - many businesses will go bust if they have to do this. I personally tend not to frequent places that have single sex toilets- these are often for the younger crowd anyway so it doesn't hugely affect me. I don't see an issue with saying to businesses you need to refurbish your toilets by 2040 or 2045 or something. Seems a reasonable timeframe for the decline of a bathroom. Make it compulsory for larger businesses to do it sooner. Smaller businesses could offer a female companion to go to the toilet with you. I'm a woman and that's just one opinion of a woman.

And were the government to wait 15-20 years to force organisations to follow the law, the trans movement and their corporate and government supporters would be even more entrenched then they currently are after a decade of allowing self id.

MyPinkTraybake · 18/09/2025 18:20

HardyNavyBear · 18/09/2025 17:29

And were the government to wait 15-20 years to force organisations to follow the law, the trans movement and their corporate and government supporters would be even more entrenched then they currently are after a decade of allowing self id.

But nothing to stop people taking organisations to court for not following the law. One landmark case, more notice would be taken.

HardyNavyBear · 18/09/2025 20:42

MyPinkTraybake · 18/09/2025 18:20

But nothing to stop people taking organisations to court for not following the law. One landmark case, more notice would be taken.

Yes but I think legal fees associated with law suits prohibit the average woman from taking an organisations to court.

HardyNavyBear · 18/09/2025 20:52

InfoSecInTheCity · 16/09/2025 20:20

I don’t really understand either of the arguments that the signers of this letter are making.

  • Too expensive to change it back. From what I can make out the majority of these companies have just replaced the sign on the door of the womens toilet (never the mens for some unknown reason). Not exactly a massive expense,
  • Policing it. Is any woman expecting businesses to put a guard on the door to check sex at entry? I’ve never encountered that expectation amongst any of the women I have seen or heard discussion this topic. The expectation is simply that there will be accurate signage and that if a report is made to staff that someone is in the wrong facility that the staff member will address the issue at that point. Now it should be expected that this would be a rare event and something that would be treated seriously as a concerning violation, because the signage will clearly state the space is for women only and there is a common understanding of what that means so any male breaching that is clearly behaving in a way that should cause alarm. We know from all the people who tell us, that Trans Women are gentle, caring, unassuming sorts who would never ever want to act in such a way as to cause distress to another human being so they will clearly adhere to the rules and respect the boundaries that have been made clear to them. Or are the businesses who signed this letter expecting something different?

Recall just a decade or so ago when if you went to the ladies and a male was in it, all you had to do was call management to handle the situation (or even the police if the situation warranted)? I’m not sure how that policy was the rule for as long as there has been SSS in public, and everyone (except the pedos and voyeurs) followed the social contract, and yet for some baffling reason these places can’t do the same again?

lcakethereforeIam · 18/09/2025 21:44

Isn't there a woman sueing David Lloyd gyms because they were letting men self id into the women's facilities?

GallantKumquat · 19/09/2025 06:05

StellaAndCrow · 18/09/2025 13:19

Borderline Personality Disorder Collective

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NotNowFGS · 19/09/2025 08:33

I've looked at the list. It's hard to identity a lot of these businesses. I'd like to know exactly who they are so I can find out more/boycott businesses if there are any on the list I use.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/09/2025 12:18

@NotNowFGS I think most of them are very very small businesses such as hairdressers and tattoo studios. Most probably have very small premises and single user toilets so wouldn’t be affected by having to make changes to single sex facilities. It’s quite a pathetic list actually.

viques · 19/09/2025 13:30

deadpan · 16/09/2025 18:48

In other words they can't be arsed spending the time and money involved and want to blame everyone else for it.

What time and money. They just make sure their existing facilities are properly labelled. Then they need to employ adults who know exactly what is in their underwear without having to have it certified and validated by strangers.

SerendipityJane · 19/09/2025 13:49

MarieDeGournay · 18/09/2025 17:16

I noticed that too - they are simultaneously a tiny tiny percentage of the population AND entitled to extensive, disruptive and expensive alternations to every single public building in the nation....

Schrodinger's trans ...

EyesOpening · 19/09/2025 13:52

lcakethereforeIam · 18/09/2025 21:44

Isn't there a woman sueing David Lloyd gyms because they were letting men self id into the women's facilities?

Yes, Emma Hardy.
Just looked at her Twitter and it says a "drop hands settlement" has been reached and At the current time (18/08/25) DL await the new EHRC code of practice.

MyPinkTraybake · 19/09/2025 15:05

HardyNavyBear · 18/09/2025 20:42

Yes but I think legal fees associated with law suits prohibit the average woman from taking an organisations to court.

Given the high profile nature - would a legal firm not do this for free? Or JK Rowling has some money I believe.

lcakethereforeIam · 19/09/2025 15:20

EyesOpening · 19/09/2025 13:52

Yes, Emma Hardy.
Just looked at her Twitter and it says a "drop hands settlement" has been reached and At the current time (18/08/25) DL await the new EHRC code of practice.

'Drop hands'!? Is that gunslinger terminology?

EyesOpening · 19/09/2025 16:08

lcakethereforeIam · 19/09/2025 15:20

'Drop hands'!? Is that gunslinger terminology?

I'd never heard of it before but according to AI
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Grammarnut · 19/09/2025 16:34

vegetarianlouise · 16/09/2025 18:56

Hi, Spaniard here (living in the UK) for a while. Our laws regarding bathrooms in public spaces changed. couple of years ago. Nowadays it's all ONE big bathroom with lots of closed toilets, the old fashioned model of two bathrooms (one for men and another for women) is gone fir good. Mens urinals are gone too (now they need to pee in a toilet). Obviously not all businesses/bars in spain have changed their bathrooms into one, many of them still keep the old two bathroom model.

Did the earth shake? No.Are we outraged at this? Not the slightest, we have more important things to worry.

signed: a spaniard totally fine with sharing a bathroom with guys.

Not all Spaniards are fine with this, however. There are at least two GC groups campaigning against all this nonsense. You are behind the times. Spain needs to catch up - it's biological sex, not a piece of paper...
And assuming you are a woman (biological sort) you may be fine sharing loos with guys but you cannot make that decision for other women. UK government stats suggest over 90% of sexual assaults in lavatories and changing rooms happen in unisex or gender neutral facilities. Are you certain it is not the same in Spain?